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Posted: 12 years ago
#21
now ganga and jagya have created a little misunderstanding so even if saanchi's true colour comes out it will take time for them to reunite
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Personally, I feel ganga lacking in self-respect - a little bit - though most of it is not her fault.
I know that Jagya had given her the promise of working in the hospital... but knowing how hostile his mother was and the fact that he is now engaged to marry someone who dislikes her... I feel that she should herself have found a job in some other hospital to avoid unpleasantness and start a new life...no matter how comfortable and familiar she felt with the Jetsar surroundings.
In a situation like ganga's, once I got my training, if I felt I had feelings towards Jagya which were a dead-end because of his engagement, upcoming marriage and his hostile mother, I would not go down a dead-end.
And ganga had seen his phone calls dwindling, and even when he called he was just cutting off the duration was very less. So maybe, she could have had a sense of all is NOT well... six months is a long time... maybe something changed, maybe sumitra succeeded in changing jagya's mind.
Even if I had no intention of accepting a job, I would still just try to see for the sake of seeing where I could get a job all by myself -- you know - a feeling of "I can do it myself"...
My dad had a company a long time ago, and after I finished my degree, I always had the option of working there, which he had said... but somehow, even though it was my dad (and not a benefactor)... I still felt the need to test myself in the job market.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Truthseeker

She showed no self respect till J turned her down! Forget about self respect, that is not even showing gratitude towards her benefactors. She knew that her doctor saa and his mother will have some difference because of her and still she didn't care about that. At first she didn't have any option but to stay with them because of her helplessness. But now, she chose to disturb them . She was too full of herself to have thought about going back and working in their private property.👎🏼

Hi Truthseeker,
I didn't say that -- but I was thinking it -- and then you said it...
But its correct -- the insolence of going back and working at the hospital seems to me a bit too much of 'badmaashi' -- you know sort of challenging sumitra - saying nyah nyah nyah nyah -- look I'm back even though you threw me out.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#24
But whatever be the issue with ganga, jagya certainly has no business treating her like a piece of furniture -- one day putting in the living room, next day, moving to the bedroom, next day, into the hall.
He should have had some foresight in six months... particularly since he had a clear lay of the land right from the day anandi told him off in the middle of the night.
What he did was not nice, and in very bad taste.
He could have told her a few months ago that Jetsar would most probably not be an option and asked her whether she would like for him to search an alternative hospital to work at. Would she be okay with it?
If she said yes, then go ahead and find something for her. If no, then wait to see what she says and they should have worked it out TOGETHER with her buy-in.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#25
He was tough with his mother but
Crumbled under Anandi's pressure.

exactly

I had loved it when he had said NO to Anandi about taking her back home .

Simply waiting for him to tell her to butt out and follow his heart .

I don't appreciate ego in any relationship

but what Ganga showed was self respect .

She hurriedly gathered her dignity and said no need .

She had come to terms with not being wanted by his family ...but HIM not wanting her hurt her . That girl made me feel sad .


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Posted: 12 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

What a beautiful lover's misunderstanding


she refused coz she felt he was keeping her at a distance ...which he WAS

He has listened to Anandi on rectitude

which bull they r showing , no muhurath for 6 months ...is this possible even in serials

Bullpucky nonsense

Jagan scenes were nice . Superb acting by Sriti . Innocent in hurt , innocently puzzled and hurt .

Agree kol, everything between them is beautiful, and these misunderstanding can never be biger then their love.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#27
Ganga is having self-respect so she don't want his help not like Anandi seeking haveli members help B4 marrying Shiv
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sectoreight

Hi Truthseeker,
I didn't say that -- but I was thinking it -- and then you said it...
But its correct -- the insolence of going back and working at the hospital seems to me a bit too much of 'badmaashi' -- you know sort of challenging sumitra - saying nyah nyah nyah nyah -- look I'm back even though you threw me out.


Half of it is the singhs and jagya's fault if Ganga actually expected to work at the hospital, after Ganga went jagya turned up to settle her in and dadisa and Gehna sent gifts, jagya also gifted her and its quite obvious that they kept in contact all this time telling each other of exam results etc. so why wouldn't Ganga expect that the hospital job agreement to still be there. Had they just left her alone she would have continued with her thought that she can't return to jaitser.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Angelic --
the issue is not singhs and jagya.
even if the singhs and jagya were nice to her ... she knew that sumitra and saanchi were not.
given the fact that they are jagya's wife and mother -- then why not just take a move to distance herself even if singhs and jagya are nice to her?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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angelic --
the point that truthseeker and I are trying to make is that time and again on a variety of issues, ganga's presence there will become a bone of contention between the singhs -- there will be fights between dadisa and sumitra, gehna and sumitra, jagya and sumitra, bhairon and sumitra ... jagya and saanchi etc. etc. etc.
Every now and then there will be flare-ups between singh vs. singh.
Ganga is well aware of that.
Why put people in a situation like that knowingly, when you now have education and means to walk out?
It is not possible for ganga to lead a life of seclusion in the hospital quarters or in jetsar.

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