Reality check for Ganga - Page 6

Originally posted by: jmythri

All you said is very true waves,
But in all those examples none of those took sympathy on any of those woman. They had their LOVE as the first feeling or atleast friendship.
I personally HATE sympathy generated loves.
Jagya gave her shelter, food, education and his family treated her fair. Does that make her a family member?? One has the responsibility on themselves to evaluate their place and space. Isn't ganga expecting too much. I know jagya and ganga couple looks good but is that the only factor that jagya has to marry ganga?? Rich guy and poor girl stories are not new but this is entirely different.

Ganga is an outsider and just bco singhs treated her well dosnt mean she can jump into their DIL place. Jagya did so much of talking on woman uplift, now what happened to that??? Just someone has feelings for you . it is your duty to love them back??? jagya has no feelings for ganga in that way. She better have some self respect and try towards her betterment and her sons rather than craving for love of the owner 's son. I felt like slapping her when she is crying for jagya. He did have any feelings for you and he helped you and you are expressing your gratitude my crying over his relationship his family and himself choose?? What a great way of showing gratitude

I will marry whoever Anandi wants me to marry. What is that??? She will tell to marry a eunuch will he marry one??? Is he dumb or deaf or blind??? Anandi is not his any more. Live ad let live. Anandi has no shame to do that to sachi(of course i hate sachi, her dumbness repels me) .

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

can ganga not even cry her heart out when alone with her toddler son..
you want to even take that right away from her because she is poor 😡.

And one more thing. Haveli family is in the habit of buying very poor girls like cattle. Gehna and gauri were purchased like cattle. Even anandi's parents were lured with costly gifts. Suddenly they got a rich girl like sanchi who can buy them all and they are simply overwhelmed.It is such a great royal family!

Originally posted by: jmythri

Its not about rich vs poor. That comparison is really disgusting.

Its about sympathy driven love. And if someone shows care and help you out, there is no need to show gratitude falling for him/her.

One gave you shelter/food/education/reason to love you should still not forget who you are and get carried away.

Without have any basic thing to survive on no woman with a child at her responsibility would crave for love. Let alone when the husband who is a monster is dangling over their heads.

She now knew that ratan was trying to revenge on jagya. Whats was ganga's action for that? Sit and cry for jagya being married or atleast once give a thought of how to get rid of ratan.

I am unhappy you felt that way leaves. each of us have different ways of looking at things. Dont get into sad mode. I already see so many people not talking at all coz of this trash storyline. Even i returened her after a long time. once upon a time this forum used to be lot more fun with ankit, kushi, woman11, asru, hooked, don, and many more. i barely see them on any threads anymore.

Originally posted by: vasiraju

Ganga was their when Shiv said rathan was escaped ...their is no fear in Ganga that he might attack again ...

instead she is crying ..for jagiya marriage ...It seems she totally forgotten about Rathan and his dangerous acts ..How can she forget the person who created hell in her life ,,and still roaming to attack again !!!

well, she was the one who gave this idea of ratan to everyone, right ?
and what do u expect her to do about ratan...she had done all possible in the past on her own to fight out ratan...and has realized that she cant fight him alone now...she needs the support she is getting from shiv & jagya.
it was the love and affection of singh family, shiv's support that ganga could forget her miseries...she has found so much love and affection in her life suddenly that have overridden ratan's bad memories...whats wrong with that... in fact i admire ganga as she doesn't look like the one who keep lamenting on their past.

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

well, she was the one who gave this idea of ratan to everyone, right ?
and what do u expect her to do about ratan...she had done all possible in the past on her own to fight out ratan...and has realized that she cant fight him alone now...she needs the support she is getting from shiv & jagya.
it was the love and affection of singh family, shiv's support that ganga could forget her miseries...she has found so much love and affection in her life suddenly that have overridden ratan's bad memories...whats wrong with that... in fact i admire ganga as she is doesn't look like the one who keep lamenting on their past.

Originally posted by: jmythri

Ganga is tortured and mas mangled for years under ratan but i was full of wonder how that didnt affect her. Instead of thinking about her escape she is busy crying for jagya who was her benefactor, marrying someone else.That shows what she is really giving priority to.

she is neither worried for her nor her son . as a matter of fact not even worried for jagya for whom she is crying. she wants to be his third wife and that si her main targe not being self sufficient , not looking after her or her sons safety.

oh and these mahanta mad cv's will show she will give mannu to ratan to stop attacking her dactar saa. gratitude altitude is so very high for only this particular woman ganga.

Originally posted by: vasiraju

well, she was the one who gave this idea of ratan to everyone, right ?
and what do u expect her to do about ratan...she had done all possible in the past on her own to fight out ratan...and has realized that she cant fight him alone now...she needs the support she is getting from shiv & jagya.
it was the love and affection of singh family, shiv's support that ganga could forget her miseries...she has found so much love and affection in her life suddenly that have overridden ratan's bad memories...whats wrong with that... in fact i admire ganga as she is doesn't look like the one who keep lamenting on their past.

i dont get the impression that she has completely forgotten ratan...ganga was all alone even when she was at ratan's house...and only shares a relation of hatred with him...so its not that she should keep remembering him.
Her child is with her...and as she is taking good care of him...also planning to do the nursing course...she did express her concerns on ratan in the past to jagya and family ...and jagya had reassured her.
why is so difficult do accept that a woman also can have feelings in addition to being a mother.? 😕

Originally posted by: jmythri

well, she was the one who gave this idea of ratan to everyone, right ?
and what do u expect her to do about ratan...she had done all possible in the past on her own to fight out ratan...and has realized that she cant fight him alone now...she needs the support she is getting from shiv & jagya.
it was the love and affection of singh family, shiv's support that ganga could forget her miseries...she has found so much love and affection in her life suddenly that have overridden ratan's bad memories...whats wrong with that... in fact i admire ganga as she doesn't look like the one who keep lamenting on their past.

I am not saying she has to sit and crib over her past. All I am saying is what matter engulfed her so much that she never even gave a thought like what now? dacatar sa is like this bcoz of ratan or something like that. That is no element of fear coz she is living in singhs house and everyone supports her but a element of basic instinct is missing. Which comes after suffering so many days under a monster like him. She didnt even a thought to that but sat crying that she will go away so that she can forget. Did she even gave athought? What will happen to dacatr sa with ratan case. when wil we(all singhs and her family(her and mannu)) get out of this crass

No thinking and crying only that jagya accepted someone else instead of her. 🤢


i understand your point... @bold...that could be the missing link, agree.

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

But she still not out of rathan ,,,though she happily forgets..

I am a mother of two children .. My first priority saving my children and protecting them ..rather than thinking on other matters ..she knows Rathan is behind her child ...why she is not thinking once what could be his next move..

she lived with him for years ..she should have know his cruel thoughts and way doing things ..his weakness..his circle ...something she can be trying remember to save everyone from him...

she is not only the one who is under attack ..the family which is saving her ..she has that responsibility to react for once or for few secs ..its a human natural tendency..

in order to get sympathy TRp's Cv's are forgetting how women with a child react rather than a woman who fell in love reacts

i dont get the impression that she has completely forgotten ratan...ganga was all alone even when she was at ratan's house...and only shares a relation of hatred with him...so its not that she should keep remembering him.
Her child is with her...and as she is taking good care of him...also planning to do the nursing course...she did express her concerns on ratan in the past to jagya and family ...and jagya had reassured her.
why is so difficult do accept that a woman also can have feelings in addition to being a mother.? 😕




The argument started as to how rich the brides were in the examples given by me and how poor ganga is who is also an orphan. Now suddenly the arguments are turning towards ratan and ganga. Confusing and contradicting statements just to justify.

There is this argument that sympathy should not become the basis for marriage. Why not? We all know what happened when love was the basis for Jagya gauri union. In arranged marriages, love is not the main factor. Even in arranged marriages, some parents prefer a suitable girl more than the status.

As for Ratan, he will be caught and jailed for domestic violence, attempted murder and also kidnapping his own child. He may have to serve 10 years for those crimes. This will form basis for their divorce. Once divorce is granted, it is upto Jagya and ganga to decide whether to tie the knot.

Meanwhile Jagya wont stop helping or thinking about ganga. He will postpone his marriage for the sake of ganga. Shekhars will realise what Jagya's priorities are once and for all.

Jagya wont back down facing the challenge of Ratan however hard Sumitra may try. He is quite brave in that respect, not a coward.

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Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

But she still not out of rathan ,,,though she happily forgets..

I am a mother of two children .. My first priority saving my children and protecting them ..rather than thinking on other matters ..she knows Rathan is behind her child ...why she is not thinking once what could be his next move..

she lived with him for years ..she should have know his cruel thoughts and way doing things ..his weakness..his circle ...something she can be trying remember to save everyone from him...

she is not only the one who is under attack ..the family which is saving her ..she has that responsibility to react for once or for few secs ..its a human natural tendency..

in order to get sympathy TRp's Cv's are forgetting how women with a child react rather than a woman who fell in love reacts

i dont get the impression that she has completely forgotten ratan...ganga was all alone even when she was at ratan's house...and only shares a relation of hatred with him...so its not that she should keep remembering him.
Her child is with her...and as she is taking good care of him...also planning to do the nursing course...she did express her concerns on ratan in the past to jagya and family ...and jagya had reassured her.
why is so difficult do accept that a woman also can have feelings in addition to being a mother.? 😕