Reality check for Ganga - Page 7

There are men who marry prostitutes out of sympathy.
There are men who marry handicapped due to sympathy factor,

Why men only?

Even women do that.
There are women who marry men out of sympathy like caring for the child of a widower or a divorcee.
There are women who marry handicapped men out of sympathy.

There are things other than love and money. That is called compassion. That does not make the relationship any less.

The world is not one dimensional.

Originally posted by: jmythri

My heart goes out to your friend vasi. Its the same with my own sister. She is still fighting for the custody of her kid.We lived a nightmare for 5 long years. there was a time when my mom and shivered with fear to pick the phone.

All we had to hear is her crying, and her friends from work complaining the bruises visible on her body. We are not rich, so couldn't pull strings where as he did manage and told of that my sister has a affair and she is rotten. the court believed the maids and watchman (who are bought , ofcourse) and sent the kid to him. You will laugh if i say that the lawyer of my BIL said that what husband will not beat if his wife has affair.

In India money speaks a lot. I am just back to this forum because the way they are showing Ganga is utterly wrong. Real life it will mess up real bad. Anyways lets bring this out and fight until CV's show some justification in ganga's character. i still dont understand why choose this miserable track. Not only the track was pukeworthy but they are rushing it.😭. they never did that in ANSH confession though

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

There are men who marry prostitutes out of sympathy.
There are men who marry handicapped due to sympathy factor,

Why men only?

Even women do that.
There are women who marry men out of sympathy like caring for the child of a widower or a divorcee.
There are women who marry handicapped men out of sympathy.

There are things other than love and money. That is called compassion. That does not make the relationship any less.

The world is not one dimensional.

@jmythri, @vasirajui..i am really moved and feeling sad after reading your painful experiences..so far my exposure to such incidents is only thru TV (in aamir khan show) & from newspapers about notorious NRI marriages...you are right...women in this situation can't imagine doing anything else but trying to put their life back together.

please, i can't even dare to compare your experiences with whats happening in the serial...just expressing my 2 cents in ganga's case...she was in a similar devastating situation till she was away from her kid...getting united with her kid has given her new hope...she felt a lot of happiness around her...for someone who has not experienced a cheerful, homely and secure environment ever in life...it is natural to get influenced and positively affected by it especially for a strong willed person like ganga.

Because you dont want to understand. A person will have many issues. As ganga is also a person, she has many issues like becoming independent, falling in love which is not in her control etc.

We are discussing more than 2 issues here.

Ganga becoming independent. Just because she is becoming independent, it does not prevent her from falling in love.

Jagya's sympathy and his marriage with ganga. Why not? She can become a nurse and after all the divorce issues, they both can marry. Or they may not.

She cannot become independent overnight and she cannot marry another person overnight.

Suddenly Ratan Singh becum so bigger criminal that Singh should afraid of him alon with Jagya and Siv. Siv ne is Ratan ke jaise kitne crimimals ko jail bheja hoga those criminals can also take revenge from him toh Anandi ko v use shadi nahi karni chahiye thi. Singhs jinka pala itne bade bade criminals se pada jinke khud hi pata nahi kitne dushman hain, in past someone kidnaped young Anandi then pratyusha Anandi was also kidnaped, avi resently a goon attacked Gehna, and unko Ratan ke dar se Ganga ko help nahi karna chahiya wah kya logic hai.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Because you dont want to understand. A person will have many issues. As ganga is also a person, she has many issues like becoming independent, falling in love which is not in her control etc.

We are discussing more than 2 issues here.

Ganga becoming independent. Just because she is becoming independent, it does not prevent her from falling in love.

Jagya's sympathy and his marriage with ganga. Why not? She can become a nurse and after all the divorce issues, they both can marry. Or they may not.

She cannot become independent overnight and she cannot marry another person overnight.

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

@jmythri, @vasirajui..i am really moved and feeling sad after reading your painful experiences..so far my exposure to such incidents is only thru TV (in aamir khan show) & from newspapers about notorious NRI marriages...you are right...women in this situation can't imagine doing anything else but trying to put their life back together.

please, i can't even dare to compare your experiences with whats happening in the serial...just expressing my 2 cents in ganga's case...she was in a similar devastating situation till she was away from her kid...getting united with her kid has given her new hope...she felt a lot of happiness around her...for someone who has not experienced a cheerful, homely and secure environment ever in life...it is natural to get influenced and positively affected by it especially for a strong willed person like ganga.

All of us do so many things at the same time. Why make exception for ganga?

We go to coaching classes to get high percentage, also go to music or dance classes, try to go out with friends for films, have infatuations, try to do part time job and get more expense money if we are students.

If married, try to take care of the babies by not neglecting the husband or inlaws, have fights with them on occasions, try to commit suicide when things go overboard, have affairs if we are so inclined, flirt with strangers, catch husband doing the same, employ private detectives, think of having one more baby or abortion. Not able to decide whether to leave the job to take care of straying kids or employ someone to do this thing for us. After leaving the job feeling restless and taking it out on other family members. The list is endless.

We dont wait for things to happen. We make things happen. We multi task. Sometimes we plan and sometimes we dont plan.

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I agree with all of you.

Poor people should not have feelings.
They should not fall in love with rich guys.
They are disgusting like trash bins. They have to take all the trash and live in an obscure corner.
Even in fiction they should not dare to dream. They should not even cry. Better they die.

While rich girls can almost rape the man they desire.
It is such a wonderful site to see rich girls insulting poor girls.
Rich girls can be extremely brattish but they look good with all that attitude.

I am ashamed to be a brainless member of this forum rooting for something which is so unreasonable.

See dear its not abt rich and poor...

I was talking in real life...nothing like this happen...in fiction it is portrayed but because of it young girls/boys should not start dreaming of getting a rich prince /princess in marriage...

Imagine for example if I am a dukhiyaari girl like ganga and a boy like jagya helps me out and then marries me and at one point in life during a husband /wife squabble, if he will taunt me or try to mark it out to me that he helped me and did a favour for me and changed me from rags to riches? am I going to like it? no...i will always feel indebted to my husband for this...a relationship quotient of an husband and wife in REAL life should be equal...if one partner feels indebted to other then its not going to be a healthy relationship in the future...