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Posted: 12 years ago
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If a pesron like jagdish can change why not saachi ...saachi and jagdish grown up in same atmosphere and attitude .

Basically Jagya is not a bad person. While Sanchi is vicious. I have a feeling that she will turn out into another gauri.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jmythri

To make ganga look super good they made sachi super bad. By this, i dont like both of them. As both of them dont qualify an average human rating. They are over my head.

I dont liked about to divorced woman salivating at her protector. By this grade one message is seen. never let anyone in your home. becuase they will do the same. Ganga is not like that but we villagers dont like people who eat for free in our homes and then love our men and get married. She is nothing but a maid and she should know her boundaries. If she has any shame in her she should leave the house now.

That is what many women do act so swwet and innocent. gain sympathy and get into where they should not.


To some extent i agree with you ..In real life ganga like girls not even think about getting married to only bachelor of a rich family ..it is impossible to them even to have thought also..

but singhs never treat her like a maid they allowed her in to their day to day life treated her as daughter ...if they show that over kindness ..even ganga ..let her herself so much in to the family ..
mistake is on both side s ...we can't blame only Ganga ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It happens. Prince Charles fell for a commoner. Somebody in their dynasty gave up thrown to marry a commoner.

In Rebecca, the wealthy elderly man marries a companion and sticks with her for life.

Prince Salim fell for Anarkali.

Priyanka married an ordinary Vadra. Her father also married an ordinary girl.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

If a pesron like jagdish can change why not saachi ...saachi and jagdish grown up in same atmosphere and attitude .

Basically Jagya was not a bad person. While Sanchi is vicious. I have a feeling that she will turn out into another gauri.


Sorry i don't agree ...Saachi has childishness in her ...she didn't see real problems and real life ..she was over protected by the family ..she loves her Family ..she knows even jagdish loves his family ..

even if saachi truns like Gauri ..shekers won't allow to her in laws stay with them ...where will she go..

Saachi and gauri are world's apart in thinking and grownup style ...jagadish will not allow saachi to change as gauri..he will show her place if she decides to do something against his family ..

things are different from Gauri's time to saachi..

Family will not allow jagadish and saachi getting a part at any cost .because family approval is their for saachi and jagdish marriage.

so Ganga to fit in the present track only jagadih have to break the relationship before engagement


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

It happens. Prince Charles fell for a commoner. Somebody in their dynasty gave up thrown to marry a commoner.

In Rebecca, the wealthy elderly man marries a companion and sticks with her for life.

Prince Salim fell for Anarkali.

Priyanka married an ordinary Vadra. Her father also married an ordinary girl.


The families you said are not villagers..😃..

yes their can be marriage happening between ganga and jadish ..its not wrong in serial society..

but in reality such cases are .0000001 %..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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even if saachi truns like Gauri ..shekers won't allow to her in laws stay with them ...where will she go..
vasiraju

Shekhars will allow anything. They are not traditional people to send sanchi back to sasural at any cost.. What do you mean that sanchi has nowhere to go? Sanchi is educated and she can live independently as a working woman.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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In these times, villagers are not that different from cityfolk. 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is really ridiculous to think that an educated woman has to live only at maika or at sasural. This type of thinking is what is making woman's equality a difficult thing. Gauri is able to live independently because she has good education. I appreciate gauri for that.Even uneducated women live independently working as labourers, maids etc.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasiraju


Hmm ..Saachi is not a Bitch yet ...she has that insecurity problem before marriage ..if she gets marriage saachi has to more problems than jagiya speaking about Ganga ..jagiya don't have any feelings for ganga ...he is helping ..he will help ..if marriage happens even ganga won't allow herself in between these 2 ..

First Jagadish should get out of Anandi memories ..that will be saachi's big problem ..

If marraige Happens jagadish compare everything with Anandi not ganga ,,,Ganga is replica of Anandi so he is comfortable with Ganga ..

How long a girl acts in well composure manner ..a month or at least a 2 months ...
saachi becoming another gauri is Impossible ..Gauri has a agenda of geting jagdish out of his family ..

but saachi want to be herself as she is in her house doing all her Manmani ..once she finds that is not possible she will change ...

If a pesron like jagdish can change why not saachi ...saachi and jagdish grown up in same atmosphere and attitude .


Jagya will compare everyone woman who comes into his life with Anandi.

He may have left Anandi for Gauri thinking she suited him and his lifestyle more than Anandi did but did search for Anandi in Gauri when he did not find her the discontent started.
Now he will definitely compare Sanchi with Anandi.He may not do it consciously but subconsciously he may compare and even look for Anandi in her this will definitely make things difficult for Sanchi.

As for his relationship with Ganga he may not be ready to let her enter his life but he will not let go off her easily.Ganga may not want to come in between the two but Jagya even if he doesn't love Ganga he cares for her lot more than he should.So this will definitely an issue for Sanchi.I don't think she will be able to handle this.
She may get rid of Ganga from Haweli with the help of Sumi but I don't think it will be that easy for her to get Ganga out of Jagya's mind.

She has only changed herself externally and not internally.She already made up her mind that all these changes that she is making is only till she gets Jagya as her husband.She is not going to change she is only pretending to change.She already bagged Jagya and where is the need for her to rub it in Ganga's face?

For Sanchi to change really her love for Jagya has to survive the constant comparisions with Anandi and Ganga's constant presence in jagya's mind.I don't think her love is strong enough to survive all this.

Sanchi is rebel without a cause where as Gauri was a rebel with a cause.

Ganga on the other hand though is very similar to Anandi she is not an exact replica.She may not like it if she realises that he is looking for Anandi in her but she will handle it much better than Gauri or Sanchi.
But unfortunately for Ganga is that Jagya is not in a mode to get into a relationship.When he accepted Sanchi I don't think he thought as far as how he would cope with the marriage.
Ganga has to wait for her turn mean while get a life for herself.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Jagya will compare everyone woman who comes into his life with Anandi.

He may have left Anandi for Gauri thinking she suited him and his lifestyle more than Anandi did but did search for Anandi in Gauri when he did not find her the discontent started.
Now he will definitely compare Sanchi with Anandi.He may not do it consciously but subconsciously he may compare and even look for Anandi in her this will definitely make things difficult for Sanchi.

As for his relationship with Ganga he may not be ready to let her enter his life but he will not let go off her easily.Ganga may not want to come in between the two but Jagya even if he doesn't love Ganga he cares for her lot more than he should.So this will definitely an issue for Sanchi.I don't think she will be able to handle this.
She may get rid of Ganga from Haweli with the help of Sumi but I don't think it will be that easy for her to get Ganga out of Jagya's mind.

She has only changed herself externally and not internally.She already made up her mind that all these changes that she is making is only till she gets Jagya as her husband.She is not going to change she is only pretending to change.She already bagged Jagya and where is the need for her to rub it in Ganga's face?

For Sanchi to change really her love for Jagya has to survive the constant comparisions with Anandi and Ganga's constant presence in jagya's mind.I don't think her love is strong enough to survive all this.

Sanchi is rebel without a cause where as Gauri was a rebel with a cause.

Ganga on the other hand though is very similar to Anandi she is not an exact replica.She may not like it if she realises that he is looking for Anandi in her but she will handle it much better than Gauri or Sanchi.
But unfortunately for Ganga is that Jagya is not in a mode to get into a relationship.When he accepted Sanchi I don't think he thought as far as how he would cope with the marriage.
Ganga has to wait for her turn mean while get a life for herself.


Yeah i agree with you ..that's what i said he is comfortable with ganga than saachi ..

I never said Ganga can't handle Jagiya ...even Ganga needs Anandi help to get in to jagiya ..

i never said through out my conversation that saachi won't rebel .. saachi tries maximaum to change jagadish and family to listen to her ..do everything what wants to do ..

she will never get success..at some point she will realize she is doing wrong ...than she will change ..

if at all saachi gets married she has to change.. creating another failed relationship and ganaga getting married is worst thing to happen in jagiy's life .

so better stop Saachi jagiya relationship even it starts instead making more troubles for jagiya

By the way my narration of post on saachi and jagiya marraige relationship context ..Not ganga and saachi comparitive context ...your context quite different to mine

Jagiya will help ganga ..with ou saachi interest or Not ..

Saachi has to survive all this if she gets to married with jagiya ..their no other option left to her .saachi will suffer the most in this relationship than any other .And she will learn how to survive once the reality hits on her face .
Edited by vasiraju - 12 years ago

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