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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

Somewhere i feel this all trouble is because of Anandi

I am not blaming her like Ira did but what's the use of keeping quiet when your words can actually solve the problem within minutes plus bring Saanchi on track

Being a good DIL wife or bhabhi does not mean you have to keep quiet and just load all blames on yourself...i am not telling Anandi to shout like Gauri or Saanchi does but she can put her point in polite manner also...if she would have instantly told everyone what Saanchi was actually wearing or at least afterwards to Ira then they would have realized that their daughter is telling lies and misusing their trust...it's Anandi's habit of keeping quiet that is not only turning small issues into big misunderstanding but also fuelling Saanchi to go in wrong way...because no one knows how Saanchi has crossed her limit no one is able to stop her.

This keeping shut factor of Indian bahu of T.V irritates me because it unnccessrily makes problems...don't know why Anandi always want to solve every problem on her own when a whole team can solve it in minutes...if she would have told the truth to Ira than Ira would have scolded Saanchi for her lies and this would have put Saanchi on track to never repeat such mistake and take Anandi for granted.

Anandi thinks if she shouts at Saanchi she will be bad bhabhi but Anandi needs to exercise her authority as badi bahu and bhabhi specially after looking at the age difference b/w them...she needs to have that controlling factor...to be honest it looks stupid to see that the girl who was made sarpanch thinking that she has leadership quality is getting snubbed by her nanad like this...i do not like this all they show in T.V...yes shouting and being impatient does not make any marriage work but keeping silent also does not work...why can't these T.V people keep a balance in their bahu...can we please have a normal obedient yet confident bahu who knows her duties but also her authorities

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Sudha

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Posted: 12 years ago

You're right, she could put her views in a polite manner,

But why does Anandi always to get blamed, she could've protested that she did say Sanchi the stupid that a short dress won't be good for socials.

But instead of that, she cries buckets hearing her MIL's tantrums,

It's so stupid that DIL's are always shown as a Mahaan in tele serials.

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Khusi

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Posted: 12 years ago

Anandi wasnt alone.dadu was there too.being an elder of the family he didnt reveal. Y shud anandi?
So that she can be blamed that she doesnt care for the tensed atm of the house n made it more misarable by revealing it?
Even j tried to convince them not to be angry on saanchi's dress at that moment?
N if she wud have told ira on phone yesterday...ira wud have cooled down???
Ira wud have more sure that anandi dislikes saanchi...
N normal bahu??🤣
anandi is a larger than life character...so is shiv
normal ppl hote toh their story wud havent be the one ...the way it is till now...
Btw wheven she shows some flaws like normal ppl..isnt she get bashed of being so selfish to innocent cs?
Who is a child n anandi trapped him?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: khusi_*
Anandi wasnt alone.dadu was there too.being an elder of the family he didnt reveal. Y shud anandi?
So that she can be blamed that she doesnt care for the tensed atm of the house n made it more misarable by revealing it?
Even j tried to convince them not to be angry on saanchi's dress at that moment?
N if she wud have told ira on phone yesterday...ira wud have cooled down???
Ira wud have more sure that anandi dislikes saanchi...
N normal bahu??🤣
anandi is a larger than life character...so is shiv
normal ppl hote toh their story wud havent be the one ...the way it is till now...
Btw wheven she shows some flaws like normal ppl..isnt she get bashed of being so selfish to innocent cs?
Who is a child n anandi trapped him?

Completely agree with you. What is the point in telling Ira at that moment that Sanchi cheated the family about the dress? What is to be achieved in that? Sanchi will only get more mad at Anandi Situation will become worse and in the end you have to live in the same house. Anandi knows that she has not done anything wrong.

Normal bahu will be bashed exactly the same way Mahaan bahu . People love to bash her so they bash.

@CS is bhola bhala Anandi trapped him and she is treating him so badly. We all should cry at his fate even if CS thinks that he is the one who pataoed her.

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libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: khusi_*
Anandi wasnt alone.dadu was there too.being an elder of the family he didnt reveal. Y shud anandi?
So that she can be blamed that she doesnt care for the tensed atm of the house n made it more misarable by revealing it?
Even j tried to convince them not to be angry on saanchi's dress at that moment?
N if she wud have told ira on phone yesterday...ira wud have cooled down???
Ira wud have more sure that anandi dislikes saanchi...
N normal bahu??🤣
anandi is a larger than life character...so is shiv
normal ppl hote toh their story wud havent be the one ...the way it is till now...
Btw wheven she shows some flaws like normal ppl..isnt she get bashed of being so selfish to innocent cs?
Who is a child n anandi trapped him?

Daddu was not there when saanchi came back so he does not that saanchi has actually changed her dress

well maybe you are right...since Ira is not able to see anything positive about Anandi i guess she may have got angered more then cooled down...just thought that since Ira comes across to me as sensible person she may have understood if Anandi would have tried to explain

we can only imagine what would have made this situation better but not tell exactly becoz CVs love to twist each and every character

Anandi has improved a lot and now she is now only thinks about her CS first and then rest 😳 so from that part i have no complain

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Khusi

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: libsrocks
Daddu was not there when saanchi came back so he does not that saanchi has actually changed her dress
well maybe you are right...since Ira is not able to see anything positive about Anandi i guess she may have got angered more then cooled down...just thought that since Ira comes across to me as sensible person she may have understood if Anandi would have tried to explain
we can only imagine what would have made this situation better but not tell exactly becoz CVs love to twist each and every character
Anandi has improved a lot and now she is now only thinks about her CS first and then rest 😳 so from that part i have no complain

how does it matter daddu knew it or not

fine he didnt know it(very unlikely though knowing he is in same house..n will miss out the point when rest explained him abt saanchi!!)

what shud have anandi done??

right after the incident...when saanchi was shaken...

she shud gather all n told them..saanchi lied to me right?

sply when anandi herself knew...the feeling of getting molest...n getting taunts

abt talking to ira

no sensible person wud taunt her DIL as divorcee sply when she is not at fault

sensible person doesnt conveniently put blame on son n DIL...by saying saanchi is a child

y didnt she create chao when saanchi made fun of anandi on day of holi by giving her bhaang!!

sensible ira??😆

@bold

when it comes to anandi...y this thing never comes forward

CVs!!

y no blame on cvs...all blame fell on anandi

😆

abt last line...ohh...Anandi improved!!...in the past...she actually did so much wrong things to poor cs..yaa right🤣

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ExcuseMePlz

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Posted: 12 years ago

Ira has gone completely to the wrong direction.Now whatever anandi does will not be enough for her.She is imagining that anandi doesn't like sanchi.She conveniently for got how Sanchi behaved with anandi in her initial days.Now sanchi has become a pakka actress so if ira will think blindly she will don t understand anandi.Ira is a gone case.If anandi would utter a single word she would never believe anandi.You never no sanchi might tell lie to ira that she showed the dress to anandi.Ira will always believe in sanchi's words that anandi.

I also want to mention that its wrong to portray that anandi should be always thankful to shiv as he has married her.He didn't pity her.He was in love with her.He knew anandi don't love her so if he had a problem he had the chance to back out.Its wrong to blame anandi here.

Edited by shankythebest - 12 years ago

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