is that all Anandi does now-a-days? - Page 3

mona there was hot discussion few days ago whether anandi should remain only house wife or she should concentrate on career also along with housewife

Originally posted by: surabhi01

mona there was hot discussion few days ago whether anandi should remain only house wife or she should concentrate on career also along with housewife

link of that topic

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts?TID=3555098

link gives 404 error surabhi 😕

Originally posted by: monamie111

thank u samvi and thanks a lot for ur post...but i don agree with u fully 😳

@ bold part...

yes...by 'pushing' i meant..shiv could have discussed her career with her after their marriage! he should inspire her to continue her social work\teaching job...and i want shiv to do so...

i agree with you samvi on anandi being a normal girl...and i want her to be like that...i never like it when serials project a leading lady as a super-woman..at the same time being gharelu...respecting elders etc etc...u can't have everything in a single woman..😕 somewhere there has to be a compromise.

for e.g. i cant cook on my own a perfect fresh smoking hot dinner at home and at the same time be part of a crucial senior exec meeting where new product design is being discussed..😕..but attending this meeting is very important for me as i get a chance to explore my innovative skills.

Mona, taking liberty to call you by name..u too samvi ..😊..i am Sweta .

i have one more point as this is a good discussion going on ..remember when ashima asked shiv what kind of wife he would want...his definition was something unrealistic...he wanted everything...girl should be homely, believe in traditions, respect elders, should cook good food and also have a identity of her own etc etc...not to add that good looks are assumed...going by that i think shiv also wants anandi to give priority to his family first...and her career later...otherwise he would not have assumed that anandi will leave jaitsar for him...he would have asked her to continue as sarpanch..and stay at jaisar for a while till her new projects were successfully done...ansh could have met each other over the weekends.

kuch bhi keh loh...aise bohut kam log hote hain who would encourage a woman to take care of society at the cost of compromising quality of family life.

really sorry if i am offending anyone...just my thoughts 😊.

beyondsky link to sahi hai .tumne digits poore likhe the ?

THEY SHOULD SPEED UP THE PROCESS OF HER SETTLING IN HER SAASRA; ONCE SHE IS COMPLETELY SETTLED

SHE SHOULD SPEAK WITH SHIV AND THE FAMILY REGARDING HER WORK; SHIV FELL IN LOVE WITH HER FOR HER QUALITIES ALL OF THEM NOT JUST COOKING AND SEVA CHAAKRI OF THE SAASRAWALA

WHAT ARE THE CVs DOING? SHE WAS TEACHING AND WAS DOING SOCIAL WORK BECAUSE SHE WAS ALONE IN LIFE AND NOW THAT SHE HAS A PARTNER USS SAB KI ZAROORAT NAHI HAI?

SHE CAN START WORKING FOR AN NGO; SHE CAN GO BACK TO COLLEGE DO HER B Ed AND BECOME A CERTIFIED TEACHER; THERE IS SO MUCH MORE FOR HER TO DO THAN SAAS BAHU CHIK CHIK

IT IS NOW TIME TO TRULY BEGIN WITH ANSH LIFE (SENDING THEM ON HONEYMOON IS NOT BEGINNING OF LIFE) AND CAREER

PUT THE SAAS BAHU ON THE BACK BURNER; DON'T TURN THIS BEAUTIFUL CONCEPT INTO SAAS BAHU BEKAAR KA DRAMA; YES CHOTE MOTE ISSUES KABHI KABHI DIKHA SAKTE HAIN WO NATURAL LAGEGA

YE TOH BILKUL HI GHAR PAR BAITHI HAI; SHE LIKES HANDICRAFTS AND DOES NOT ALOK HAVE HANDICRAFT EXPROT BUSINESS; SHE COULD JOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS

INSTEAD OF WRITING TRACKS FOR SAACHI AND NIT USING THEIR BRAINS THE WRITERS SHOULD USE THEIR BRAINS AND WRITE FOR ANSH; ANANDI'S CAREER

Women do take break after marriage. But I did not expect Anandi to never even think of any other future plan or her husband think for her. Shiv was impressed by her not only because of her traditional qualities but also because of her overcoming all odds and achieving a position for herself at such a young age. He was impressed by the way she would handle people and conflicts.

It's odd that Anandi doesn't even start some coaching class at home. She is not even shown reading a newspaper to keep herself updated. She's just a typical housewife now.

Shiv it seems has no other concern except romancing Anandi or defending her when her SIL strikes.

What are CVs trying to imply here? Education & career are only for women who've been abandoned by their husbands? It's a timepass? It's not necessary?

Moreoever I am surprised that Anandi has no concern about Shiv's demanding job now. The way she put off his alarm or the way she instantly called him when Sanchi stormed out of Singh haveli was odd. It was not like somebody had died! How can she expect him to be at home anytime she deems suitable?

Khud ka kaam toh chhoda hi hai, pati ke kaam ki demands bhi bhool gayi!

At least Gauri continued to work even in pregnancy (she and Jagya were together then). But yeah, the misogynist and backward CVs have to show that working woman suffers miscarriage! (Wajah koi bhi ho, working woman ke miscarriage ka yog toh Indian TV walon ne banaana hi hai!)

I don't understand why they focus on Ganga's education. Making her a worthy trophy wife for Jagya? Ha! I don't think she'll ever work as nurse at his hospital! She'll be only seen rubbing oil on DS' feet!

The progressiveness in BV is mostly temporary and a sham. It's backward and dramatic like any other soap.

Very well articulated and apt post mona, this is echoes of the thought of each and every ardent bv followers

I think the best scene between ansh for me is the day shiv salutes anandi knowing her inner strengh, knowing her capacity to see brighter side of everything, knowing her never give up and positive attitude, and he was already impressed to see inspite of being from a small village how she can go out of her way to stand independently in her life with her own spl small way, can fight against injustice even if it goes against her family members. He has seen she has her own compassionate way to look at everything and that is reason her ideas for neher project impressed him so much

But after marriage i am missing my ansh so much as if both of them were lost and they were lost in solving their family matters, this is the only thing left, cooking, feeding, cleaning and solving family issues. Did cvs compleyely forgot that they are meant for much bigger things?

Pls cvs bring out anandi out of kb and let her explore her capabilities, pls dont spoil such iconic, enigmatic character which they have given us and we have fallen in love with her.

We want to see her rise in love, do something meaningful alongwith handling the family matters, how she is balancing her personal as well as professional life.

We have seen how she suffered becoz of bal vivah and what are the effects of bad marriage

Now with a perfect husband like shiv beside her we want to see how she does wonders which can benefit her family as well as the society. Want to see her make those little changes in the society which has great effect in our life and society

Pls cvs give us our anandi back, strong, charismatic anandi with her husband standing beside her with pride on his face, together they can solve every problems and bring changes in the society

agree with everyone's point here.

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

i agree with you samvi on anandi being a normal girl...and i want her to be like that...i never like it when serials project a leading lady as a super-woman..at the same time being gharelu...respecting elders etc etc...u can't have everything in a single woman..😕 somewhere there has to be a compromise.

for e.g. i cant cook on my own a perfect fresh smoking hot dinner at home and at the same time be part of a crucial senior exec meeting where new product design is being discussed..😕..but attending this meeting is very important for me as i get a chance to explore my innovative skills.

Mona, taking liberty to call you by name..u too samvi ..😊..i am Sweta .

i have one more point as this is a good discussion going on ..remember when ashima asked shiv what kind of wife he would want...his definition was something unrealistic...he wanted everything...girl should be homely, believe in traditions, respect elders, should cook good food and also have a identity of her own etc etc...not to add that good looks are assumed...going by that i think shiv also wants anandi to give priority to his family first...and her career later...otherwise he would not have assumed that anandi will leave jaitsar for him...he would have asked her to continue as sarpanch..and stay at jaisar for a while till her new projects were successfully done...ansh could have met each other over the weekends.

kuch bhi keh loh...aise bohut kam log hote hain who would encourage a woman to take care of society at the cost of compromising quality of family life.

really sorry if i am offending anyone...just my thoughts 😊.

@libs. It's true anandi was more bothered about leaving singhs than jeytsar...but she mentioned that she will mss the people of jeytsar. I expected shiv telling anandi to stay in jeytsar and pursue her dreams kneeing his mahaanta...but good he behaved like a normal guy just married and cannot stay away from his wife. Shiv is a kind of a person who gives freedoms to anandi to think about her dread rather than pressure her to do things his way. Right now cvs don't want shiv to encourage anandi to pursue her career. May be later they will get back the that track of shiv encouraging anandi to work outside the house.