can't connect to anandi...

hey everyone!!!

first of all this post is not meant to bash anyone .. its just a point of view ...

i just wanted to tell you all that i was shattered when i came to know that my anandi is getting replaced and i could no longer be able to watch her as my sweet anandi...

i decided to stay away from the bv and never watch it again ever in life... lekin i was so addicted to my ansh that i couldnt resist myself from watchin online last week episodes ...

i m sorry to say but i really could not connect to the anandi i have known for the past 4.5 years...and mind you it has nothing to do with the looks of new anandi ...but its just that anandi used to be my idol and i had seen , infact somewhat felt her pain , cried in her sorrows, laughed when she laughed ...it was like something that whenever i used to watch anandi i always felt that she is someone very close, very dear to me...

but now, i felt nothing like that with new anandi..

ever since jagiya cheated on anandi and shiv enterd , i always wanted to see the anandi getting the true prince charming of her life and falling in love again and she did get her prince charming in shiv and i m really happy for that...

i always wanted my bubbly, cute, sweet anandi back and wanted jagiya to suffer and feel the pain that anandi went through. i wanted jagiya to witness the romance of anandi shiv and get jealous...i wanted anandi to thank her mother for giving her husband like shiv . i wanted anandi to be succesful in her life.. may join politics or something...

i know that all these stuff is happening in anandi's life but somehow i couldnt connect to it the way i used to..it felt as if all these scenes have lost its meaning...

I just wanted to quote few examples to justify my point:

when anandi's mother died I felt her pain and myself cried when she broke down..i could clearly feel her pain '

when shiv refused to marry anandi , and anandi blurted out her pain in front of everyone that how everyone thinks she is a kathputli and not a jeeta jagta hua insaan , i cried for her , for the pain she went through.. it was as if all past 4 years flashed instantly in front of my eyes and could easily feel what she must have or is presently going through ...

during haldi ceremony anandi luked so cute...her smile took my heart away'it seemed so real ... the happiness and tears on seeing your mother in front of you after so many days and that too on the most auspicious day of your life was well depicted in anandi's eyes... ...a little mischiveous tear filled smile when gulli put haldi on her...she seemed so happy, so content that finally she is getting everything in her life she had ever deserved by marrying the most wonderful man in the world... her eyes were clearly depicting that there is not a single doubt in her mindr .. she was absolutely sure that now her future is no more insecure... she would be from now on leading a content life full of love, respect...

earlier mujhe gussa bhi ata tha on anandi when she used to do care about jagiya even after he destroyed her lifeAND felt like telling her that she should move on with shiv and be happy and not to care about that jug head. This shows my attachment towards anandi's character and how much I cared about her happiness..'

when anandi realised her love for shiv and was talking to his photo on swing ' i fell in love with anandi again in that scene ,the expressions were so beautiful, subtle yet powerful.. the eyes were speaking itself... she was looking so pretty and her expressions seemed so realistic as if she herself is content and happy that finally anandi has fallen in love...the whole scene touched my heart so much...aise lag rahe tha ki main anandi se jake puchu ki " kaha thi tum ab tak... kaha thi tumahari ye pyari si chulbuli si muskaani" because i had never ever seen this side of anandi... i have never felt like this for any character on tv the way i was feeling about anandi ..aise lag raha tha ki pyaar use nahi mujhe hua hai ...uske chehre pe ek peaceful smile thi jo maine aj tak nahi dekhi and i felt so happy for her...,

but now when anandi confessed her love it felt like some stranger confessing not my anandi..

or in hospital when anandi tripped and shiv held on to her , and jagia watched anandi in shiv's arm, I felt so happy that finally jagia is getting what he deseves...lekin ab I feel nothing like that .. like when today or on Saturday jagiya got jealous seeing ansh together or romancing, I didn't feel the same way that I used to feel when I saw jagiya in pain.. infact mujhe pata nahi kyun jagiya par hi taras aya and honestly aisa pehli baar hua hai that I felt bad for jagiya'

ya phir when sumitra anandi convo was going on today, and ananadi hugged sumi, I didn't feel any emotions attached to that'I could nt felt like the way I felt during sumitra- anandi convo the night before wedding of ansh'it was such an emotional convo I don't know why but today it seemed so forced '

even when pratyusha entered bv mujhe tab bhi koi disconnection nahi feel hua tha in the character of anandi.. anandi mujhe kabhi bhi alag nahi lagi ..and whenever some flashbacks of choti anandi was shown I always could relate to it and never felt ki ye sab kuch avika ki anandi ne kiya hai ya pratyusha ki anandi ne.. both were inseparable for me'but somehow toral's anandi seems totally disconnected' I don't know if it is the mistake of director, writers but they really need to work hard to make people connect to new anandi'

these are just few examples I quoted.. as for other scenes in red above that I wanted , I don't think ki I could ever be able to watch it kyunki now it feels ki its just the act and all the actors are just doing their job , there is no realism or emotional aspect to it'so for me balika vadhu doesn't exist anymore'

ps: I just wanted to express my opinion ,it is inly my my thoughts and i didn't bash any actor for her looks or anything//'its just that anandi's character is not aneasy character to portray.. you have to feel her pain, her sorrow , you have to live that character. And its not everybody's cup of tea to do it perfectly but I know that toral is working really hard and wish her all the best ..

so plz don't make this thread a war zone but a healthy discussion is most welcomed''..

When toral entered in bv as anandi I initially felt it was going to be okay. She was competent in that aggressive mode of Manu savior. But then after watching for a week I realized that she is very unidimensional in her acting and I started to turn away from her. Somehow toral is very aloof she says her lines and smiles promptly on cue but no screen presence or chemistry with any members of bv. Her smile now irritates me as I find it overused and over extended.

I agree with you in every sentence you wrote! This is no longer the same story that we enjoyed to watch, which is supported by UNICEF for themes engaged. Prats was the embodiment of Anandi with which we all are experiencing. I'm sorry that's all gone. No role in the series no longer has the same weight. Toral had to be aware in what she was getting into becouse she said that adores Balika Vadhu.
Now, that Balika Vadhu is gone!

Originally posted by: Saathfan

When toral entered in bv as anandi I initially felt it was going to be okay. She was competent in that aggressive mode of Manu savior. But then after watching for a week I realized that she is very unidimensional in her acting and I started to turn away from her. Somehow toral is very aloof she says her lines and smiles promptly on cue but no screen presence or chemistry with any members of bv. Her smile now irritates me as I find it overused and over extended.

In fact I think there is something going on in Bv directors head also. Past week has been spent just trying to oversell toral as anandi even more so than when she entered. I saw the last 5 minutes of epi today and in precap she is wearing red bridal wear and shiv anandi walk in like bride and groom. I think the director is realizing that some viewers are not buying toral as anandi and so he is ramming her down peoples throats with brute force now.

Originally posted by: Bubi

I agree with you in every sentence you wrote! This is no longer the same story that we enjoyed to watch, which is supported by UNICEF for themes engaged. Prats was the embodiment of Anandi with which we all are experiencing. I'm sorry that's all gone. No role in the series no longer has the same weight. Toral had to be aware in what she was getting into becouse she said that adores Balika Vadhu.
Now, that Balika Vadhu is gone!

all the actors are just doing their job , there is no realism or emotional aspect to it'so for me balika vadhu doesn't exist anymore

Originally posted by: Saathfan

When toral entered in bv as anandi I initially felt it was going to be okay. She was competent in that aggressive mode of Manu savior. But then after watching for a week I realized that she is very unidimensional in her acting and I started to turn away from her. Somehow toral is very aloof she says her lines and smiles promptly on cue but no screen presence or chemistry with any members of bv. Her smile now irritates me as I find it overused and over extended.

In fact I think there is something going on in Bv directors head also. Past week has been spent just trying to oversell toral as anandi even more so than when she entered. I saw the last 5 minutes of epi today and in precap she is wearing red bridal wear and shiv anandi walk in like bride and groom. I think the director is realizing that some viewers are not buying toral as anandi and so he is ramming her down peoples throats with brute force now.

@bold Completely agree, just instead of some viewers I would put many viewers😉

Agree

For the first time I found myself fast forwarding scenes in BV.. Anandi does not hv that magic anymore, Toral may be a good actress but her fake smile is tiring me.. 🤢

You are right, I agree with you. Cann't believe I am still watching the episodes from may 14, 2012 to February 26, 2013. I like AnSh scenes in those episodes.

Originally posted by: Saathfan

When toral entered in bv as anandi I initially felt it was going to be okay. She was competent in that aggressive mode of Manu savior. But then after watching for a week I realized that she is very unidimensional in her acting and I started to turn away from her. Somehow toral is very aloof she says her lines and smiles promptly on cue but no screen presence or chemistry with any members of bv. Her smile now irritates me as I find it overused and over extended.

In fact I think there is something going on in Bv directors head also. Past week has been spent just trying to oversell toral as anandi even more so than when she entered. I saw the last 5 minutes of epi today and in precap she is wearing red bridal wear and shiv anandi walk in like bride and groom. I think the director is realizing that some viewers are not buying toral as anandi and so he is ramming her down peoples throats with brute force now.

sirf smile hi nahi who khud bhi umr mein itni badi lagti hai, sumitra aur gahena samne badi dikhti hi hai par shiv ke sath to uski badi bahen lagti kai masooka to bilkul hi nahi lagti. ab meine BV dekhna almost band kar diya hai.