can't connect to anandi... - Page 2

Originally posted by: luv_ansh

hey everyone!!!

first of all this post is not meant to bash anyone .. its just a point of view ...

i just wanted to tell you all that i was shattered when i came to know that my anandi is getting replaced and i could no longer be able to watch her as my sweet anandi...

i decided to stay away from the bv and never watch it again ever in life... lekin i was so addicted to my ansh that i couldnt resist myself from watchin online last week episodes ...

i m sorry to say but i really could not connect to the anandi i have known for the past 4.5 years...and mind you it has nothing to do with the looks of new anandi ...but its just that anandi used to be my idol and i had seen , infact somewhat felt her pain , cried in her sorrows, laughed when she laughed ...it was like something that whenever i used to watch anandi i always felt that she is someone very close, very dear to me...

but now, i felt nothing like that with new anandi..

ever since jagiya cheated on anandi and shiv enterd , i always wanted to see the anandi getting the true prince charming of her life and falling in love again and she did get her prince charming in shiv and i m really happy for that...

i always wanted my bubbly, cute, sweet anandi back and wanted jagiya to suffer and feel the pain that anandi went through. i wanted jagiya to witness the romance of anandi shiv and get jealous...i wanted anandi to thank her mother for giving her husband like shiv . i wanted anandi to be succesful in her life.. may join politics or something...

i know that all these stuff is happening in anandi's life but somehow i couldnt connect to it the way i used to..it felt as if all these scenes have lost its meaning...

I just wanted to quote few examples to justify my point:

when anandi's mother died I felt her pain and myself cried when she broke down..i could clearly feel her pain '

when shiv refused to marry anandi , and anandi blurted out her pain in front of everyone that how everyone thinks she is a kathputli and not a jeeta jagta hua insaan , i cried for her , for the pain she went through.. it was as if all past 4 years flashed instantly in front of my eyes and could easily feel what she must have or is presently going through ...

during haldi ceremony anandi luked so cute...her smile took my heart away'it seemed so real ... the happiness and tears on seeing your mother in front of you after so many days and that too on the most auspicious day of your life was well depicted in anandi's eyes... ...a little mischiveous tear filled smile when gulli put haldi on her...she seemed so happy, so content that finally she is getting everything in her life she had ever deserved by marrying the most wonderful man in the world... her eyes were clearly depicting that there is not a single doubt in her mindr .. she was absolutely sure that now her future is no more insecure... she would be from now on leading a content life full of love, respect...

earlier mujhe gussa bhi ata tha on anandi when she used to do care about jagiya even after he destroyed her lifeAND felt like telling her that she should move on with shiv and be happy and not to care about that jug head. This shows my attachment towards anandi's character and how much I cared about her happiness..'

when anandi realised her love for shiv and was talking to his photo on swing ' i fell in love with anandi again in that scene ,the expressions were so beautiful, subtle yet powerful.. the eyes were speaking itself... she was looking so pretty and her expressions seemed so realistic as if she herself is content and happy that finally anandi has fallen in love...the whole scene touched my heart so much...aise lag rahe tha ki main anandi se jake puchu ki " kaha thi tum ab tak... kaha thi tumahari ye pyari si chulbuli si muskaani" because i had never ever seen this side of anandi... i have never felt like this for any character on tv the way i was feeling about anandi ..aise lag raha tha ki pyaar use nahi mujhe hua hai ...uske chehre pe ek peaceful smile thi jo maine aj tak nahi dekhi and i felt so happy for her...,

but now when anandi confessed her love it felt like some stranger confessing not my anandi..

or in hospital when anandi tripped and shiv held on to her , and jagia watched anandi in shiv's arm, I felt so happy that finally jagia is getting what he deseves...lekin ab I feel nothing like that .. like when today or on Saturday jagiya got jealous seeing ansh together or romancing, I didn't feel the same way that I used to feel when I saw jagiya in pain.. infact mujhe pata nahi kyun jagiya par hi taras aya and honestly aisa pehli baar hua hai that I felt bad for jagiya'

ya phir when sumitra anandi convo was going on today, and ananadi hugged sumi, I didn't feel any emotions attached to that'I could nt felt like the way I felt during sumitra- anandi convo the night before wedding of ansh'it was such an emotional convo I don't know why but today it seemed so forced '

even when pratyusha entered bv mujhe tab bhi koi disconnection nahi feel hua tha in the character of anandi.. anandi mujhe kabhi bhi alag nahi lagi ..and whenever some flashbacks of choti anandi was shown I always could relate to it and never felt ki ye sab kuch avika ki anandi ne kiya hai ya pratyusha ki anandi ne.. both were inseparable for me'but somehow toral's anandi seems totally disconnected' I don't know if it is the mistake of director, writers but they really need to work hard to make people connect to new anandi'

these are just few examples I quoted.. as for other scenes in red above that I wanted , I don't think ki I could ever be able to watch it kyunki now it feels ki its just the act and all the actors are just doing their job , there is no realism or emotional aspect to it'so for me balika vadhu doesn't exist anymore'

ps: I just wanted to express my opinion ,it is inly my my thoughts and i didn't bash any actor for her looks or anything//'its just that anandi's character is not aneasy character to portray.. you have to feel her pain, her sorrow , you have to live that character. And its not everybody's cup of tea to do it perfectly but I know that toral is working really hard and wish her all the best ..

so plz don't make this thread a war zone but a healthy discussion is most welcomed''..

Originally posted by: anitha3

all the actors are just doing their job , there is no realism or emotional aspect to it'so for me balika vadhu doesn't exist anymore

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<font color="#ff00ff">Totally agree wid those lines...even i felt da pain along wid anandi in many situations...i still remember i cried da whole episode when anandi came to kno about gauri being jagya's gf...on da roof she cried like hell n i imagined as if i was in dat situation n cried all along...but wats da point nw is we jus cannot accept that Toral-anandi suffered all that pain...coz derz no such pain in her face...even in happy moments prats-anandi maintained her suffer of her past on da face..we actually could feel dat...but nw anandi is like somebody else we r unable to connect da past wid dis new anandi😒😒😒</font>

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Originally posted by: Teeya

<div></div>sirf smile hi nahi who khud bhi umr mein itni badi lagti hai, sumitra aur gahena samne badi dikhti hi hai par shiv ke sath to uski badi bahen lagti kai masooka to bilkul hi nahi lagti. ab meine BV dekhna almost band kar diya hai.

Originally posted by: samvi.

I'am sorry that you are unable to connect to Anandi now. I feel so connected to her now...she is doing an amazing job as Sumi's and dS's most lovable Anandi who reminds them of the child Anandi..and of course as Shiv's wife, Sandhya teachers fav student...and the Shekar's sweet DIL!

Originally posted by: aparnauma

@TM - I do understand what you mean when you say you cannot connect with to Anandi.

Even I felt the same way and I still find it difficult at times to connect to Anandi.

The problem is the actor herself has not connected to Anandi.She has not really gotten into the skin of the character and has not managed to grasp the essence of her.That's why she is trying hard.

To understand the character you need time and I don't think she was given enough time to understand and get to know the character and get the feel of it.It looks like as soon as she was selected she started shooting.

And at times like this the writers have to do a lot of work to make the scenes convincing enough for the new actor to portray.

When ever the scene was written well she herself manages to connect with Anandi and we also are able to connect to her,

The bottom line is CVs need to work hard to make the actress connect with Anadi then only we will be able to connect to her.Because they cannot use the old scenes as FBs to convey her feelings and so on so forth to make her connect with the other characters in the story.

Right now it is the CVs job to connect the actress to Anandi first then only she will be able to convince us that she is Anandi.

Until then we will find it difficult to connect with her.