is shiv the real problem?

Is Shiv the real problem here ?...Shiv is polite but i think that instead of praising Anandi over same things he should have assured her that soon she will get attached to Udaipur also and make every one face the reality that today he is leaving Jaitsar and moving to Udaipur and same would happen few years later also...its a circle that has to go on and on...they are spoiling Shiv's character and making him a group of emotional fools...he always had a grip and influencial personality so i wish he gets a firm grip over Anandi too...not boss over her but show her some sense instead of praising her... After looks, the most important factor about Shiv which made us love him was his practical thoughts and intelligence but he seems to be losing it day by day...i thought no one could influence him but Singhs and Anandi has turned both his world and brain upside down...he cannot enjoy or look forward to such things which he must be dreaming of for such a long time...and how can Sumitra, of all characters, say that no one take care of Anandi like they did? If you were so doubtful about others than why get her married in first place?...what if Singhs would have stopped Shiv's transfer (god knows how? they are neither above the law and neither do they have some govt. influence over CM or other officers like Shekhars have) then also he would have to leave Jaitsar one day or the other...if not now then 1-2 years later ! really don't get sense with this track...it was not bad track when it started but now they have made it look so useless...if people will start dealing with situation like this then Earth would soon turn brownish and black with NO happy aura surrounding it...Gosh ! no green left on earth...worst than global warming!!!! ...i have learnt nothing from this track...would be glad if someone teaches me if they get the point with this track 😊

U r right ..I am really getting frustated ..Even girls like us don't cry for our parents that much

@libs, you are also over reacting like Singhs. What do you get from this track -

1. At least the transfer drama is disclosed, singhs are selfishly sad, more than sadness it shows how selfish can Sumitra be, She should know where to draw the line.

2. And Jagdish as stupid as usual, he is there to create problem in AnSh's life. Who is he to influence transfer, CM ka ristedar? It shows he has not changed, still an enemy for shiv and anandi. Hope anandi listens to this and give him one tight slap. Sale shiv ke liye tu bahar hein bhul gaya.

3. Whatever we say for DS but she is a sensible woman, and thank god she is there to control Sumi. And imagine DS stopping her ladeswar.

4. Anandi crying quite natural, she has never stayed without her family for long. Shiv is a very sensitive person, he wants his wife to be at ease not do anything out of compulsion. For Aji he is soft and his goodness will pay off. Mostly husbands are extra sensitive for their wife's concerns.

5. Today's episode shows different shades of emotion but at the end people accepts facts though not too happy.

6. Shiv's word ek sapno ka duniya banaunga, so wait for KB and the dream world for ANSH.

i can only say that he loves Anandi too much!!...he wants to give all sort of happiness to her...he is aware of all the pain she has gone through...and never wants her to be sad...i think thats why he goes a little overboard...remember wen anandi was all scared of shiv touching her..the v same day...he cut his trip short..to go to jaitsar so that anandi cud cheer up...

perhaps wen ansh will get settled properly...then v may see the practical side of shiv...😊

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

@libs, you are also over reacting like Singhs. What do you get from this track -

1. At least the transfer drama is disclosed, singhs are selfishly sad, more than sadness it shows how selfish can Sumitra be, She should know where to draw the line.

2. And Jagdish as stupid as usual, he is there to create problem in AnSh's life. Who is he to influence transfer, CM ka ristedar? It shows he has not changed, still an enemy for shiv and anandi. Hope anandi listens to this and give him one tight slap. Sale shiv ke liye tu bahar hein bhul gaya.

3. Whatever we say for DS but she is a sensible woman, and thank god she is there to control Sumi. And imagine DS stopping her ladeswar.

well for that i give her a 👏

4. Anandi crying quite natural, she has never stayed without her family for long. Shiv is a very sensitive person, he wants his wife to be at ease not do anything out of compulsion. For Aji he is soft and his goodness will pay off. Mostly husbands are extra sensitive for their wife's concerns.

i get the extra sensitivity of Shiv but it looks like a fool acts because Anandi is doing nothing to reprocate it...she will smile for Singhs and make sure never to hurt them but what about Shiv? didn't her told hEr that he expects her to be happy and its true that she has never been far away from Singh but that the same story for almost all daughters but yet all accept that one day they have to leave...anandi gives lecture to everyone but when it comes to her she acts the most foolish

5. Today's episode shows different shades of emotion but at the end people accepts facts though not too happy.

i didn't see different emotions...there were only two...dadisa's smartness and evryone eles's
foolishness
6. Shiv's word ek sapno ka duniya banaunga, so wait for KB and the dream world for ANSH.

i can wait for it but why do they ahve to make such a sensible track get wrapped up in OTT drama and unbearable

@libs, i understand that we all feel anandi is ignorant about sekhars and she is over concerned for singhs. Please discount her for some more time. At least she has accepted 'jana to paregha' but will try to be happy for the rest of the days. And she always shares her true feelings with shiv is not that a best part of husband - wife relationship. She has not said that i will not go, that is big change for anandi to me. Shiv is Aji diwana he can even jump from the roof for her, even when it was one sided love and it love from both sides. So just a little more time for Aji to love sekhars and see AnSh as a couple. This would have happened long time back, but because of the casting problem this took long time.
BV is a long run show and they have to drag it it is their inherent problem with OTT, if this would have been aekta kapoor show you would have already left.

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

@libs, i understand that we all feel anandi is ignorant about sekhars and she is over concerned for singhs. Please discount her for some more time. At least she has accepted 'jana to paregha' but will try to be happy for the rest of the days. And she always shares her true feelings with shiv is not that a best part of husband - wife relationship. She has not said that i will not go, that is big change for anandi to me. Shiv is Aji diwana he can even jump from the roof for her, even when it was one sided love and it love from both sides. So just a little more time for Aji to love sekhars and see AnSh as a couple. This would have happened long time back, but because of the casting problem this took long time.
BV is a long run show and they have to drag it it is their inherent problem with OTT, if this would have been aekta kapoor show you would have already left.