Jagiya to Shiv - Anandi's journey of womanhood!!

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VerboseG

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Wow Muks... you have put everything across so well!👏

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anshurg5

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Malika, 👍🏼
Very well writen post.😛

I have no qualms if it takes her more time to be there with him because I want to see her realize that "Intimacy is not a mere physical concept; deep-down its surreal and soul-stirring"

Could not agree more on this point.

Aanadi journey from Jagya to Shiv has been passed through many" padav' s.She has accepted Jagya wholehearted as a husband because she was told by society and parents to do that.For her teenage mind it was the natural progress of her friendship with him.In that relationship she has invested whole of herself but got very little in return that too J has taken back with interest when chosen Gauri over her.

With Shiv her relationship is totally on different level. First thing is ,she is matured enough to understand the meaning of unconditional love and can feel being cherished without much expectations back.She got a partner who is willing to give her time and space , is not shy of displaying his love and is supporting her through all thick and thins.
In the end whenever she will feel herself capable of returning that love,it will be a win win situation for both.She will then realize that her relationship with Jagya was way inferior to her relationship with Shiv now.
And yes there are intimacy issues for now but what is physical relationship without love?.
It can be a tool to reach higher level of the intimacy in a union which is based on mutual love and respect..We should wait for that .

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umam

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Brilliant and bravo Mallika 👏and once again very thought provoking..⭐️

Unfortunately, all the Anandi bashing that is going on is a sad reflection of centuries of societal and cultural conditioning..

Our soaps have always focused on women and their responsibilities in a marriage.

If through Anandi and Ansh, CVs explore the sensitive and much needed concept of a woman's rights/her needs/desires/dreams/happiness in a marriage that would be really great and a very welcome change.. If CVs ever gonna handle it, then looking forward to how they are going to handle it..

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roberoi

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Malika-e-kalam ya Malika-e-jazbaat😳

wonderful post as idealistic as Anandi...because we are not anywhere near her character we dont believe in her and can not imagine that such a person exists

loved your post and agree word to word...and we all know once she is out of her years of abuse and hurt she will be the beshtesht of besht😊

Shiv is good no doubt again another unbelievable character but look at the time they have been together and she has been with Singhs and Jagiya...we have to have patience and we will be paid off or rewarded well😃 at least your OSs are doing that if not CVs yet😉

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mozart66

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Beautiful!!! Loved the way you have put your thoughts across! Awesome post dear!

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dsupriya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Muku awesome post. Problem is many times we forget that woman also has a right to say yes or no for physical intimacy and intimacy should be about equal desires between partners. In India the general mind-set is that once the marriage occurs, woman if she asks for time from husband, people start blaming her that she is not able to understand the worth of the husband
But I think woman also should be given time and chance to move on

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dlip

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Thanks for thoughtful post. Now a days I miss such threads on this forum.

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libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

thank youuu so much...after reading so many bashers of anandi you have put a clear point in front of us...now i am just for the love day

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malika

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Thanks so much guys for all the wonderful comments.

Apy, Neha, Gowri,Tistu,Sangy - Cant agree more with u...beautifully put up! 👏

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cygnet9

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Very good introspection. I agree with all my senses that marriage does not mean physical intimacy but it should be the last phase to bond two peoples life. If every married couple understands this very basic concept and build their relationship by understanding each other during initial days of their marriage then there won't be any seperation.

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