Shekhar s feel insecurity about shiv? - Page 3

He is chipku now but near future bring back to sence.today his men s ego hurt but he digest .his wife not love to him yet beause she can't forget past ?

ira n cm r behaving like typical in laws...immediately after marriage everything is goody goody but once their son or dil start taking their own decisions they hav prob...they start sulking n emotional drama ki beta haath se chala gaya etcc
nothing new here in the name of tradition we indians juat want to control our kids n keep them in tight lease.

Originally posted by: shivanandi78

Seetden@ use pyar hi Kahte but she don't know yet ki voh pyar Nahi tha just teenage ka attraction tha.real love ka meaning kya he voh ab shiv se shikhegi jab tak use shiv se pyar Nahi hota tab tak ye past us par havi rahega then she realise love to him .fully whole heartly she except shiv .now shiv have tough time .

Kitna tough time dega shiv ko - enough is enough. For him it is a challenge to make the relationship work as he cannot let it fall it will be his defeat, dono taraf se haar uski hi, hum dil de chukesanam.
Now Anandi ko kuch sharam ajaye and let her take some steps forward.

I hope anandi trip cancal kare .realy unfair with shekhar s .

It went a bit too saas bahu for me today. Choti maa wasn't too bad she was like its not right to jump to conclusions but Ira was already jumping to them and Sanchi just fuelled it. Ira is a weak character and considering she still hasn't put Sanchi in her place after the Mooh Dikhai, I'm disappointed what kind of mother lets this behaviour go on. Hasn't Shiv been making his own decisions for a while now so whats the problem now.

Ira should have told Shiv that she felt bad when she came to know about his plan from Dadisa. Now Shiv can't even imagine why his carefree, loving mom is upset all of a sudden. Men usually don't hink too much about the small things.

I'm just amazed by how so many people seem to be placing the entire burden of handling this situation on Anandi. It was Shiv's initiative and HIS mistake to not tell his family first! How could Anandi have told them "we are planning to go back" when she's new to the family. I know that in real life unfortunately the boy's side always seems to have priority for everyone, but that is not fair. 😡Should a man not also try to please HIS in-laws just like his wife does? I don't think saying that men don't understand these things can be a valid excuse for such blunders. If a man is agreeing to get married, he has to be prepared to do as much of a balancing act as his wife. And Shiv being such a wise person who handles Anandi and Singhs with so much sensitivity, how could he not realize the implications of his actions? He does seem to love his family very much, but from the way he firmly handled Sanchi and CM, he doesn't seem to be overly attached to them or their approval. Staying away from family and making your own decisions independently for a large part of your youth will ultimately introduce detachment in your equation with your family at some level. Maybe that's why Shiv told DS first and not his own family.

Phew. I'll stop my ranting now😆

Originally posted by: mocking_bird

I cannot say about insecurity,but, surely the Shekhars were hurt by this sudden turn of events. The idea of Shiv confiding in Dadisa before telling them,must have rattled them and rightly so. Any family would like to spend some time with the new daughter-in-law and they are no different.

Shiv was insensitive about this. He may not have done it deliberately,but, sometimes,things which are done being unmindful can unsettle a number of relationships.

We must not always think negatively about Saanchi. Even people who are insensitive and callous towards other people's feelings,do say certain things which are true and cannot be brushed away.

Anandi is happy to be back in Jaitser as she can actively participate in "find Jagya" mission,that is why she quickly agreed to go back to Jaitser but,was not ready to go for HM.

Originally posted by: mocking_bird

I cannot say about insecurity,but, surely the Shekhars were hurt by this sudden turn of events. The idea of Shiv confiding in Dadisa before telling them,must have rattled them and rightly so. Any family would like to spend some time with the new daughter-in-law and they are no different.

Shiv was insensitive about this. He may not have done it deliberately,but, sometimes,things which are done being unmindful can unsettle a number of relationships.

We must not always think negatively about Saanchi. Even people who are insensitive and callous towards other people's feelings,do say certain things which are true and cannot be brushed away.

Anandi is happy to be back in Jaitser as she can actively participate in "find Jagya" mission,that is why she quickly agreed to go back to Jaitser but,was not ready to go for HM.