Shekhar s feel insecurity about shiv?

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Preacap . two mother s expression is change beause shivanandi without permission and take dicetion to back jaitsar .now start MU in both MIL s mind .may be mother understand her son now after marriage he change beause of anandi . Generally every mother same like situation feel insecure about son. Aise MU me everytime MIL apni bahu ka hi fault manti he ki mera beta ab hath se chala gaya or whatever . Ajee yahi mistake kar rahi he beause she know already IRA ne pagfere ki bat bad me kahi thi use apni MIL se permission lena jaruri he. Now her first priority is sasural then mayka. Generally husband ko ye sab knowledge Nahi hota voh wife ko hi dyan rakhana padta he. Beause abhi ajee aur shekhar s ekdusare ka nurture itana jante Nahi he isi liye very carefully is relation ko sambhalana padta he. Isi insecurity ki vajah voh ab shiv aur ajee ko akele CH na bhi rahne de may be shekhar s take dicetion ki CM move to forever in jaisar. BV me CVs always realty dikhate he aur aise situation hoti he to realty me bhi yahi hota he. Tabhi mayka or sasural me blance na rakho to chote chote problam create hote he jo.
But let see neaxt episode ajee how to handle sasara and mayka.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shivanandi78

Preacap . two mother s expression is change beause shivanandi without permission and take dicetion to back jaitsar .now start MU in both MIL s mind .may be mother understand her son now after marriage he change beause of anandi . Generally every mother same like situation feel insecure about son. Aise MU me everytime MIL apni bahu ka hi fault manti he ki mera beta ab hath se chala gaya or whatever . Ajee yahi mistake kar rahi he beause she know already IRA ne pagfere ki bat bad me kahi thi use apni MIL se permission lena jaruri he. Now her first priority is sasural then mayka. Generally husband ko ye sab knowledge Nahi hota voh wife ko hi dyan rakhana padta he. Beause abhi ajee aur shekhar s ekdusare ka nurture itana jante Nahi he isi liye very carefully is relation ko sambhalana padta he. Isi insecurity ki vajah voh ab shiv aur ajee ko akele CH na bhi rahne de may be shekhar s take dicetion ki CM move to forever in jaisar. BV me CVs always realty dikhate he aur aise situation hoti he to realty me bhi yahi hota he. Tabhi mayka or sasural me blance na rakho to chote chote problam create hote he jo.

But let see neaxt episode ajee how to handle sasara and mayka.



Boss, do you expect azee to balance, Today BV has butchered Azee - still remembering jagya not done whatever explanation she gives. Shiv has been too good but he dancing to Anani's tune is making him a funny. Azee will not do anything but Ira and CM will be sarcastic to Shiv - then hopefully Azee will decide not to go. Or she can just ignore and make a sad face to go. She can do anyhting for Singh.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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IRA and CM to backfire ajee without permission shiv and anandi shekhers decide to surprise honeymoon ticket . Then ajee jao forcefully honeymoon with shiv and both r very close. I hope 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Totally agree vd u shivanandi78 mayka nd sasural me bal rakhna bhut jaruri h nd agr anandi jaitsar chali jati h to ye bhut galat hoga bt i thnk wo jaitsar jana nhi hm plan kregi bcz aaj ke baad wo shiv ko khush rakhne ki koshish kregi...bt sry@ reshmiroy m nt agree vd u koi b incident jo present me ho nd past se match krta ho to past ki yaad aa hi jati h so use b aayi its nt a big deal.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jeanniefan

Totally agree vd u shivanandi78 mayka nd sasural me bal rakhna bhut jaruri h nd agr anandi jaitsar chali jati h to ye bhut galat hoga bt i thnk wo jaitsar jana nhi hm plan kregi bcz aaj ke baad wo shiv ko khush rakhne ki koshish kregi...bt sry@ reshmiroy m nt agree vd u koi b incident jo present me ho nd past se match krta ho to past ki yaad aa hi jati h so use b aayi its nt a big deal.


It is not only yad it is still living in the past so u cannot accept the present. I am sorry too not agree with u. But may be from today, she will be good to shiv as a gesture of gratitude.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ye time ajee ko shekhar s ka trust jitana aur unke sath adjust hone ka time he. She no more balikavadhu but she is mature women. Voh gujrati me phrase he na ki " aavti bahu aur besto raja Jo ek bar chap lag gayi voh lag gai" ( first impression is last impression).
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012


It is not only yad it is still living in the past so u cannot accept the present. I am sorry too not agree with u. But may be from today, she will be good to shiv as a gesture of gratitude.

ummm its ur pov bt jab b wo shiv ke sath hoti h wo bhut khush hoti h it means k wo present ko accept kr rhi h jab shiv anandi ki praise krta h to wo khush hoti h nd b4 mrg jab shiv ne anandi ko purpose kiya tha to wo bhut khush thi nd baad me usi ke baare me soch rhi thi bt wo sirf sr ke liye ready nhi h abhi dn doesn't mean dt she z living in past...sry if i hurt u.
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Originally posted by: jeanniefan

ummm its ur pov bt jab b wo shiv ke sath hoti h wo bhut khush hoti h it means k wo present ko accept kr rhi h jab shiv anandi ki praise krta h to wo khush hoti h nd b4 mrg jab shiv ne anandi ko purpose kiya tha to wo bhut khush thi nd baad me usi ke baare me soch rhi thi bt wo sirf sr ke liye ready nhi h abhi dn doesn't mean dt she z living in past...sry if i hurt u.



No i am not hurt, I am fully with her she is not ready for SR, but just cannot Accept FB for jagya tomorrow if they go on HM, she will remember her HM at Mumbai. Only when she will become a mother she will not remember anything bcz jagya refused to have a babby with her and preferred Gauri to bear his child twice.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012



No i am not hurt, I am fully with her she is not ready for SR, but just cannot Accept FB for jagya tomorrow if they go on HM, she will remember her HM at Mumbai. Only when she will become a mother she will not remember anything bcz jagya refused to have a babby with her and preferred Gauri to bear his child twice.

let's see wt vl hpn i just hope dt she vl nt do ds at dr hm bt personally i thnk it hpns...v cant 4get r past easily..its nt impossible bt difficult.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jeanniefan

let's see wt vl hpn i just hope dt she vl nt do ds at dr hm bt personally i thnk it hpns...v cant 4get r past easily..its nt impossible bt difficult.



Yes your memories can haunt you - so her pain of rejection after consumating marriage is understandable but what they showed, she is still in first love mode. But i think BV has shown enough of FB. Today was a new start and it will move - may be with some jhatka as ashi. You know actually she is in love, love which is very pure, physical intimacy is a part of love but it cannot be the base, for a marriage to work out you have to be friends. And her first relationship was based on only chahat a teenage attraction.

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