Shekhar s feel insecurity about shiv? - Page 4

Shinya@ Kahte he na pyar me Kuch Nahi dikhai deta he na sunai deta he.ye Banda abhi ugli par nach raha he.he will realise in future sure. How can pepole say this is lovestroy ? This not lovestroy ..just compromise marriage let in future between them all set .then regular hubby wifey .not lovestroy .he ignore own family s emosance.

@shivanandi78 there is nothing wrong in shiv taking decision without consulting his mom. If you see shiv is an independent guy who lived an independent life without his parents for long time. He studied outside of udaipur and worked in different places for few years. He did not even ask hi parents before he accepted his marriage with a Anandi. He just informed them that he likes a girl called anandi, so why hold he ask his mom now about his decision. Plz grow up people. Shiv knows his parents very well that they will accept his decision. His parents gave him full freedom in this life to take his own decisions. They are not Singh family coming from rural background. I respect guys who take their own decisions whether it is good or bad. Ira feeling insecure is her problem of not understanding her son.

Originally posted by: musicmaniac

Ira is very much justified in this case, since

1. She does not get to see her son often nor she is going to stay with them for long

2. Ira very clearly communicated in front of Anandi that she wants to delay pag-phera as she wants to spend time with her son and DIL

3. She stood for Anandi all the time, accepted her with all warmth from day 1, she can justifiably expect that Anandi will reciprocate her love by spending more time with her and not by jumping to every possible opportunity to go to Jaitser. It is not even 3 days since they came from Jaitser.

4. Anandi has clearly said earlier that she wants to spend time with family - so Ira believed her. She may have made plans for her new DIL. I think Ira should now start to learn that what Anandi tells does not practice in life at all.

5. Anandi on the other hand is so happy for Jaitser, that she did not bother to tell Shiv about Ira - DS conversation..may be it will be easier for her to stay in the guest bedroom in CH. Anyway, other than Singhs', nobody elses' emotion does not matter much to Anandi...

6. If I am in the place of Ira, I would also be upset, since your son gets married and within 3 days he and the DIL are willingly to get away from them and you get to know this from a third person. She will definitely feel being relegated.

Also the fault was in Shiv's part too. In his lovesick puppy mode, he is willing to tag his tail the way Anandi wants it. Sasural ke pure family ka photo bed ke saamne laana was definitely a good gesture but going back to Jaitser within 3 days just for the sake of his ever grateful friend, is just too much. At least 1 week to ruk jaate!!

In Jaitser, everyday Shiv An will be called to have dinner/ breakfast in every possible opportunity since Singhs are not able to breathe without Anandi and soon Anandi will be in find Jagiya mission - once the Shekhars come to know about all this - misunderstanding is going crop up hugely.

ya ur point very true.ira is upset bcoz he came to know that they r leaving from the 3rd person not from shiv or anandi.

Shiv was very wrong in doing this. I can imagine how hurtful it is for a mother to find out from someone else that her son has canceled his vacation and is going back.

@saathfan just watching one episode we cannot judge shiv and anandi character. How come shiv became Joru ka ghulam ? Anandi did not ask him to cancel hs vacation. He wanted to make her apply by taking her to her parents. Why should anandi be mahaan and sacrifice her wish to go home to Her parents. Shiv is an adult and can take decisions on his own and don't have to ask his mom for permission. It was just that Ira got the information from DS before shiv told her in the morning. We are also thinking like saanchi now. I respect shiv for taking his personal decisions regarding him and anandi without asking his parents.

Its looks like u all forgot whol Shivis and what his profession. He is a Zilladhis (Collector) I think India mein abhi bhi Number 1 job Betaaj badshah kind of position. He takes decision for entire Zillla can't take decision to improve his relation to his wife. Here they can hardly get private time. He knows how to make Anandi to accept her present. See September 3rd 2012 episode where he did have conversation with CM about Anandi's present state of mind. He also said how he will make her forget her bpast. He is neither fool nor Joru ka gulam. He told Ira that he will take Anandi for HM but preparations incomplete so he doesn't want to waste his vacation right now. He did ask them to join. Currently Anandi's relation is not that strong to say anything. Actually even my husband use to handle his parents for similar things becausd thet use to understand him better than in my early marriage days. Anandi has no place to say or do anything. He does everything with planning. So wait and watch what cvs are conveying instead of jumping to conclusion. 😊