anandi is being selfish

Till now whenever she needed emotional support she shared it with shiv and he listened and helped her my lending his shoulder to cry and smile. Now when he expressed his desire to love her she is getting scared of him. No one is saying her to give in to him physically but at least as a friend she should let me know about her fears and uneasyness in intimacy. I dont see any friendship btw them now. From her side she does not even consider him as a friend and she is finding all ways to escape from him. Shiv would definitely will feel bad if he gets to know that she is trying to escape from him and not telling the truth. I seriously want shiv to get hurt by anandi's actions now. Anandi should realize what wrong she is doing by not telling her fears to shiv.

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

Till now whenever she needed emotional support she shared it with shiv and he listened and helped her my lending his shoulder to cry and smile. Now when he expressed his desire to love her she is getting scared of him. No one is saying her to give in to him physically but at least as a friend she should let me know about her fears and uneasyness in intimacy. I dont see any friendship btw them now. From her side she does not even consider him as a friend and she is finding all ways to escape from him. Shiv would definitely will feel bad if he gets to know that she is trying to escape from him and not telling the truth. I seriously want shiv to get hurt by anandi's actions now. Anandi should realize what wrong she is doing by not telling her fears to shiv.

I know lot of people are saying shiv as a despo. Come on its his shiv and there is no wrong in expressing his desires. If he was a despo he would not have let anandi sleep on the first night and would not have left the HM option to anandi. Now how many times should this guy convey his goodness as a husband to anandi now.

watever anandi has in her heart, she should simply tell that to shiv to avoid misunderstanding.

Shiv's despo behaviour is beyond my understanding ( maybe I am not so intelligent but I am sure there will be people in the audience who are not so brilliant).

A few days before the wedding when he had upset anandi by calling off the wedding , he had said to his family and Singhs - I am happy with her friendship . Its enough for me. I will wait for the day she falls in love with me and I know that day will come.

@poiu123 if shiv does not show his love then how will anandi ever move out of her past memories. There might be some reason why cv r showing shiv as a typical husband. Lets watch the show to know the answers. It's good they showed him as a normal guy not mahaan like anandi. When she can touch his cheek to remove his cream but suddenly she is not comfortable with his touch too. This is heights of hypocrisy

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

@poiu123 if shiv does not show his love then how will anandi ever move out of her past memories. There might be some reason why cv r showing shiv as a typical husband. Lets watch the show to know the answers. It's good they showed him as a normal guy not mahaan like anandi. When she can touch his cheek to remove his cream but suddenly she is not comfortable with his touch too. This is heights of hypocrisy

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Not really .. I will also wait to see what CVs show .. because I am not able to understand Shiv any more.

@poius123 don't u think any normal guy would get the adrenaline rush to love his wife. May be that's what cv r showing. Just to show that anandi has to accept that now she is in a marital life and physical intimacy is Key in a relationship.Fulfilling the duties of a wife is not enough like his she took out shiv clothes out before he came from the bathroom. There is no need to fall in love for physical intimacy according to lot of people. In arranged marriages people don't fall in love instantly but they do go for intimacy before falling in love. So there is not wrong in shiv feelings.

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

@poiu123 if shiv does not show his love then how will anandi ever move out of her past memories. There might be some reason why cv r showing shiv as a typical husband. Lets watch the show to know the answers. It's good they showed him as a normal guy not mahaan like anandi. When she can touch his cheek to remove his cream but suddenly she is not comfortable with his touch too. This is heights of hypocrisy

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How come u have such conrtadicting thoughts on same situation on one hand u have created a poll saying will shiv force anandi n on the other hand ur callin anandi as selfish..I am confused 😕
Sleeping with someone just to oblige them is insulting their love...If Anandi compromises just to please Shiv or to repay his ehsaan she wld be insulting him.
Intimacy shld be frm both sided.
Anandi is not being selfish...for a girl getting intimate with someone is a big step...Anandi is still not comfortable with this thought and its perfectly fine if she needs more time.
She is an adult I am sure she know wat marriage is all abt she wld never expect to remain in a platonic marriage forever thts impractical...She has chosen to marry Shiv means she will fufifll all duties including physical duties evetually...its been just one day let her become more comfortable with him she will come around...
Btw Despo Shiv is just a comical term...we all know Shiv is not being a despo we r just using it as a fun post 😆