Anandi is not happy

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I know that the forum people are very much disappointed with the current track of Balika Vadhu .I also getting bored.

But one thing i noticed that many of the forum members are bashing Anandi . Please do not become disappointed with Anandi.According to the story the" Seva" is the nature of our beloved Anandi.This time she has also explained the reason of her Seva.And this time her explanation is quite justified. I was very irritated with her during the time when was lost in the fb of her ex bhikari husband. But now a day when she is nursing him she is not thinking about him.Even she is not enjoying his touch also.It is very accurately showing that anandi is doing all this thing only for the sake of her majboori.😭

On the other hand many members are saying that she is not taking care of Shiv's emotion. But i think that is not true also. Wheather she have realized it or not but it is very true that she is passionately love and respect shiv. She blindly believe that he is a very strong person and support everyone and he do not need the support of anyone for anything in his life. May be this is a blind and impractical faith.but it shows that how much she trust Shiv.

So please ppl,Do not blame anandi .Try to understand her situation.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandita.jana

I know that the forum people are very much disappointed with the current track of Balika Vadhu .I also getting bored.


But one thing i noticed that many of the forum members are bashing Anandi . Please do not become disappointed with Anandi.According to the story the" Seva" is the nature of our beloved Anandi.This time she has also explained the reason of her Seva.And this time her explanation is quite justified. I was very irritated with her during the time when was lost in the fb of her ex bhikari husband. But now a day when she is nursing him she is not thinking about him.Even she is not enjoying his touch also.It is very accurately showing that anandi is doing all this thing only for the sake of her majboori.😭

On the other hand many members are saying that she is not taking care of Shiv's emotion. But i think that is not true also. Wheather she have realized it or not but it is very true that she is passionately love and respect shiv. She blindly believe that he is a very strong person and support everyone and he do not need the support of anyone for anything in his life. May be this is a blind and impractical faith.but it shows that how much she trust Shiv.

So please ppl,Do not blame anandi .Try to understand her situation.

Nandita... I agree, she blindly trusts Shiv and respects him a lot; which is base of a relation more than love!!! She looks at Shiv at every single decission because she knows no matter what happened this man will support me. She is grounded by her own dillemas and problems and she needs Shiv's help to overcome with those. But on the other hand Shiv is a human and a MAN... A lover could feel the pain or rage when he is passing through the state like Shiv... He trusts Anandi and loves her but he is not certain about Jagya, he's feeling like he could harm her!!! Only irritation with Anandi is she have to told the family look I am doing this but only for your sake!!! Why the huminity's sake???? Dadisa is taking her forgranted, and for dadisa she is giving pain to Shiv unconsciously...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandita.jana

I know that the forum people are very much disappointed with the current track of Balika Vadhu .I also getting bored.


But one thing i noticed that many of the forum members are bashing Anandi . Please do not become disappointed with Anandi.According to the story the" Seva" is the nature of our beloved Anandi.This time she has also explained the reason of her Seva.And this time her explanation is quite justified. I was very irritated with her during the time when was lost in the fb of her ex bhikari husband. But now a day when she is nursing him she is not thinking about him.Even she is not enjoying his touch also.It is very accurately showing that anandi is doing all this thing only for the sake of her majboori.😭

On the other hand many members are saying that she is not taking care of Shiv's emotion. But i think that is not true also. Wheather she have realized it or not but it is very true that she is passionately love and respect shiv. She blindly believe that he is a very strong person and support everyone and he do not need the support of anyone for anything in his life. May be this is a blind and impractical faith.but it shows that how much she trust Shiv.

So please ppl,Do not blame anandi .Try to understand her situation.


There is too much of Shiv jaap in this forum 😆. Uski wajah se all characters are being bashed. As if the show has changed from Balika Vadhu to Om Namah Shivay.😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandita.jana

I know that the forum people are very much disappointed with the current track of Balika Vadhu .I also getting bored.


But one thing i noticed that many of the forum members are bashing Anandi . Please do not become disappointed with Anandi.According to the story the" Seva" is the nature of our beloved Anandi.This time she has also explained the reason of her Seva.And this time her explanation is quite justified. I was very irritated with her during the time when was lost in the fb of her ex bhikari husband. But now a day when she is nursing him she is not thinking about him.Even she is not enjoying his touch also.It is very accurately showing that anandi is doing all this thing only for the sake of her majboori.😭

On the other hand many members are saying that she is not taking care of Shiv's emotion. But i think that is not true also. Wheather she have realized it or not but it is very true that she is passionately love and respect shiv. She blindly believe that he is a very strong person and support everyone and he do not need the support of anyone for anything in his life. May be this is a blind and impractical faith.but it shows that how much she trust Shiv.

So please ppl,Do not blame anandi .Try to understand her situation.


I am mostly in agreement with you, but don't think any one is or should be "bashing" Anandi, she is a fictional character anyway. But the angst that I have noticed is toward CV for having twisted Anandi's character. That is because we love Anandi's character and suddenly this strong, highly principled woman, who earlier could tell right from wrong, can give one bhashan a minute has become a seva putla, a robot. She needs to stand up against wrong done to her like she stood up against wrong done to others. You say dependance on Shiv, nice but as a woman is that what you would advocate? For everything you depend on a man? Even right from wrong only a man can save me otherwise I am nothing? Aisa aap sochte bhi nahi honge, na? The thouight that we are now seeing Anandi so helpless waiting for a man to rescue her is not appealing to us.
In any case our grievance is against CV and not Anandi. Hope you see the difference.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anandi did not do it because she was helpless and was forced to do it.

She chose to act as J's wife until he gets better and comes to his???senses because she believes he is ill and genuinely needs her support.She thought it was her duty because he helped Nandu get better despite his family not wanting him to be there and she considers Singh family as her family.She is doing all this out of her senses of just not out of helplessness.

I don't believe it is her weakness it is her strength that enabled her to make that decision.
We may not agree with that decision of hers but it is definitely fits in with her character.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi did not do it because she was helpless and was forced to do it.


She chose to act as J's wife until he gets better and comes to his???senses because she believes he is ill and genuinely needs her support.She thought it was her duty because he helped Nandu get better despite his family not wanting him to be there and she considers Singh family as her family.She is doing all this out of her senses of just not out of helplessness.

I don't believe it is her weakness it is her strength that enabled her to make that decision.
We may not agree with that decision of hers but it is definitely fits in with her character.

You have a good explanation, my sense is different.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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IMHO -- Anandi in no way is depending on Shiv for taking decisions. When she looked at Shiv before she decided to playact, it was the respect she was giving to the rishta and Shiv's trust in her. There is continuous conversation between them on all aspects whether it is verbal or telepathic. It is a different thing that J has turned out to be a perfect cad taking advantage of A and S' predicament.

Many find her crying in the presence of Shiv irritating. But, A is a human being. She confides in S as she finds him non judgmental and how many of us are like that? She is not afraid to show her vulnerability to him. She is strong to the external world, but she can afford to share her fears and apprehensions with Shiv and that I think most viewers are finding fault with A on this aspect..

We need to distinguish between Anandi the sarpanch of Jaitsar, ex dil of Singhs, current daughter of Singhs and fiancee of Shiv.

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