Originally posted by: AshBendre
CM to me seems a very stubborn n opinionated lady. she was coaxed so many times in her youth to marry again but she did not that shows how much ziddi she is. theother thing i feel that she is gender biased as shiv is a male she thinks he has every right to get a new unused nayi naveli bride with no baggage.
i understand her view to some extent but if shiv as an sensible adult has made his dcision n chosen anandi then why is she saying all this to anandi ???
people who have a contended marriage may voluntarily choose to not remarry. for some the place of the spouse is so wholesome that it needs no refilling. the relationship becomes so complete that theres no scope of replacement. just like a mother child relationship which just can never be replaced. so i can understand if a woman loved her husband so much that she never wanted anyone else to take his place. that may be complete and wholesome love which had fulfilled her life so much that there was no void even if he was gone.
it is totally understandable. but the thing which was meant to be understood was ... anandi's marriage with jagiya did not fall under the category of happy, contended, fulfilled marriage.
it was filled with deciet, lonliness, rejection and pain.
if i were CM, i would have understood that anandi dsnt have any happy memory and is willing to start over.
i doubt if CM dsnt understand the difference between the two situations.
i feel she is definitely bothered by anandi NOT being a VIRGIN.
all the rest is a pile of crap she is doling out to stay politically correct while getting her job done of procuring shiv a VIRGIN bride.
wo kehate hai naa saanp bhi mar jaaye aur laathi bhi naa toote.
that way shiv will never hate her for what she has done to his jodi with anandi.
Edited by anjana.d - 13 years ago
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