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Posted: 13 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: mahi12

CM'S approach i found very much like if i am working on a job for few years i got fired and lose my job therefore i should sit at home and mourn all my life for that job no need to find another job because i won't be sincere in it because of my memories from old job 🤣

marriage is not a job. the two cannot be compared. you dont mourn for a job but u do mourn for ur desceased partner. how much you mourn depends on what kind fo relationship you had ... if it was a hppay one and u were fulfileld and content , then u may never remarry.
it is not a subject of joke.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#52
All I can say is - Chotima is just mean and crossed all her limits yesterday.. Can not support her action under any damn circumstances !

Excellent post btw ! I will start hating this 'chota' character soon if she doesnt change ! 🤬
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Regarding CM..she is right...she talks about practicability...not theoretical..Hats off to her...I liked her because she knows her boundaries and wants to make sure that her son Shiv does not suffer in future...Why people hate CM...she raised shiv and for the last thirty years she is with Shiv...Anandi just came into the life of Shiv so far from few months..I totally agree with CM..she should have concerns for Shiv and she needs to get an affirmation from Anandi about Jagya..She has the right to ask Aannadi thousands of questions to see her son happy.
Being parents..they have the right and she is exercising this and it does not matter if it relates to Jagya or not...they are getting a life partener for Shiv..and it is not just a small matter..
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Posted: 13 years ago
#54
the basic difference is that CM thinks like a home maker n Anandi, like a working woman ...
They r on different planets altogether n both r right as per their own sphere...
Itz like a frog in a well advising another in ocean...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@bhach - no one is saying CM shud not have concern for S's life.. but what right does she have to taunt A and ask her to go back on her decision as it is still not too late to do it? Does she even have an iota of idea what she is saying?
Edited by srijay - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: bhach

Regarding CM..she is right...she talks about practicability...not theoretical..Hats off to her...I liked her because she knows her boundaries and wants to make sure that her son Shiv does not suffer in future...Why people hate CM...she raised shiv and for the last thirty years she is with Shiv...Anandi just came into the life of Shiv so far from few months..I totally agree with CM..she should have concerns for Shiv and she needs to get an affirmation from Anandi about Jagya..She has the right to ask Aannadi thousands of questions to see her son happy.
Being parents..they have the right and she is exercising this and it does not matter if it relates to Jagya or not...they are getting a life partener for Shiv..and it is not just a small matter..

Honestly Bhach - I was wondering if I shud respond to this as you and I have very divergent views on most issues. But I just could not let it go so easily.

CM and her concerns -
Is Shiv a baby ? Is Shiv not capable of thinking about who he wants to fall in love with ? Has anyone hidden or lied about anything to them from Anandi's family ? Is Shiv himself little bit doubtful about Anandi's or his own affections ?

Why dos CM think she has to worry when Shiv's own mom and Dad and Daddu are not even concerned ? It made sense till she spoke to Shiv about her worries, but when no one is listening to her - Mahi, Daddu, Irawati, Anuj and Shiv - then can't she try to address Anandi's folks ? Why attack a poor defenceless Anandi all alone ?

Is it Anandi's fault she got dumped by her husband ? Bcoz she has a so-called 'past' - shud she give up her right to anything she may be able to do in her present or future ? What is this constant memories she keeps harping about ? Yes - I have memories of most things since I was 3, Does that mean I have no right to make newer memories ?

CM was WRONG in being as harsh with Anandi as she was. Telling her J is in the village is one thing. Accusing her that she is lying about not knowing he is there is entirely another.

CM is getting out of control and her sneakiness needs to get checked soon. Hope Shiv - the one she claims to have so much concern for - is the one to tell her to butt out and stay out.

Shiv has told her nicely to have faith in him and his choice, but she refused. Now she just has to be told firmly and she shud also understand that she risks alienating Shiv with this kind of nastiness.

In Jodha-Akbar, do u remember how Akbar's nurse claimed she was doing everything for his own good ? And do you remember what happened when Akbar found out about her schemes ? Hope the same happens to CM. Hope Shiv just blasts her out.
Edited by hooked - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sorry just now got done watching whole week's BV repeat on Colors and I am a bit high.. I am openly saying CM doesnt have any right to interfere in Shiv's personal thing simply cuz she is plain insensitive and judgemental..

What does she know about Anandi ? How come she makes a false assumption that Anandi is lying about Jagya's return ? Who gave her the right to JUDGE Anandi as a person ? How many minutes has she spent with the girl ? I can't support CM simply for this reason that unless you are in that person's shoe throughout life, you dont have any right to JUDGE a person..

CM's krap about memories and breathe is just pathetic šŸ‘ŽšŸ¼ If she remembers her husband at her every breathe, she better go and cry in the corner of her room 🄱 Why going around the village and lecturing people about her son's happiness 🄱

All I can see is she thinks about her son Shiv and only Shiv at her every breathe 🄱 Cant stand another lecture from her about love for 'first husband' 😔
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Posted: 13 years ago
#58
Cm first of all is forgetting that she is talking to an adult...n meddling with an adult choice...

Whatever it is, AnSh marriage happens n cm's useless feelings need not b given any importance...
Shez a frog in a well n had never faced the society ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What I see is that CVs have made with the entry of the Shekars is Balika Vadhu 2.0. In the sense this is Anandi new life and new beginnings with marriage again. Cvs have made Choti Maa like Dadisa coz she clearly loves Shiv more than her own son. But CM character won't be as extravagant as Dadisa but she will be the 'pebble in Anandi's shoes', which she can't ignore nor throw. In any story, there has to be the 'bad guy', so they have placed CM as a grey character, not over the top yet she will be in Anandi's face.
Even how Anandi met her new father in law was parallel to how she met Bhairon. Just like how Sumitra is a nice saas, so is Irawati. But Sugna liked Anandi, here Shiv sister doesn't approve but we have Mahi who like Anandi. Just how the Singhs were a traditional family, Shekars are modern, it will be interesting to see how Anandi fits into this mould.
To me I think this is just take two of Anandi's life, Shiv will be everything Jagat isn't. This will be the catalyst to Anandi's realisation of life, love, family and herself as a woman, wife and possibly even something more.

Picture abhi baki yeh hai dost :)

Just to add, I don't agree with what CM said but what she said will only help Anandi realise what a worthless piece of work Jughead is and she will more determined to be with Shiv. When Dadisa used to emotionally blackmail Anandi when it came to Jagya, Anandi always gives in but this time I don't think Anandi will give in to CM so easily, she isn't the same anymore, she is wiser and will fight anything or anyone that comes her way.😊 CM can take a hike šŸ˜›
Edited by fuzzyface - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ Fuzzyface.,You are just BANG ON on my view of the story going forward...
Characters like CM and Shiv's Sis are required for identity of A to be brought forth in the family...
It's just a new begginning for A and how she will win over the grey elements in her new family...and may be how she can achieve more in her life with support from a life partner like Shiv...

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