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Posted: 13 years ago

#101

Originally posted by: -Perseus-

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mahi12

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Posted: 13 years ago

#102

@anjana .d ..you might have a inherit soft corner for women but i think this is very unfair to just feel sorry for Gauri because she is a woman😕 and put entire blame on Jagaya's head ..if you think he has no respect for women does this woman has respect for men ?for her husband ? is she a worthy woman ?a worthy wife .?.whatever reasons she has to insult bhairo but what reasons she has to lie , cheat , use her husband like a tool for her revenge betray his blind trust on her to use it for her own selfish purposes and not accept her even that mistake to lie to him and throw it on his face yes i did now what you will do i don't care for you ...😳Gauri is no Anandi Gauri is complete opposite of Anandi ...Anandi was innocent Jagaya did wrong with her ..when he did wrong with Gauri for her love's sake not to use her he asked forgiveness from her earned that forgiveness and trust from her and he did make many sacrifices for her left everyone for her but what she did ?how many times he should forgive her on his own for her one favor to him forgiving him at that time how many of her mistakes i count here ..her countless insults to him , her never listening to him result miscarriage , her inhumane treatment to badi massi , her ruining his career he kept forgiving her but now when she crossed all limits still he should forgive her just because she is a woman ...what make a woman think her husband is her puppet she can do whatever with him in return expect him to be her loyal pet ..sorry i disagree with it ...she was not avenging from him for his mistakes but using him for her selfish purposes and i dont think Jagaya is over blaming Gauri only blaming her where she was wrong and everyone calls her wrong there and for following her blindly he is blaming himself ..he is at fault ..unlike Gauri who is sitting in victim mode all is done wrong to her she never did any wrong ready to kill her child ..🤢

Edited by mahi12 - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

#103

@ anjana n mahiya ( i hope mahi u dont mind if i call u mahiya 😉) i feel that we r put under difficult situations in life by the almighty. its called the maya or illusion of bhagwan. its how strong we are that matters. if we get engrossed in the maya n indulge in wrong decisions n wrong deeds n cant control ourselves then its our fault. god tests us that way, if we come out successful we become better human beings.

here both jagya n gauri endlessly have done wrong deeds n could not get out of the illusion or maya created around them...( thats their anger won over their calmness, their selfishness won over their selfcontrol) when in case of jagya when he tried to hide his identity in mbbs college n also could not control his lust/ emotions for gauri ... gauri could not control her emotions of anger n self control innumerable times... thats when u can say they r responsible for their own bad deeds ...so we cant really say that the situations are responsible ..they both are responsible for everything that happened to them.

in case of gauri i agree i have mentioned many times that she got rotten to the core because of her childhood incidents n her vain parents but wen i now think about it from the wider perspective i feel the above..

Edited by AshBendre - 13 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 13 years ago

#104

@red

I agree with you.He discarded A because he thought he got an upgraded model in Gauri and now he finds the faults in the upgraded model and dumps it.

In both instances there is one thing in common.His total intolerance to what he perceives as defects in people who are connected to him.He does not have the patience to work on what he finds as imperfections in the women he claimed to love instead of working on those so called shortcomings he just dumps them.That's why I want him to go back to Gauri and work on his relationship with her.That is his punishment and that is also the only way he can redeem himself.

Punishement for Gauri - she lost the challenge that she made with Sumi.J left her and went back to family.It's another thing that he got kicked out. G having to take back J is the biggest punishment for her.The man she considered as her trophy becoming a millstone around her neck.

Edited by aparnauma - 13 years ago

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mahi12

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Posted: 13 years ago

#105

@Ash ...its ok you can call me mahiya😆

@aparnauma...i guess i have repeated many times here jagaya leaving Gauri is not one day finding faults case when she was flawless before 😕i would have whole heartedly agree with you if he would have left her after her one insult mummy she insults me Anandi never did so Anandi is good gauri is bad ..but did he do that ..NO ...when that woman proved to him how much she truly loves him by cheating him and later throwing it on his face yes i did i don't care for you.. for her he lives or dies not her concern so why this blame is being put on him he found flaws in her and left her 😕her betraying his trust is a small fault? when he did wrong he confessed and earned her forgiveness but what she is doing ?...on what relation he should work on with that woman for whom her husband is in hospital she is saying i have no time ..to work on a relation there needs to be a relation.. this is relation ?this woman respects relation ? if she respect's relation what made her do so ..where jagaya was so unfair with her after marriage that made her be this cheap ?for that she deserves another chance in free ?does Jagaya owes his life to Gauri whatever she can do with him he has no choice to leave her because he is bound with her to follow his rishta all life because he made a relation with her?..she whatever does he should stay with her because he claims he loves her ..while she has nothing to do she is free to do whatever he has no choice to leave her ?...i think breaking away from Gauri was not so easy for him either ..but .when this woman will learn her responsibliities when she will learn value of relationships when she will learn her mistakes when she will value of her husband ..he is no pet of hers ?Jagaya should make her do that by holding her finger why? she is no small kid ..you are saying he should go back to her will she live with him? ..you have seen her attitude ..if you think he should ask forgiveness from her and make up with her encourage her with this sweet heart you have always been right next time done more wrong .😵

Edited by mahi12 - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

#106

Originally posted by: mahi12
@Ash ...its ok you can call me mahiya😆

@aparnauma...i guess i have repeated many times here jagaya leaving Gauri is not finding faults case when she was flawless before 😕i would have whole heartedly agree with you if he would have left her after her one insult mummy she insults me Anandi never did so Anandi is good gauri is bad ..but did he do that ..NO ...when that woman proved to him how much she truly loves him by cheating him and later throwing it on his face yes i did i don't care for you for her he lives or dies not her concern so why this blame is being put on him he found flaws in her and left her 😕her betraying his trust is a small fault when he did wrong he confessed and earned her forgiveness but what she is doing ...on what relation he should work on with that woman for whom her husband is in hospital she is saying i have no time ..to work on a relation there needs to be a relation this is relation ?this woman respects relation ? if she respect's relation what made her do so ..where jagaya was so unfair with her after marriage that made her be this cheap ?for that she deserves another chance in free ?does this man owes his life to Gauri whatever she can do with him he has no choice to leave her because he is bound with her to nibhofy his rishta all life because he made a relation with her ..she whatever does he should stay with her because he claims he loves her ..while she has nothing to do she is free to do whatever he has no choice to leave her ?...i think breaking away from Gauri was not so easy for him either ...when this woman will learn her responsibliities when she will learn value of relationships when she will learn her mistakes when she will value her husband is no pet of hers ?Jagaya should make her do that by holding her finger why? she is no small kid ..you are saying he should go back to her will she live with him ..you have seen her attitude ..if you think he should ask forgiveness from her and make up with her encourage her sweet heart you have always been right next time done more wrong .😵

I agree , he was more patient, more understanding, more loving to gauri in every way...but he failed to do the basic thing , a husband should do. He kept G as his mistress all this while and never bothered to make her his legal wife even after she conceived. So this alone should have been enough for Gauri to leave him even before he left her..but she is too cheap to leave him.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#107

As I see it - if we can understand that 2 people can fall in love - then we shud also be able to accept that someone can fall out of love as suddenly too.

And its its not like this is the first time for Jagya. He did fall in love with Anandi and woo her passionately till she came back after turning 18. But then he found another candidate more appealing to his sensibilities and so he fell OUT of love with Anandi.

Currently he saw Gauri's lies and longtime deceits via BadePapa and he finds himself unable to look past it and has consequently fallen OUT of love with her. Simple !

Where is the question of man/woman come here ?

Men are as good and as bad as women. If we have a bias towards the woman coz we r a woman - then that is not fair to men and then we also give rights to men to be biased against women. Just take a look at the law in certain men dominated societies.

Evene a rape cannot be reported by a woman and accepted as such by a man unless she can find $ male witnesses. Meaning - a woman witness has no weightage. Does that seem wromng to us ? If yes - then how can we justify with siding with any side except humanity ?

J was wrong and G was wrong. But here we r discussing J wrt his parents and his ex-wife. Here J is their culprit and J deserves whatever form of punishment or rejection they chose to bestow on him. G is and was always an outsider. G may be J's culprit but she is not Anandi or Haveki's 100% culprit.l That honour goes to Jagya !!

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Posted: 13 years ago

#108

@perseus ...for making her his legal wife he would have to do a tour of Jail🤣that would not have been good for both either since their reality would have come in front of world .their marriage null and void ..Gauri didn;t want that 😆 so they were living in false husband wife relation on agreement of both sides not that only he was keeping her as his mistress she was willingly living for it .Gauri was eager for his and Anandi's divorce but i think she was more eager to become his only wife that 's why she said to him when you return from jaipur now you will only be mine Jagat...she chose to have a religious marriage then going to court because court would have declared their previous marriage null and void and she didn't want that 😆but once again her dream broke with a slap 😆

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Posted: 13 years ago

#109

Originally posted by: mahi12
@anjana .d ..you might have a inherit soft corner for women but i think this is very unfair to just feel sorry for Gauri because she is a woman😕 and put entire blame on Jagaya's head ..if you think he has no respect for women does this woman has respect for men ?for her husband ? is she a worthy woman ?a worthy wife .?.whatever reasons she has to insult bhairo but what reasons she has to lie , cheat , use her husband like a tool for her revenge betray his blind trust on her to use it for her own selfish purposes and not accept her even that mistake to lie to him and throw it on his face yes i did now what you will do i don't care for you ...😳Gauri is no Anandi Gauri is complete opposite of Anandi ...Anandi was innocent Jagaya did wrong with her ..when he did wrong with Gauri for her love's sake not to use her he asked forgiveness from her earned that forgiveness and trust from her and he did make many sacrifices for her left everyone for her but what she did ?how many times he should forgive her on his own for her one favor to him forgiving him at that time how many of her mistakes i count here ..her countless insults to him , her never listening to him result miscarriage , her inhumane treatment to badi massi , her ruining his career he kept forgiving her but now when she crossed all limits still he should forgive her just because she is a woman ...what make a woman think her husband is her puppet she can do whatever with him in return expect him to be her loyal pet ..sorry i disagree with it ...she was not avenging from him for his mistakes but using him for her selfish purposes and i dont think Jagaya is over blaming Gauri only blaming her where she was wrong and everyone calls her wrong there and for following her blindly he is blaming himself ..he is at fault ..unlike Gauri who is sitting in victim mode all is done wrong to her she never did any wrong ready to kill her child ..🤢

gauri jaisi bhi hai she is jagiya's choice. i still dont see how jagiya can play victim here.