Miss I think first you need to develop a habit of reading complete posts and then answer on the basis of one sentence and comment and even accusing members of doing prejudice is really not a good thing and i think you are doing prejudice on yourself by this kind of reply and on a public forum you cannot expect everyone to be yes mam to your all posts ..if you write a post then develop in yourself and also give space to others to disagree with you too ..if you have trouble in reading and understanding my post then please don't replyOriginally posted by: madhubala.fan
the very first scentene of your post was enough to make me not read the rest of it. and i am replying only to the part i have highlighted in red.i dont know what exactly is wrong with this forum , and which part of " i dont support gauri" you have trouble understanding.my impression of all the interctions here is either you are with gauri or you are with anandi. itis impossible for people ehre to even comprehend , if someone is able to put in a word for gauri , she is not automatically a gauri sympathiser.it is impossibel for people to understand a person can find both anandi and gauri wronged by the same man.apparently fandom is like a religion ... u either belond to it or u dont. if oen is an anandi supporter , he/she has to declare her loyalty by automatically becoming gauri hater.i expected more maturity here.the entire point of my post was second woman should not be blamed sqaurely by society and other women. it gives a clean chit to man , resotres him his family while leaves the woman fighting for her existence. this is as unfair and this approach needs to change.anyways i know where i stand and i know how much i want anandi to be with shiv. rest i dont care for any prejudices people seem to be having against me.
and secondly since you didn't bother to read post properly therefore again came with the same reply because I have answered you there ..you are not supporting Gauri but you are sympathizing with her just because she is a woman which is equal to supporting her ..and I am kind of confused with your logic to me you want me to support Gauri on basis of Anandi ?and put wrong accusations on Jagaya and declare this woman is victim...all is his fault ..if I support Anandi what it has to do with Gauri ?to support Anand I have to support Gauri too the only similarity she has with Anandi that she is also woman but Anandi is a perfect example of what a woman should be as friend , daughter , wife , daughter in law ,..while Gauri is a perfect example of what a woman should not be as friend , wife , daughter in law , daughter ..Gauri is complete opposite of Anandi and I don't understand your approach why to support positive side of woman I have to support negative too otherwise I am not supporter of positive 'I don't support Anandi if I said anything to Gauri .? through this post are you supporting Anandi ? no so what is the issue ?if you want Shiv with Anandi that means you sympathize with Gauri its wrong to blame this great woman? What Jagaya did with Anandi what it has to do with Gauri ? was she avenging from him ?is she any way less than him ? he does wrong he should ask forgiveness and he did 'she does wrong he should stay with her give her love without her asking forgiveness 'is this your approach .?.then you need to come out of your unfair approach that always a man is wrong ..women are wrong too .if Gauri hates singhs so it means jagaya should never be accepted by his family even if he wins their trust back because his great wife hates them even was two timing with him too . but still Jagaya should go back to her and love her leave his family let them remain in pain for his loss but Gauri should not suffer...I disagree with this approach ..for me men and women are equal if both do wrong'repent for their mistakes and apologize rectify their mistakes ..Gauri is not a kid an educated grown up woman if she has shame then come and apologize to all for her dozens of sins and rectify them including to Jagaya too lying cheating , breaking your husband's trust is not noble deed but a big sin 'if she cannot do so then suffer all her life ..and I am not supporting Jagaya in my post but for me speaking truth and clear confusions of people is not a sin .first come out of your unfair approaches then tell others
And a request to you next time read before replying