I feel anandi should move out of the haveli

Originally posted by: tinoo

I know I will get brickbats ... but I think enough is enough.

Anandi should move out of the haveli after having found out that the haveli folk are trying to move her out... Regardless of whether the past was her fault or not, by now she is educationally, financially and emotionally independent... and I think she should rent a room somewhere and live by herself somewhere in jayetsar.

Although it is disguised as "finding a jeevan saathi for her khusiyan" ... the spiritual intent and purport is to get her out of the haveli by hook or by crook and after today's betrayal, and knowing they were looking for wedding matches behind my back, I personally would not feel comfortable with these people... I mean never mind dadisa, she is understandable ... but if I felt that bapusa had done this to me... that would cut me to the quick. Bapusa was someone trustworthy.

And threatening to live there by blackmail is also undesirable.

In any case what is the need for blackmail... its not like anyone can physically force anandi into a remarriage ... how would they do it? bind her hands and feet and make her stay in the mandap by force while a groom forcefully tied a mangalsutra and forcefully filled sindoor in her hair while she was kicking and screaming?

Originally posted by: tinoo

Although it is disguised as "finding a jeevan saathi for her khusiyan" ... the spiritual intent and purport is to get her out of the haveli by hook or by crook and after today's betrayal,"

Originally posted by: tinoo

I know I will get brickbats ... but I think enough is enough.

Anandi should move out of the haveli after having found out that the haveli folk are trying to move her out... Regardless of whether the past was her fault or not, by now she is educationally, financially and emotionally independent... and I think she should rent a room somewhere and live by herself somewhere in jayetsar.

Although it is disguised as "finding a jeevan saathi for her khusiyan" ... the spiritual intent and purport is to get her out of the haveli by hook or by crook and after today's betrayal, and knowing they were looking for wedding matches behind my back, I personally would not feel comfortable with these people... I mean never mind dadisa, she is understandable ... but if I felt that bapusa had done this to me... that would cut me to the quick. Bapusa was someone trustworthy. You will hurt people who are trying to do good to you. You will punish them like this. You are saying as if they were plotting her murder 😲 not marriage. Thinking of having a life partner and love is a punishment. I did n't know that!

In any case what is the need for blackmail... its not like anyone can physically force anandi into a remarriage ... how would they do it? bind her hands and feet and make her stay in the mandap by force while a groom forcefully tied a mangalsutra and forcefully filled sindoor in her hair while she was kicking and screaming? She said Anandi will herself say yes, this mean a plan to win her heart. She and Shiv will do it together. DS will not force her, and I don't think Shiv will of the kind who will force himself on a girl.