Gauri too shud be taught a lesson!! - Page 2

Created

Last reply

Replies

41

Views

4.7k

Users

26

Likes

163

Frequent Posters

tinoo thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#11
I think we are all multi-dimensional human beings -- and what looks good from one dimension does not necessarily encompass all the realms of our lives.
I agree with tanvi -- yes gauri is professionally successful, but her personal life cant be very pleasant -- she has and is suffering --
1. her husband doesnt really support her in terms of his family and at times does not recognize her.
2. the insults she received at the haveli cannot be very pleasant for a new bride
3. for a long time jagat has constantly referenced anandi and done some comparisons
this too has to be unpleasant.
4. she has lost bade papa -- while it does not show in the scenes they have shown -- that too has to be unpleasant that someone who stood by her like a rock has also fallen away (not just his financial contribution ... but his disappointment in her)
5. her own parents have no relation with the in-laws ... can you imagine how unpleasant that must be from a long-term perspective?
6. her own husband has no respect for the fact that even after all his carelessness, she has provided him with comfort of sitting at home and giving undivided attention to his exams. He just keeps on abusing her.
7. Right now he keeps accusing her of using him -- that too has to be something that hurts a person's soul...
8. Her husband never took a stand to divorce his first wife on his own, to give gauri security. He only did it when bapusa shoved the papers in his face, and when it was easy for him.
9. A woman always wants a man she can look up to, no matter how successful she is... this is clearly not the case with jagat ... at times she seems downright contemptuous of him... also when she has to progress professionally, there will be social occassions where she has to be seen with her husband... this bugger is completely useless to be on her arm.
In other words, her new beads and jewellery and clothes do not really indicate her having a gala time -- I feel it just represents a desperate attempt to find happiness in whatever controllable factors exist in her life -- i.e. If she dresses up outside, she can cover the mess she is inside.
731627 thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#12
though gauri work hard for career but she behave badly with anandi bhairon singh so gauri has no right toflourish like this due to moral pov which she completely lacks .she should get back what she has given to anandi and singh family .
Edited by surabhi01 - 13 years ago
BeautyBabe thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#13
i do believe Gauri has snatched away Jagaya from Anandi ...because didn't she marry an already married man without once giving a thought to his first wife ..being a woman she did that...personally i think a man can never understand a woman's pain better than a woman and being a woman she did unfair with another woman and at the time of JG marriage she very well knew Jagaya is already married and was lying to her so far ...with his few emotional tantrums she is ok i am to ready marry you...did she think about Anandi for once ...and later all the accusation drama she started on Anandi ...stooping to every low level ... mocking a mother in fact full plan to keep a son away from his mother ..these all things she has done being a woman ...i think her best punishment will be she need to lose Jagaya too..and think about her bad deeds ..cvs should end their relation at least let people know what is the end of such relations which are based on cheating and what all the women who behave like Gauri get ..nothing ..though on professional level she is hard working and too much career concerned but somewhere she needs to let career craze down too and learn value of relations ..career is not everything in the world relations do mean something ...Btw we do blame Jagaya for Gauri too and can anyone give me one good answer where she is a good wife ?😕while marrying she had a big trust on him after that not a little bit always her insecurity he will be this with Anandi..he will be this ? all recent love showering on him was for the sake of challenge ..she is very openly saying you don;t listen to me but when did she listen to him😆did she listen to him don't drive in pregnancy ..and i think Jagaya should have taunted to her at that time same way she is taunting him right now at least he was sincere to her at that time we cannot deny that ..he supported her ..helped her there to come out of her pain but how she is supporting him in his time of break down ...bravo..i think thats the sign of an extremely worst wife ..she can handle that situation quite well if she has some sense without hurting him..understanding his situation but what she is doing..?.if thats the sign of good wife then i wonder what will be a bad wife ? personally i think Gauri should lose Jagaya on every cost and their relation should end and Gauri should think of her bad deeds too which she is clearly not realizing till now ..no sign of a single shame from her till now ..i think Jagaya somewhere said he did wrong but has Gauri ever once said she did wrong with Anandi?..wrongly accused her ..has she ever realized she mocked Sumitra for wrong ? has she ever realized for her past her parents are too responsible she only blames Singh family..she misbehaved with Bharion didn't realize for once the career she is proud of so much would never have been possible without him...she is showing no sign of shame for her behavior ..? what punishment she is getting ..this fight with Jagaya but it is not letting her once hit with shame at any point for her bad deeds .she hasn't even learnt anything even after her miscarriage 🤢..i hope cvs show something for her too so she will be ashamed of her bad actions
Edited by kikyo - 13 years ago
NoOne12 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think we are all multi-dimensional human beings -- and what looks good from one dimension does not necessarily encompass all the realms of our lives.

I agree with tanvi -- yes gauri is professionally successful, but her personal life cant be very pleasant -- she has and is suffering --

Oh really! I am not complaining, but would love something more...😆
Edited by avantikasharma1 - 13 years ago
BeautyBabe thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#15
@tinoo...what these punishments will make her understand ...o yeah Jagaya was the wrong guy for me thats it ..i made a wrong decision to marry him for her own self thats it ..what about her rest blunders ...whats the punishment for her there ...will this jhik jihk make her understand that...Jagaya is getting doomed as a curse for his misdeeds career wise , relation wise ..family has thrown him out ..going to lose Anandi forever ..not happy with wife either ..Gauri just not happy with her husband have a fight with him ..taunt him to the most and thats it ..😕thats her punishment suffering 😕thats very less for her misdeeds ..she should be doomed as well
Edited by kikyo - 13 years ago
megustajalebi thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#16
Being worried about Jagat is not a sufficient punishment. I think all of us know that he will leave her because of the challenge between Sumitra and Gauri. So that will hurt Gauri's self pride too.

I don't think that's enough though. Karma needs to be more generous to her for all the direct pain she gave to Anandi.
Sahan thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: Missesha

"I wish she gets a blow from a professional pov bcoz that is her biggest pride as well as her biggest weakness.Her degree,job and position is more dear to hear than anything else even her relationship with jagiya.So i think she will get her fruit only when she will also feel that worthlessness.When she will have nothing to boast about.When she will be left empty handed and there will be no one to console her. "

This is my wish too... first she should get a blow on professional front and then she should be dumped by Jagya as well. She really needs to feel the pain of being rejected.
She has actually been rejected by Kunda tai, bade papa and Shivani, but nothing has touched her yet. She shrugged them out of her life as if nothing happened and moved on because at that time she had J to depend onto. But if she doesn't even have J, she will not be able to handle rejection / failure.
I am so waiting for a day like this... Hope it comes soon in BV world, but before that I want Gauri to see Anandi's success and a happy married life with a very loving and compassionate husband.


bilkul sahi kaha aapne . aapke sath humein bhi Anandi ki success ko aur khushhaal zindgi bitati hui dekhna hai with very loving and compassionate husband.
Blukitten thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 13 years ago
#18
Gauri has a messed up personal life she might be successfull in her career but her family life has gone for a toss.
She has no support system All good people in her life like Shivani and bade papa have shunned her...Jagya and her relationship is on verge of breakup...It'll breakup pretty soon...eventually she'll be left with her useless parents.
I am sure her story of husband snatching and brekup will become common knowledge among friends these things cant be hidden for long...
I doubt she'll be able to move on with another guy coz egoistic and selfish nature will not let her gel with anyone.
I can a see a lonely life ahead for her...She might be successful professionally but her messed up personal life will evetually take a toll on her...tht will be her biggest punishment.

wizsug thumbnail
Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 13 years ago
#19
gouri doesn't really give importance for personal life as much as she gives for professional life...and this professional life should turn horrible for her ...in this way she will come to know how it feels when u lose something that s dear to u ...

losing J is not punishment enough for her...because she won't feel devastated for losing J...
Edited by wizsug - 13 years ago
tanvismile thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 13 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think we are all multi-dimensional human beings -- and what looks good from one dimension does not necessarily encompass all the realms of our lives.

I agree with tanvi -- yes gauri is professionally successful, but her personal life cant be very pleasant -- she has and is suffering --
1. her husband doesnt really support her in terms of his family and at times does not recognize her.
2. the insults she received at the haveli cannot be very pleasant for a new bride
3. for a long time jagat has constantly referenced anandi and done some comparisons
this too has to be unpleasant.
4. she has lost bade papa -- while it does not show in the scenes they have shown -- that too has to be unpleasant that someone who stood by her like a rock has also fallen away (not just his financial contribution ... but his disappointment in her)
5. her own parents have no relation with the in-laws ... can you imagine how unpleasant that must be from a long-term perspective?
6. her own husband has no respect for the fact that even after all his carelessness, she has provided him with comfort of sitting at home and giving undivided attention to his exams. He just keeps on abusing her.
7. Right now he keeps accusing her of using him -- that too has to be something that hurts a person's soul...
8. Her husband never took a stand to divorce his first wife on his own, to give gauri security. He only did it when bapusa shoved the papers in his face, and when it was easy for him.
9. A woman always wants a man she can look up to, no matter how successful she is... this is clearly not the case with jagat ... at times she seems downright contemptuous of him... also when she has to progress professionally, there will be social occassions where she has to be seen with her husband... this bugger is completely useless to be on her arm.
In other words, her new beads and jewellery and clothes do not really indicate her having a gala time -- I feel it just represents a desperate attempt to find happiness in whatever controllable factors exist in her life -- i.e. If she dresses up outside, she can cover the mess she is inside.

well said tinno !👏
For all the people who say she should suffer becoz she married jagya ,then i would to ask that isnt she suffering from the day she entered into a relationship with him.Living a life of insecured wife isnt a suffering?,everyday even in pregnancy stage she was never peaceful.Wasnt that suffering? Negative emotions kill you from within,just imagine a person everyday going through a death.Yes She accused anandi but she had heavy price for it,when she said one word to anandi ,she received 10 words back from family ,villagers,jagya.When she abused anandi ,she lost her own baby ,wasnt that a heavy price she paid.I think it was bigger price she said .Then famous badi masi track ,it was a total torture track for gauri,where lost her mental balance also.then today,for a man she lost all relation,bade papa ,kunda tai ,got abused from somany ,today the same man is abusing her everyday,so is there any bigger punishment then this.

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".