AnSh have mutual feelings for each other now?

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#51

@sreevask - Yes precisely -- no transaction needed basis. 👍🏼

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KwitKatts

@KwitKatts

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Posted: 13 years ago

#52

Wow conversation is quite deep here👏 Changed my thinking about love😆

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AnjanaYYZ

@AnjanaYYZ

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Posted: 13 years ago

#53

Bluerobin - that is a very difficult situation... its kinda where I am stuck at🤣🤣 One thing that helped me is a stripping class! Sounds crazy but, it helped me love my own body a bit more...Investing on aspects of one's body image may also help a bit - i.e. eating healthier, working out, etc. Dressing appropriately - I don't mean designer wear - but, things that fight and flatter. Pamper yourself as well - little things like regular haircuts, manicure, etc. All of these things may change our own perception of our body image.

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sreevask

@sreevask

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Posted: 13 years ago

#54

Thank you tinoo for ur kind clarification...love the concept...

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bluerobin

@bluerobin

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Posted: 13 years ago

#55

@ anjana - yaar life among people is tough yaar . Everytime everyday whoever meets you asks only one question " why your height is not increasing, why are you not becoming fat, why your not becoming fair , don't you eat anything " . Physical appearance has got lot to do with your family genetics ... but people don't understand. About 99% people form opinion of you based on your appearance and people have a wild sort of admiration of people who look good even if they don't do anything worthy and lack good virtues. Even if an average looking person does some good things, people underestimate them , taunt them ...How to survive in society , we can't stop talking to everyone just because of the fear they will taunt you. at the end of the day man is social animal. Realizing self worth is very difficult in 21st century

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

#56

blue robin -- let me think about how best to answer that. will get back to you in a bit. but i think you are asking an excellent question.

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bluerobin

@bluerobin

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Posted: 13 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: tinoo
blue robin -- let me think about how best to answer that. will get back to you in a bit. but i think you are asking an excellent question.

sure yaar , take your time :)

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tinoo

@tinoo

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#58

bluerobin,

the one thing i can say is that you yourself feel you are not good looking and others reflect that to you.

It is not them making you feel that way... it is you feeling that way about yourself and projecting those hurtful thoughts onto others.

If you have time, I'd like for you to go and see the "Work of Byron Katie" videos on youtube. She is an excellent therapist in these matters.

So basically, as a first step, you must take ownership over the fact that these are your thoughts about others and not others thoughts about you.

Will get back with some more stuff.

Edited by tinoo - 13 years ago

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Khusi

@khusi_*

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: tinoo

Ahem -- since you ask my opinion (thank you for giving me so much importance 😆)...

I feel yes, we can expect the word mutual in the relationship of ansh.

If she goes into it because she receives love and admiration from him, and she is craving these for her validation as a woman then she will go into a co-dependent relationship ... which leaves the danger that if one day shiv withdraws his love for any reason, she will be back to square one.

My hope for anandi is that she becomes secure in her femininity in some other way BEFORE she hooks up with shiv ... so that she too is complete and full by herself... and not looking to shiv for her completion.

😆

ur last para is superb..thanx

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#60

Khusi, I feel at that this stage, Anandi has found a friend, who understands her well, even without telling him much. I think this is a phase when she is slightly comfortable with him, respects him, admires him for who he is and can trust him without the fear of being JUDGED.

But I yet don't think she has any 'feelings' for him. This is a very beautiful phase of her life and falling in love will start from somewhere around here.

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