AnSh have mutual feelings for each other now? - Page 5

Originally posted by: bluerobin

@ tinoo - I felt I am reading a book " what is love " ... Never knew its as complicated as you described

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

The thing I feel is that while Anandi has gained professional confidence, she is still lacking it on a personal level. Or maybe I am projecting🤔

Her own self worth is lacking and that was apparent in her conversation with Shiv and her dreams today. She is seeking validation. One should not enter any relationship with a "need" for validation. Validation must ideally come from self not external sources. One remains vulnerable so long as we continue to seek external validation. Shiv has no need for validation, which makes him complete within himself.

Originally posted by: tinoo

Its not complicated really.

Very simple 😆😆😆

There are only two emotions in life -- love and fear.

No matter what we call emotions -- the negative ones (anger, revenge, jealousy) etc. are all fear

and the positive ones are all about love.

When individuals are operating in a sense of lack, and they build relationships on the basis of that feeling of lack, there will always be those negative emotions operating in the relationship and each person will be trying to manipulate the other.

When individuals are operating in a sense of abudance, and they build relationships not to complete each other, but because they are both already joyful and just want to multiply the joyful experience, then that is the ultimate love because nobody wants anything from anyone.

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Now that I reflect on it - Her dream is not at all mutual! Shiv is rescuing her after she has fallen whilst seeking validation from Jogia. OUCH!

As cheesy as it is... balance within a dream sequence is 2 people running together side by side or towards each other not one rescuing the other😳

Originally posted by: tinoo

Yes!!! Brilliant!! this is exactly what i am saying.

I dont want shiv to be her "rescuer"...

somehow i felt that the asha abhishek love story though peripheral to balika vadhu should also have been depicted in a different manner.

Here it seemed like asha just fell for the first man who showed any interest in her... without really having a sense of who abhishek the individual was. I'm glad things worked out for them, but once again it was depicted as more of a "rescue operation" of a widow from madan singh's tyranny and not really a love story that led to a widow being remarried.