Originally posted by: hooked
Ouch !
I take back everything I said in support of Jagya but for you only. This then has to bring back horrible deja vus !!😲
How cud you put up with all that ? I guess it must really have been Saccha pyaar in your case 😳. Am so glad you finally had enough and got out of it. Have seen my closest friend in a similar abusive relationship - she managed her job and the house and the kid and her in-laws and last but not the last his huge EGO and he always had issues at work and wud just leave a job every 6 months and waste another 6 months at home watching TV and being an ass.
I used to wonder how she does it all and why does she still find him worth loving .
Am really glad you got away - it cudn't have been easy but you still have your sense of humor - so you must be fine 😛
I am happily married to a guy with a great portfolio- whom I am proud to call myself his wife! Who's social circle I visit and feel just blessed. Apart from that.. he's a man with morals, ethics and humility. He attends my family and my friends with utmost respect and never brings his status into it. Thats the whole contrast in being with a highly learned man and a drug addict+womanizer. Empty vessels always make more noise!
My life stopped when the other guy left me..( we broke up because I couldn't go against my principles of being in a live -in relationship and live like his wife without being in a socially acceptable relationship and also I couldn't lie to my parents) I was dead from with in.. my career became my religion, didn't socialize, didn't talk to relatives, never celebrated festivals, birthdays.. while he.. just after 2 days of breaking up started to have a relationship with another woman..he also had the balls in him to tell me.. you couldn't give me all the satisfaction, she gave herself fully to me.. he pitched me with that high school drop out whom he met at a bar! Though we mostly had a long distance relationship I used to fast for that moron, call him and only then break my fast. Really considered him to be my husband. I won't say he didn't love me.. he did. But his ego and pride was too huge.. plus the male ego and the way it hurts when a woman rejects going physical with him!
oo iss hansi ke peeche itnaa gehra dard chupaya hua hain ab samajh mein aaya tera gaga se itna pyaar
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