@Parri
''because she was defending your stance'' - May I know what it is supposed to mean?
I have already told why I brought up the old girls' club issue. That was because if members had made funny posts themselves in past, then why someone like Suchi was sensitive over a dry humour type thread made by someone else like me? She did not come up with counter threads Vasuja's another sarcastically funny thread. But came up with one (along with indirect referencing already going on in some other threads since days) when I posted a thread about lessons learnt from BV.
Same case with remarks of impatience or too many demands or forever being dissatisfied with Anandi - when someone like Tinoo made a thread about issues related to character's actions.
That is what made me ask is it supposed to be only more known and regular members who can get away with funny posts without making anyone feel bad? [I was not just talking about JT, but also other threads]
I made it clear again. But since you brought the same thing up again, so I explained it once more.
Is it about how I view posts by GAGA members and A supporters? It's not like I condone GAGA members views or disagree with Anandi ones. I told you in my previous reply about Tanvi also making personal comments, while she herself is unable to a remark on herself. It's not like I have ''problems'' with Anandi fans but I am ''all okay'' with GAGA fans. Still, I appreciate their openness in what they do - even if I don't agree at all with the intent with which they do it.
I do not expect anyone to follow the kind of value system which I follow. I gave you answers when you asked what I meant or wanted. Basically I made this thread to know what people expected and unwritten or understood stuff to be spelt out clearly. I didn't think what I used to ''follow'' was complete, so I sought more clarity and guidance.
I never gave my own COC or expressed anyone to follow it. But now it perhaps seems like it, because of my replies in response to everyone's questions.😕 First barring a few, most ask me questions about myself, and later seeing my replies it is assumed that I am attempting or expecting someone to follow the same COC as I do!
Thanks you said that censorship from members happens or it is unrealistic to think it will not occur. That gives me answers to questions I asked to begin with.
It is at least an open expression of the fact that it could happen! That is the clarity I had I had sought while making this thread.
It was not to accuse anyone or impose my own views. Honestly thanks for it.
The nature of replies in the thread gave me all answers and I learnt my lesson (there is not really any chance of trying to take a middle ground, one is either fan or hater, censorship can and does exist, pointing out issues in case of a positive character could put someone in trouble, affinity towards character take precedence over issues, it's human nature etc.) - and I say it honestly, earnestly and not in a sarcastic vein.
It got personal because of comments about personal thinking from Antara - ''you feel less appreciated or want everyone to agree or can't take criticism and like comments''. I never started this thread with intention of talking about myself or making it personal. If someone makes personal comments, then even then I should not take it personally or think of it as general response?
In fact I have kept pleading not to make it only about me but about the nature of discussions.
@Suchi - you need not apologise, because it is not only about you or to point fingers. You can defend as much as you want and do whatever you do. I assure silence from my side and never bother anyone, you or anyone else. Please know, I honestly did not make it to elicit apologies. I can only assure you like I have always done in past, that I or some others, have no intention to bash Anandi.
I understand your craze for the character and appreciate it too.
