What is the meaning of pehenne ke layak? - Page 7

Originally posted by: annika20

@Antara

Ha...I so agree with you! What can one do if everything is taken personally! I did say that you did not mention any particular names. Still some people came here and started counter-replying, thinking it was about them! We never took any person's name! Still people take it all so seriously and personally!

How much restraint can one exercise?

@Vasu

Yaar I told you all this only because I feel our posts give more importance and attention to them! It's like providing fuel to fire!

All those threads - be it about actors or this particular character, or threads calling Anandi centered episodes boring stay on TOP for days and even weeks and run into multiple pages!! We don't realise, but we are giving more importance and attention to such sidey characters and threads with such titles!

And it is strange na? When I made a thread calling a fully GAGA related episode boring and mocked it, very few of you responded. I mean when we mock those characters then threads don't run into multiple pages!

Those guys are smart enough and don't retaliate in threads which mock the character of the lallu-panju and the keep. So such threads don't run into multiple pages or stay on top.

Threads about Anandi being voted as most loved character on TV etc., get relegated, simply because we don't take them further or discuss.

I suggest again that if any of us feel like countering others' apparently silly logics then create a new thread to counter it! Why keep their threads with anti titles and disagreeable intros on top?

As for me, I don't know why I got warned twice! I never talked to any member. A woman staying with a married man who has not yet divorced his wife, is a keep only. A mistress and I think mistress is called rakhail in Hindi! What was wrong or derogatory or hateful or malicious about it?

BTW, why don't other people get warned if they call Anandi a cry baby, doormat or make threads calling every episode focused on her as boring or shout that all TRPs are due to the character of the mistress and the lallu-panju doctor?! Why don't mods bother about our sentiments? Or is it that we don't get touchy enough to run, crying to mods?!

True...but the real problem comes with being non-labelled & with unbiased stand...we can't enjoy both the stands simultaneously...In order to lodge a report on any remark on Anandi,first of all,we should be labelled as a biased supporter of A.(like contributing to Anandi appreciation thread)

Hope my point is got...

How ever as we can't go against our conscience,let's maintain an un biased stand & for give all like A.

as our aim is to seek entertainment & not discomfort thru arguments...

Path of Truth need not necessarily pass through righteousness...as well as no pov is permanent...
Just like the fingers of a hand...every thing has it's own place ...

Respect all n get respected...this is possible by being restraint ..as it is only the quality of an unbiased stand..

i have some things to say and then i will then say tataa😆😆

Annika: This thread was not started by any character supporter...Tinoo is a neutral memb...we were discussing something and it went to another direction...

GAGA supporters have got warned earlier...As I told u their was one member who used to bash very badly and that member has got couple of warnings...The forum will be pleasant...All A supporters and GAGA supporters used to interact well and have fun...it was very friendly...But when that particular member enters the bashing used to be so bad and it used to provoke fights in the forum...yeh fight tho tu tu mein mein tak chala gaya...then lot of friendliness was lost...Not all GAGA supporters used to cry foul...many were/are funny and used to happily discuss the show with everyone and they were respected becoz they never bashed A but just supported GAGA...that was fine...but because of one member triggered tu tu main main fight today the forum is so sad...Their were GAGA supporters who openly admitted they watched them for romance and chemistry and we used to like that becoz it was logical...

I rarely do serious posts these days annika...becoz when I did serious posts it became painful and argument never ended...I prefer sarcasm...and try to say the same thing mockingky and keep it light...sometimes I do not enter some threads becoz a very nice and rational discussion will be going on and i don't like to spoil it will silly jokes...that is the reason i do not participate in some threads and just click like and remain quiet...I did not replt anandi is favourite character...it was a some news report I guess and i like Anandi but she is not my favourite character... I feel Anandi should be more educated,more better tracks can be showed...but sometimes i feel pointless discussing it becoz CVs are gonna decide the fate...Not one person thought that G will marry J so easily...In fact every person was waiting to see G bajofying J's band after the truth reveal...we thought she will walk out and leave him...and voila she changed her mind and in 2 days married jagat...No other character has been butchered as much as G in BV...we expected her to open her eyes in haveli after knowing the whole truth but no...So the story is in Cvs hand and they will twist and turn it as they want... So i just mock the epis, characters and roam around in forum.

I feel the forum is ok now, much better after the tu tu main main has stopped...In fact after the tu tu main main many people started avoiding the bashing member totally and just discussed amongst themselves...Well this has hurt few members...Most of just liked to avoid only the bashing member we had no problem with any other GAGA supporter...other GAGA supporters were fun and good sport...But if they have taken the leaving of the bashing member ( no one asked the member to leave..the member left on their own will) personally and feel that things are bad...we can't help...

Charmingenei:i said people dnt take wrong action by just watching a show.wat conection it has to g?is dat she fel in love by watching tv.nways forget it n anmol-u r rite,this forum has left no space,any thread opens bashing n only bashing.this place is to make mockery of people.no sensible discusion bt i dnt want to prove anything ,i just state my pts finish.people reply to tanvi then only i answer back.wat the pt in al this tel me,one person bashd a so ul start same thing n some cant a litle dif view on anandi,super sensitive people bt anmol we shud nt get afectd by it just leave it.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Charmingenei:i said people dnt take wrong action by just watching a show.wat conection it has to g?is dat she fel in love by watching tv.nways forget it n anmol-u r rite,this forum has left no space,any thread opens bashing n only bashing.this place is to make mockery of people.no sensible discusion bt i dnt want to prove anything ,i just state my pts finish.people reply to tanvi then only i answer back.wat the pt in al this tel me,one person bashd a so ul start same thing n some cant a litle dif view on anandi,super sensitive people bt anmol we shud nt get afectd by it just leave it.

exactly tanvi , i hate this forum now🤢i just come here to read ur posts and interact with u , and sometimes to interact with my old friends here jyoti and khushi

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Charmingenei:i said people dnt take wrong action by just watching a show.wat conection it has to g?is dat she fel in love by watching tv.nways forget it n anmol-u r rite,this forum has left no space,any thread opens bashing n only bashing.this place is to make mockery of people.no sensible discusion bt i dnt want to prove anything ,i just state my pts finish.people reply to tanvi then only i answer back.wat the pt in al this tel me,one person bashd a so ul start same thing n some cant a litle dif view on anandi,super sensitive people bt anmol we shud nt get afectd by it just leave it.

tanvi I don't think genie said anything about it...I told this... I spend more time bashing Gauri and jagat...Pulling each other's leg has been done before all this bashing drama...In fact myself and anmol used to do it to each other and inspite of that had a cordial relationship and had loads of fun... Even in the so called bashing post I mentioned, myself and many other members of the forum had appreciated Anmol and said that we liked interacting with him becoz he is sporty... anyways there is no point saying all this...regarding Anandi if you observe their is discussions and arguments going about her even amongst Anandi supporters...

I replied to u becoz Genie said nothing of the thing I have highlighted...I wrote this... Good u r not
getting affected...becoz forum does not define anyone...everyone is here to have fun and discuss

@Tanvi,

I guess u need to revisit my previous post, i appreciated that u ave strong morals and dont get swayed by what they show on tivo, but unlike u and me there r plenty of people who do get!

I never bashed u nor any1 for that matter, yes i am critical of both J-G but that is my POV , as u r entittled to urs..., this forum is sucha nce place where v all agree to disagree in a very healthy manner, this show is concieved on a social issue...hence we talk about those issues.

And yes peps do get influenced by watching tv , not u and me, And the auri connection, dear she lyk us is an educated girl who entered into a willing illicit relationship , she is acting irrationally and entered into bigamy withought thinkin of any consequences all in the name of love, when she herself has serious trust issues.

How that affects the viewers, well girls of any age-group might see how Jagat and Gauri got away from jail term, a passive legal wife who didnt even protest, they might get attracted and enter into similar realtionships in real lyf.

Dear, every serial issues a warnin that all these incidents are hypothetical and should not be done at home, y do u think that is released becoz real lyf does imitate the reel lyf and vice-versa.

Charmingenei-see,i just if pt of discusion is how media afects people so this has nothing to conect with g right ,she dint mary j by watching n the rest was for anmol.i was speaking to anmol only.here on forum i n anmol faced a lot,everytime justifications,clarifications,any time we start any thread people r disintrestd apear on it,to hv fun n to make fun of others is diff,hv our opinions respectd .we never askd to agree.bt we r only questiond on our POV.Do we keep discusing abt people pov who dnt agre with us.bt people do make judjements abt our age n al.i never had problem with dif views

@Vasuja