What is the meaning of pehenne ke layak? - Page 8

Healthy discusion r discusions where both the parties discus their views peacefuly inspite of being diferent which wud hapen earlier.bt now many people r ready to mock 2 people in every thread we start.even if we dnt like any character we see dat no one gets hurt bt wen it comes to us people r more interestd in hurting us.this forum name shud b kept as bashing forum .i m nt saying i m leaving forum bt surely i wil reduce my visits over here.wats the pt.ul can continue doin healthy discusion .

@intruderfast

@Tanvi

@Tanvi,

Two pts, 1stly here no1 is ageist, the reason the topic of age appeared because in context of how tv generally affects different age-groups and mindsets and there the point was mentioned how the glorified image of love conquering lies and deceit can give wrong signals to young people who might get carried away and they surely do, we live in a society which have girls who get cheated, played around , bigamy, domestic violence etc etc. and without sounding sexist i have seen by guy frnz taken for rides too.

2ndly, no1 is targetting you or Anmol , v respect your freedom of expression, but the purpose of a post is to initiate discussion and exchange of views. We argue and differ on each others pov and i can vouch for have not seen any name calling. What v disagreed on was the fact that Annika's perfect post which called out on the legal status of Gauri was reported , well it didnt harm the fictional character and she didnt end up pressing any report button , neither it should hurt some1 lse, quoting you it is a show, fun and enjoy, so that person should have followed that lead.


My POV is this and hope it shows u where i stand and it has nothin to do with age or you(btw i am fairly young myself), as a girl raised by an amzing family, have been taught to respect myself and others cannot fathom the fact that a promising girl lyk Gauri which had the world under her reach has ended up in a web of lies, has turned into an unsure, confused individual who has started wishing that she was in Anandi's shoes...that is my problem, loving someone lse should never change the person you are, here the confident and principled girl who during Jagat's B'day said "both the girls should dumb the guy, people lyk tat guy are the biggest disgrace to society etc" has taken a complete U-turn she has rather than sticking for herself , if not for anandi, should have distanced herself from Jagat...if it was true luv , J would have cleaned all the mess, came to her and started afresh , would not have drawn her into it.

I too watch serials purely for the chemistry of the leads, have devoured Austens' Darcy, knightley...but in BV i know there is no knight n shinny armour, there's a clown who has spoiled the lives of two promising and beautiful girls.

Wat we feel dat type of title we l give right,it is gud as far as posible we havent bashd anyone.now if u l feel i m bashing then wats my mistake.i shud think before naming my topic,n people dnt even think once before entering thread,bashing,ruining the thread in name of freedom of speech.if i put title lovely epi which means i liked it,i hv freedom of speech at least i m nt bashing anyone.

@Tanvi

Do ul know wats respecting other views ok let me tel u .yesterday people were discusing abt how tv can afect the teens.i said it depends upon the roots for this i gt to hear u know wat?ooh that means big big researchers have wastd thier lives .poor researchers they dnt know dat na it al depends on our roots.So there wer foolish.is this cald respecting other views or making fun of other s view.dis is one ex. if i sit wit it ,i wil go on n on bt wont able to finish.the truth is i n anmol r seperated frm ul due to our choices n its ok.we dnt expect also anything.expections frm others do hurt.

Oh come on Tanvi, please go through that person's post she made it perfectly clear and even me that v respect u ,ur values and ur POV but u made a very fairly general statement that tv doesnt affect any individual ...more importantly if u have come down to discussing posts than check ur and Anmol's posts , u mocked all the discussion as a moral lecture, and that both of u would sit and write down the plots enough of us got offended took it with a pinch of salt and laughed it off...

U drawed the conclusion that v r trying to force down some moral policing on you, trust me thats no1s intention, there has been no personal attack on any1's age, gender, pov...v have disagreed but never attacked .

Even now u r quoting people's general posts...no1 has done that ,till now when i felt u should see even u have ribbed on us a bit and v all just shrugged it off...

We all wish u and anmol well, but that doesnt mean v have no right to disagree on your opinion about a certain character...

Lets stop it here, take a breather and understand the whole forum is in context of the serial not u or me, but it does have an impact on every one of us lse v wont be typin all this now, so njoy it as u want , but dont assume that we have any agenda to run u down...trust me no1 wants to turn into the character gauri who is obsessed wit Anandi. kidding but njoy!

Tanvi

i think it has gone too far...Tanvi sorry for upsetting you..From my side I will not unnecessarily enter your threads or reply your post and hurt u any further...Sorry for the trouble and pain.

annika that was a general statement😆if u think it was directed at u , i cant help it