Why should anandi call Jagya?

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 14 years ago

One of the things I disliked is why Anandi should call Jagya to say that the money is deposited in your account.

When Jagya needs money, he will check in his account -- and if it is there, he will see it.

If per chance, he does not see it, and needs money -- THEN LET HIM BE THE ONE TO CALL HER!

I dont like her taking extra efforts to let him know. What she is doing is more than enough.

In addition, knowing fully well that Gauri is insecure, why to call him and generate misunderstandings between them , (if anandi has truly given up thoughts of him?) . Yesterday, Jagya was alone, so he could take anandi's call with ease.

But what if he had been at home, and Gauri saw the number when it was ringing?...

If anandi wants to inform him let her send him a one-sided sms or an email... instead of calling him up and again engaging in conversation with him. It is not good for her and not good for him.

If she had a question that required a reply or clarification, that would have been okay.

But she just had to inform him. so calling him was not required.

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Blukitten

@Blukitten

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Posted: 14 years ago

I didnt find her calling Jagya unusual...she didnt call him to talk to him just to inform tht she has deposited the money...its pretty normal...

Even I call and inform the person if I deposit money in his/her bank account...I know they will anyways check the account but its just a courtsey.

As for creating misunderstanding I dont think so she did it with tht intention...she hardly gives a thought to GAGA.

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Khusi

@khusi_*

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Posted: 14 years ago

it is fitted with anandi's character!!

so normal...!!...just informed jagiya...!

and asking jagiya how r u!!...just a formality!😉

but i have a diff view on it!!

anandi is unknowingly constantly showing jagat his low standard!😆

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Mehek25

@Mehek25

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Posted: 14 years ago

@khusi

I agree with u. That's just the way she is. She has somehow resigned herself to accepting the fact that Jagya is no no longer hers. And informing him of the money is just a formality for her now. And actually by doing this she has given him a tight slap in the face. She has shown him indirectly that even after he and Gauri have humiliated her so much she does not bear any grudge toward him/them. That's just not in her nature. I only hope that if ever that creep comes crawling back to he (and I am sure he will one day), then she should not accept him again.

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jyothi

@pjyo

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Posted: 14 years ago

Ithni jaldi paise transfer karney ki koi zaroorath nahi thhii.🤔..let him wait and wonder kabb paise aayenge and call anandi himself pleading "paise kab bhijwaaogi .."😈...even bhairav had wanted jagya to beg every month but even before that anandi just sent money...why make his life easier when he 😡messed up hers for 5 years without even bothering to tell he had dumped her...

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642126

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Posted: 14 years ago

Yes Tinoo I pointed this out in the thread about yesterday's episode!

She did not have to call Jagya. She could have sent a very short email or SMS. That's it.

Or better still, she should have not sent it so soon and had him asking for the money.

In this way, what is the use of Bhairon giving these rights to her? She's doing it so efficiently and promptly that J doesn't even have to ask!

So how does it serve a lesson to J?

Plus what I disliked was her way of talking! Why did she stay silent upon hearing his voice? The way she got silent it seemed as if she still has a soft spot for him...

Sorry to say she was behaving like a patnivrata nari, and her behaviour can't be compared to a best friend or simple well wisher!

And why did she ask him kaise hain aap Jagya? There was no need! Just tell him politely that you got money deposited in his account. And disconnect the phone, saying bas yehi kehna tha.

She still talks to him like he's her husband. ''Aap'', ''Jagya''.

I don't say she should be rude to him. But she should do things silently. Why talk? The man who needs money can himself keep checking his account. No need to call him. Or just send an email or SMS.

I think Bhairon shouldn't have given her any authority. Anandi ne usko sar par chadhakar rakhna hai...Bhairon should know that!

Exercising slight firmness, talking in a no-nonsense manner won't ruin her character or rob her of her values! Her pause upon hearing J's voice was the most irritating thing! It doesn't show she's moved on!

If she's to remain a total pulp like this, then sorry to say, I don't think she can convincingly do anything as a teacher or social reformer. In fact I think even as teacher she would have to keep relying on crutches called Bhairon and DS to get people to listen to her and participate in her movement!

I don't think a call from her can create misunderstandings. J keeps his phone to himself. And he can always delete entries from the call log. It's no thorn in J-G's relationship. Her name is already more than enough to make Gauri go crazy and have sleepless nights!

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ankit111

@ankit111

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Posted: 14 years ago

But I liked whn she cut the call, whn J wanted to do some more maska. She showed him tht she called only for informing and not to do gutur gu 😆 😆 😆

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642126

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Posted: 14 years ago

Is it? I don't think he even wanted to do maska. He was only feeling awkward and didn't know how to end the convo! Rather I feel she made things easier for him by ending the convo. Still her pause and expressions on her face upon hearing his voice...didn't give the impression that she'd moved on!

BTW, Ankit if you have noticed, yesterday there was big time public demand (in 2-3 different threads) for you to write a De Danadhan series on J's thrashing by lawyer as well his college principal. When are you going to address the public demand?

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sreevask

@sreevask

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

It is " ADDING SALT TO INJURY" in a diplomatic way.

Edited by sreevask - 14 years ago

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 14 years ago

#10

Agree with pjyo and annika 100%.

First, the whole sequence was shot in a way that totally nullified their parting conversation in the cowshed. Here again, it seemed like she was falling in love with him. To me it seemed like an excuse to again talk to him and to hear his voice.

Second, there was no need to call him to indirectly or directly slap him if she has truly moved on.

Just put the money in his account and ask the bank to send him an sms/email notification that his account has a new deposit in it.

Third and finally, anandi really needs to make up her mind as to whether what Jagya did was wrong or not.

Supposedly this entire girls education mission and social work mission is to ensure that what happened to her does not happen to other girls/women. Which means that she has identified what happened to her as "wrong". On top of that, she has told Jagya "mein tumhe kabhi maaf nahin karoongi"... in such a case, then, there is no need to be nice to him and extend him courtesies.

When a man whom you loved has not even answered your emails and phone calls at one point in time, why call him to tell him you deposited money for his haath kharcha?

Just be clinical about the whole thing and dont emotionally attach yourself.

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