Why should anandi call Jagya?

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Posted: 14 years ago

#31

Oh sorry Cutie. My bad. I thought you were talking in reference to my comment or post. Really sorry for addressing that post to you. 😕

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Suchi-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#32

:) cutie is a cutie : ) : )

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Posted: 14 years ago

#33

it's ok annika😃

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642126

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Posted: 14 years ago

#34

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Look I only hope it stays on track. I only said so many things because I fear that Jagya might get redeemed or fully absolved of charges and trouble, if they go on like this.

I also fear Anandi may not move forward properly or her progress will be too slow. I understand about real life. It takes years, even a lifetime and many times people are not able to move on and rebuild their lives till their last breath! They keep enduring pain or lose their mind or go in permanent depression.

It's a serial and while I agree they can't go too fast. They can't even keep it too slow or dragging or at worse, keep options open for characters to go back to square one!

I basically believe that Bhairon should have taken a harsh stand and taken all control in his hands with respect to Jagya. He should have known about Anandi's nature and helpless emotional attachment especially towards Jagya. So he should not have given any rights to her or had J communicating to her in the first place! He ought to have known his DIL is susceptible to emotional blackmail and his son is a thick-skinned slimeball who would willingly keep exploiting Anandi forever but never change himself!

This particular thing is not helping Anandi. It is still keeping her connected to Jagya and emotionally egging her to do something for him - as much as it is possible for her.

I again repeat there is nothing wrong in feeling attachment but she should try not to SHOW it to him. I wouldn't mind her numbing or even sobbing after she disconnects the phone after talking to him or her hesitation/awkwardness before calling him!

She should not SHOW her attachment to Jagya or give him a chance to sense it! That's all I want to say.

I don't want to say she should immediately stop having any attachment to him!😕

Bhago would not have got her remarried. If she had such intentions she would not have approached Teacher ji. Don't forget it is her parents who sought Teacher's help and also admitted they had ruined her life by not listening to Teacher ji and participating in bal vivah!

Anandi's reasons for staying in Singh family are as much related to her parents' reputation, as the Singhs' sacrifice or her emotional attachment or loyalty or indebtedness to them.

Singh family support is good example for society. But it is equally an emotional debt and bondage on Anandi as her mode of liberation! I hope CVs don't take it the bondage way! I wish that support does good to her, but is not used to absolve her culprits of all sins!

It is not her slowness in progress which irks me more, but lack of REAL trouble, pain and punishment for Jagya!

Bashing by family, Phooli, Lal Singh, lawyer, principal or an outburst from Gauri are not a big deal for him. He is used to it all. He needs SOLID trouble, pain and punishment. Not some small time scolding or outburst which he can conveniently forget after coming back home!

Yeah the serial is finally getting on track and is addressing the real issues which it should have addressed. And I am glad for it.

But I don't want options open for redemption of a total scumbag like Jagya!

Edited by annika20 - 14 years ago

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ankit111

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Posted: 14 years ago

#35

Who told Anandi is mahan??? She is a normal human being, if Jogia will beg with folded hand, she can give divorce like she is giving money. 😆 😆 😆 ye bhikhmanga mang kar to dekhe 😆 😆 😆 he is fearing tht if he will beg for divorce, she will stop sending money. He hs to choose between divorce and money. As G is very much comfortable with being illegal wife, so its convenient for him to continue with money 😆 😆 😆

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jyothi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: ankit111
Who told Anandi is mahan??? She is a normal human being, if Jogia will beg with folded hand, she can give divorce like she is giving money. 😆 😆 😆 ye bhikhmanga mang kar to dekhe 😆 😆 😆 he is fearing tht if he will beg for divorce, she will stop sending money. He hs to choose between divorce and money. As G is very much comfortable with being illegal wife, so its convenient for him to continue with money 😆 😆 😆

yeah ankit, maang karr toh dekhey😆, jaggu toh already bheek mangne mein expert hai bass yeh soch ke darr raha hoga divorce ke baad kahin ussey hi anandi ko alimony checks naa deney padey🤪, abb takk woh promply checks mumbai bhijwathi thhii aur miya biwi aish karthey thhey .. lekin divorce ke chakkar mein uski khud ki jeb naa khali ho jaaye😉,already illegal biwi ke chaat/pepsi/honeymoon ke kithney kharchey hain naa...😆..

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fast trak

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Posted: 14 years ago

#37

Point is not whether anandi did right or wrong by calling. she has sent him money in his account and she shd call bec its money matter after all. lots of scams and frauds can happen.

but the point is how did mr jaggu dada react to that call. did he say ok thanks and keep the phone. NO 😆. he wants to prolong the call by asking her how r u? A has no clue even that this dhokebaaz is standing right outside the lawyers office seeking advice for divorce. and here he comes and asks her how is she and not just that wants to speak more with her when she abruptly cuts the phone.. what a joke!😆

and some ppl still cant stop thinking that it is A who is behind Mr Jackass.😆

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MuktaJaiswal

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Posted: 14 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: khusi_*
it is fitted with anandi's character!!
so normal...!!...just informed jagiya...!

and asking jagiya how r u!!...just a formality!😉

but i have a diff view on it!!

anandi is unknowingly constantly showing jagat his low standard!😆

i don't agree to this . maybe she shouldn't have called him🤔, bt out of courtesy she did just to let him know that money that he needed has been trfed.

also she is not kinda girl who will unknowingly constantly do such things to show jagat or anyone say Gauri any standard 😆

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Khusi

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: MuktaJaiswal

i don't agree to this . maybe she shouldn't have called him🤔, bt out of courtesy she did just to let him know that money that he needed has been trfed.

also she is not kinda girl who will unknowingly constantly do such things to show jagat or anyone say Gauri any standard 😆

Anandi defended gauri in front of singh family earlier...so at that time many thought... it is too much goody goody types...!!

...i am not very much happy also at that time coz she was wasting her time on that but... in my pov it indicated that ...anandi accepted completely that gauri is jagiya's wife...bhairon said u r my beendni...anandi replied truth cant change by ur words...!!

so its all about diff view!!

same with this phone call...it was just show...anandi just informed him...cut the phone 1st...not a long sweet talk at all!!...

so for me it is not a big deal !!

i know she is not a type of girl who intentionally trying to show j his low standard!!

thats y i wrote...unknowingly!😉

Edited by khusi_* - 14 years ago