Few simple questions

cmon 4 yrs is a big big time

(though i still will partly blame her for not continuing her studies )

and reg g yes i would feel for her even then😆right now i feel the most for g ,uskii life kaa tai tai fish ho gaya hain yaa i know she choose all this but still she is in such a big mess and its all due to his illegal pati fault

and yes would have felt bad for a

when she was a kid she never knew the boy is already married etc etc and she was rejected as well soon enough which caused so much of problems for her. but that was her parents and singh familys mistake then. but now shes totally sensible (well at least shes expected to be) and even then repeats the same mistake what her parents did once upon a time.😕

Considering A's background shes quite mature and sensible. she has been handling this place and DS so very well since a young age that they r thoroughly impressed with her. If DS is impressed with someone then there has to be something in that person. 😉

as abt her moving on...well it was J that got attracted to someone else not her so it will take her loads of time to digest the whole fact in. shes just a normal human being.

When daactarni G after knowing that J fooled her for 5 yrs still agrees to marry him then what A's fault who has always considered this family as her own and J as her husband to still love him. doesnt mean that shes weak by any means. and shes got the whole family behind her which surely makes her stronger.😉

and in this case its purely & clearly a case of adultery & selfishness!!

i agree G is not just selfish but need a psychatrist also!!even this thing'd happened in real life i wud've supported A type gal.

i know such a real life e.g of my frnd. this frnd of mine was muslim. h egot married 2 a Hindu gal & that gal sort of even got converted as they changed her name though he was liberal in many ways.later on they'd a son. after that i wasn't in mucgh contact wid him bcoz i got busy in my carrer but after 4-5 yrs.we once i called him his bro took the phone & told me that he got married 2 sum1else & again a hindu gal & also left the home. i was shocked 2 hear that how cum he do this 2 his 1st wife who left everything 4 him but cudn't ask him as i don't've his contact!! and i was really furious wid him. then one day on orkut i got his scrap but under sum hindu name so i think he might've created this ID 4 net only & called on the no. he'd given there. then he told me whole story that his 1st wife has done many bad things 2 him & isn't of gud nature or human being. though i asked him so many times but he didn't tell me.i asked him then why he married her at the 1st place wen he knew all this. he told me that sum lawyer'd told him 2get married 2 her oderwise he wud b booked under false rape case. but here also i fail 2 understand then how cum he put up wid his 1st wife 4 4-5 yrs.??and now his parents'd disowned him from their family & he himself got converted 2 hinduism!!i don't know the story of him & his 1st wife's divorce or life which made him do such things!!

though i'd told him that i"ll defntly ask him why he did this 2 his 1st wife. an di don't know that if his 2nd wife fall in luv or married him knowing hes married or after a rift occured btn him & his 1st wife then married him!!

he'd told me that his 1st wife isn't gud human being but still i can't trust him completely as i'd met her & only met bcoz of him only but i can't absolve of him of his faults or mistakes or sins!!i get clear pic of this only once wen i"ll meet him prsnlly & know both side's story. but till in my view he'd done a sin 2wards his 1st wife!!hes not ready 2 tell whole story 2 me atleast on phone!!

but in case of J &G where each & every thing is clear i will defntly put blame on J & G & more on J!!

sorry 4 such along post but cudn't resist 2 tell this a s its almost similar !! an dthanx 4 evey1 who'd read this & put up wid it!!😊😊