Few simple questions - Page 6

Wow nice views especialy tinoo.it is lovely reading.they should start showing how to get emotionaly strong in tv shows.nways i loved reading views.

Originally posted by: tiny15

atleast in this post i agree wid u!! i appreciate & even i rarely expect from any1 4 me 2 do sumthing esply not financially but i do expect sum psychological & mental support & thatswhy we r social animals & not just animals!! these things r nice if u talk abt spiritually but in real life it has v.less value & not all ppl can think & act like this. if it happens the whole world"ll b peaceful & happier. and by these standards G's emotional quotient is even lower than A!!😆😆

thks for agreeing Tiny.
but clarifying myself a bit more...I don't mean keep no expectations I said change the form of expectations. I mean keeping realistic expectations.

I am a very very normal, very fallible human being, not too spiritual either...but I see relations not just emotionally, but objectively too. I try to source the majority of my happiness from inside me, and from the relations, I try to let everyone be themselves. To control my expectations, I evaluate what am I putting in that relation, thats making me expect so much-----and I regulate what I am investing in that relation instead of feeling bad about what the other person is unable to give..and let people be as they are...and try to cherish the present moment.Everyone has different ways of finding happiness in relations..and life..and this is my way,

abt Gauri's and Anandi's EQ...yeah Gauri seems to have more problems than Anandi, who is more stable. I still like Gauri's character also, because she is determined, focused and assertive...and that doesn't mean I am putting Anandi down. Its just that I feel Gauri as a character has her own strengths too.I don't find a reason to compare them both, so won't comment on who is better, as according to me, they're uniquely different from each other, and in different circumstances.

Originally posted by: hima_123

thks for agreeing Tiny.
but clarifying myself a bit more...I don't mean keep no expectations I said change the form of expectations. I mean keeping realistic expectations.

I am a very very normal, very fallible human being, not too spiritual either...but I see relations not just emotionally, but objectively too. I try to source the majority of my happiness from inside me, and from the relations, I try to let everyone be themselves. To control my expectations, I evaluate what am I putting in that relation, thats making me expect so much-----and I regulate what I am investing in that relation instead of feeling bad about what the other person is unable to give..and let people be as they are...and try to cherish the present moment.Everyone has different ways of finding happiness in relations..and life..and this is my way,

abt Gauri's and Anandi's EQ...yeah Gauri seems to have more problems than Anandi, who is more stable. I still like Gauri's character also, because she is determined, focused and assertive...and that doesn't mean I am putting Anandi down. Its just that I feel Gauri as a character has her own strengths too.I don't find a reason to compare them both, so won't comment on who is better, as according to me, they're uniquely different from each other, and in different circumstances.

4 most of the part of ur post i agree except the @ bold ones i don't agree atleast 4 the present G. if its the case of G of Mumbai then i cud've agreed but not now!! and u know that true prsnlty & psychology turns out in the crisis!! so i think she may've the strength earlier but not now!!!

Originally posted by: tiny15

4 most of the part of ur post i agree except the @ bold ones i don't agree atleast 4 the present G. if its the case of G of Mumbai then i cud've agreed but not now!! and u know that true prsnlty & psychology turns out in the crisis!! so i think she may've the strength earlier but not now!!!

and better not 2 control the expectations bcoz controlling it defntly make them show more vigoursously. and in watsoever relation we invest we do've expectations may b less or more depends on the prsn!!😊😊

ok..lets agree to disagree abt Gauri and Anandi.😊

abt controlling emotional investment and expectations: I feel expectations from others need to always be kept in control. you can't eliminate expectations...but keep them limited and realistic.
Control your investment, where you can't control your returns. but that again I can say works for me, maybe a different thing works for you...that too is fine..😳

I cant understand whts wrong with crying, its just an emotion like happiness, excitement, anger, love, anxiety, stress n therez a huge list..below...i'm copying from a search...Crying is just a normal emotion which normal Humans experience...there is never a need to fuss abt it so much...

Annoyed	Anxious	Apprehensive	Agonize
Anger	Anxiety	Apathy	Bored
Burdened	Cautious	Competitive	Concerned
Confused	Contempt	Depressed	Destructive
Disgusted	Distracted	Doubtful	Disappointed
Exasperated	Exhausted	Embarrassment	Envy
Frustrated	Fear	Guilty	Greed
Grief	Harassed	Hesitant	Hostile
Ignored	Impatient	Indifferent	Intimidated
Isolated	Irritated	Jealous	Jumpy
Lonely	Mad	Manipulated	Miserable
Obnoxious	Overwhelmed	Panic	Pressured
Remorse	Revenge	Shame	Sad
Scared	Shocked	Suspicious	Stress
Tired	Uncomfortable	Uneasy	Used
Wary	Weary	Wasteful

Adequate	Awe	Assured	Able
Capable	Certain	Charmed	Cheerful
Comfortable	Compassion	Courageous	Confidence
Determined	Delighted	Eager	Energetic
Enthusiastic	Excited	Exhilarated	Expectant
Elation	Empathy	Excellent	Fascinated
Glad	Good	Great	Grateful
Glorious	Glamorous	Graceful	Happy
Hopeful	Humorous	Inspired	Interested
Joyful	Magnificent	Lively	Love
Pleasure	Playfulness	Peaceful	Pleasant
Powerful	Pride	Positive	Relaxed
Relieved	Satisfied	Surprised	Sympathy
Stable	Sublime	Superior	Thrilled

Originally posted by: ankit111

Friends, we hv heard a lot of logics and arguments in the defence of JAGO and Anandi, few of thm clearly influenced by the personal liking, entertainment and chemistry, but as we all educated person and hv ability to think and differentiate rit and wrong (i hope) so my simple question is :

keep aside r personal liking, ur favourite actor, chemistry, geography or phisyology. keep aside entertainment value, who is boring and who is entertaining. forget tht this s serial and think tht its happening in real somewhere around u (and such things happens in real life). think abt the envioroment in which these events happened and just tell,

will u support such adultery cases?? will u support Jogia action?? will u support Gauri reaction and action?? will u not feel for Anandi, ony becoz she is boring??? will u support JAGO, becoz they hv chemistry or they r bringing TRP (thts why i asked to forget tht this is serial)??

only request not create imaginarry situation with IF and BUT. just on the basis of wht hs been shown and not wht sd hv been shown😆

Ankit my simple answer...I will never support such things, b it real yaa in fiction 😊