Anandi is right, so is Gauri

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SudhaSangeet

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Posted: 14 years ago

Anandi showed her patience and her way to tacle the situation yesterday justifying Gauri, not because she was trying to be mahaan, but the injustice to gauri, disapproving her as bindni...

as we say aurat aurat ok samajhti hai

yes it was gauri's mistake she shouldnt have married to jagya, but he and gauri unintentionally misinterpreted that their marriage is legal.

why in such a situation gauri is made to bear all the bruise of this marriage, where she herself is victimized by Jagya???

Gauri loved Jagya so much, she was on educate literate and sensible girl, but got mad with Dadisa's cheap tactics and gharwalo ke tane, ...

Ay rerlationship needs time to settle, so did gauri jagya's relationship, but this was exploited by dadisa to make favour Anandi...so now here where is gauri wrong

The saddest part is these two girls are made to suffer and Jagya will enjoy either Anandi or Gauri's company, without any punishment, one girl has to suffer big time

Edited by sudha100 - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago

Can u please tell me how is GAURI VICTIMISED BY JAGYA?

was she unaware of the fact that J is married when she agreed to marry him? did she not know that J's family have disowned him when she was pestering him to go to the badi haveli?

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SudhaSangeet

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: CutiePiee4
Can u please tell me how is GAURI VICTIMISED BY JAGYA?
was she unaware of the fact that J is married when she agreed to marry him? did she not know that J's family have disowned him when she was pestering him to go to the badi haveli?

Jagya and anandi loved each other since their college tarted, he never told her about his martial status, giving an excuse that it was a child marriage...

even when she came to know abt anandi, he assured that it was child marriage and we can proceed with our marriage...( not knowing that this marriage stands illegal now)

ok fine you married gauri, took saat vachan with her to protect her rights, do you have that guts to stand besides your love for whom you fought with each and every member of house, or atleast understand her???

I know it was sad at gauri's part to trust jagya completely and follow your love blindly, but now what i see is she is the only sufferer of the situation and the mess created by jagya

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sudha100

Jagya and anandi loved each other since their college tarted, he never told her about his martial status, giving an excuse that it was a child marriage...
even when she came to know abt anandi, he assured that it was child marriage and we can proceed with our marriage...( not knowing that this marriage stands illegal now)

ok fine you married gauri, took saat vachan with her to protect her rights, do you have that guts to stand besides your love for whom you fought with each and every member of house, or atleast understand her???

I know it was sad at gauri's part to trust jagya completely and follow your love blindly, but now what i see is she is the only sufferer of the situation and the mess created by jagya

as far as i know gauri when came to know J's truth was not a kid or a teeny weeny she was a grown up girl, matured enough to differentiate between right nd wrong. The moment she came to know abt J's truth she should have cut all ties with him, why go into the same mess again which has runied ur childhood.. Plus how can u get married to a married man who lied to u for 5 years and just becoz he says that he doesnt loves A and thinks her as only his frnd? She married him for her own selfish reasons and now she is reaping what she has sown. I have no sympathies for such girls🥱

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fast trak

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Posted: 14 years ago

dear sudha100

when G discovered that J was married and in fact she even saw the family that he came from she shdve immed thought if this guy can hide this much from me god knows what more he wudve hidden.

J is a liar and he has lied to G at all instances. (cant even say if he loved her or was that an infatuation bec he had a fascination for modern girls and since he didnt see that streak in A he tried to seek it elsewhere)😉

G isnt a small child. shes an educated girl...a doctor. u cant expect her to behave like a silly fool. shes not victimised at all. she has herself chosen to fall into the pit. now she cant say i never imagined the pit wud be so deep...😆

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Nach_Baliye

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Posted: 14 years ago

Gauri married Jagya knowing full well that he is married and Anandi is accepted by his family as their daughter-in-law. For Gauri to expect the family to throw out Anandi because now Jagya is married to Gauri, is pure stupid and self-serving. When Gauri found out about the child marriage between Jagya and Anandi, she should have made sure that she can still be the legal wife before marrying him WHILE HE WAS STILL MARRIED. Second, she is forcing the family to accept her despite their making it clear that for them Anandi is Jagya's first wife. Her forcibly staying there doesn't make the situation better - she needs to give them time to accept her and Jagya's marriage. So Gauri is wrong on all counts and has acted more influenced by her childhood marriage by Jagya than her current love for him.

Dadisa is very smart, she is trying to push Gauri's buttons and display the vast differences between Gauri and Anandi before Jagya so he can clearly see who is the better person in tough situations. It is cunning of her, but if Jagya is swayed easily by these situations, clearly he doesn't accept Gauri fully and doesn't love her. But now Gauri is in too deep and highly insecure, and its more difficult for her to get out of this situation.

Anandi doesn't need to be as mahaan but she is trying to move on and has done nothing wrong except hiding that she is Jagya's legal wife. I am not sure of her motivation, but frankly it doesn't matter since she will not file a case against Jagya and Gauri and Jagya already married before she found out.

But overall, Jagya lied to Gauri for FIVE FULL YEARS. He had FIVE years to come clean and he never did. So for her to still trust him and marry him without checking with his family or making sure its even legal shows how naive she is.

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SudhaSangeet

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: fast trak
dear sudha100

when G discovered that J was married and in fact she even saw the family that he came from she shdve immed thought if this guy can hide this much from me god knows what more he wudve hidden.

J is a liar and he has lied to G at all instances. (cant even say if he loved her or was that an infatuation bec he had a fascination for modern girls and since he didnt see that streak in A he tried to seek it elsewhere)😉

G isnt a small child. shes an educated girl...a doctor. u cant expect her to behave like a silly fool. shes not victimised at all. she has herself chosen to fall into the pit. now she cant say i never imagined the pit wud be so deep...😆

i said so coz he is at the receiving end from all the sides, being a doctor and educated dont lessen her injustice...who knew that J-G marriage is illegal except few till it was shown in episode...

gauri ki akal kaha thi that time, when she married this dumbo, in deep shock and pain no one takes right decision so did gauri...

ok fine ab bhugto...

Jagya raja you enjoy all the privileges and any of bindni of your choice

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fast trak

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Posted: 14 years ago

sudha ...legal illegal doesnt matter all the time. sometimes cultures r much above any legal rules.

G also comes from the same background as J hence these things arent new to her. there r so many child marriages around her inc her own parents maybe and thats not been illegal so how can A and J marriage be alone illegal.

yes its sad that J has nothing to lose here...hes got a choice between his 2 wives. but it was G's folly and she has to pay for it.

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achiever

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Posted: 14 years ago

I dont think so Gauri is victimized.. she wud've been if she hadnt known abt J-A's earlier mrg and married J.. but its not the case.. she was warned by J abt the consequences.. and its not as if DS is manipulating her thots.. she is jst bringing thm out by creating certain situations.. bt its she who is acting all wierd.. and blaming wrong person..

according to her she is legal wife.. bt she cannot deny tht A still has rights socially ... and is still attached to the family.. she cant jst come in and claim her rights..

she herself chose this path and is solely responsible for her plight.. nobody is to be blamed not even J..

J was a weak character right from the start.. and I dont c any change in him... J has always been at fault.. instead of making him realize his mistake.. she willingly gave in.. in fact G completely failed to understand him.. and she took a wrong decision of marrying a person like J..