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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

u learn certain things in life the hard way. and the earlier incident should havwe taught her something in life after all how do we saay it "dood ka jala chaanch bhi phoon phoonk kar peeta hai" and as far as A is concerned let her study first and become independant and then they can bring in a new entrant for her

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Gauri is acting stupid like many other girls...Lot of girls get involved with married men and foolishly believe them...I know many real life examples...They have common execuses

- They never loved their wife

- They were forced into the marriage

- They dont love each other anymore.

Jagya is using same old execuses.Its got noting to do with child marriage it happens in normal arranged/love marriages as well...men cheat wives suffer and their Gfs believe all their lies.I dont understnd why dont girls use some common sense...the guy who can cheat his wife he can cheat them too later on.

Atleast in this case Jagya had the guts to marry Gauri.

I dislike Gauri coz she has behaved exactly like any other foolish girl in so called love.An dnow asserting her rights on haveli...why is she on everyone's throats when they r dont ready to accept her ?

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Shruti Chatterjee

@shreela

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

How can G trust a person who lied her for 5 years?

How can she forget about the bonding between J and A, which she had seen in the time of her child-marriage? everyone had seen that how did Jagya stands for Anandi's right and said "Anandi hi meri beendni hai, koi aur nehi!"

She also knows that how much the family members love Anandi. then how can she expect that they will accept her easily?

how can she destroy another girl's married life?

I don't have any sympathy for Gauri!!

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Shruti Chatterjee

@shreela

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Jagya- Anandi marriage is an arrenged marriage, but he was not forced to marry Anandi! Jagya-Gauri child-marriage was a forced marriage! so how can she justify her own marriage and not Anandi's?

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Blue Rose

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

@ CutiePiee4 I agree with you let her study first and then let a nice guy come to not sweep her off her feet but let the love between them grow stongly and steadily rather than wirlwind romance like Jagya and Gauri who were all romancing in Mumbai but here they are bickering all the time and Jagya still thinks of the good moments he spent with Anandi and well as for anandhi's guy i am sure she will not choose any tom dick and harry but only a sensible person with whom life together will be good!!!!

Education on Gauri was wasted as she doesn't mind to stay together with Jagya before marriage, put sindoor befor marriage. But after marriage can't cover her head, doesn't bother for her in laws feelings and is insecure and shouts and everybody. And why was she so desp for all the rasams and SR...what is the need for such physical desperateness that being blind to husbands uneasiness, first wife's presence and the location (she romances even in open filed and mumbai without any qualms)...love is not only about staying togehter 5 years (which i will never agree as true) or hugging or being a match by education or marrying him as an adult by will...then her parents would also have married in young age!!!!! would she be ok if her father leaves her mom or vice versa...or would Jagya be able to accept such things!!!

Gauri's fault is not only being selfish and thinking of only her own importance but forcing others also to think of only her happiness and give her importance which is not possible!!! Actually she does not want Ashirwad its her way of establishing that she is important and every body is giving her importance which why she is hell bent on getting it

Edited by sreeda18 - 14 years ago

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ankit111

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: sudha100
Anandi showed her patience and her way to tacle the situation yesterday justifying Gauri, not because she was trying to be mahaan, but the injustice to gauri, disapproving her as bindni...
as we say aurat aurat ok samajhti hai
yes it was gauri's mistake she shouldnt have married to jagya, but he and gauri unintentionally misinterpreted that their marriage is legal.

why in such a situation gauri is made to bear all the bruise of this marriage, where she herself is victimized by Jagya???
Gauri loved Jagya so much, she was on educate literate and sensible girl, but got mad with Dadisa's cheap tactics and gharwalo ke tane, ...

Ay rerlationship needs time to settle, so did gauri jagya's relationship, but this was exploited by dadisa to make favour Anandi...so now here where is gauri wrong

The saddest part is these two girls are made to suffer and Jagya will enjoy either Anandi or Gauri's company, without any punishment, one girl has to suffer big time

I dont think DS is doing anything here. she hs just stopped thm, whtever the motive was, but it was just like they were put in some situation and they hv to deal with. DS is not creating creating but just watching. its same like BIG BOSS. u r put in the house and u hv to deal with it urself, which show ur character. u cant blame Big Boss for tht.

as concern to the GHARWALON KE TANE, who is forcing her to stay there and hear Taane😆

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Blukitten

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

I wonder why isnt Jagya getting tickets for mumbai...He's not even trying for the tickets...he just keeps on lying to Gauri abt not getting the tickets...He dosnt seem intrested in going back..They can atleast go to Jaipur to Gauri house and stay there till tickets are available...but he's not making effort and his attitude is very indiffrent towards Gauri...he's least bothered abt her insults. ..Why ??

Is he getting intrested in Anandi again or he's waiting for his pocket money from Anandi.

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natasa0607

@natasa0607

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

y i hate gauri is bcoz she always tells anandiz marriage is ilegal. then wat abot her own parents marriage..wat abot the whole village..all must hsave done child marriage only rt

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Purva

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

The question of being right and having rights in this situation is very complex. The central issue is not the legality of one marriage over the other. The question is whether a person can say that I'm not happy with this marriage and want to get married to another without considering the spouse. This can happen in an arranged marriage or even in a love-marriage.

The issue being faced by a lot of women in rural Rajasthan is that the menfolk are increasingly coming back with second wives on one pretext or the other - I was lonely, I need someone to take care of my needs, I don't like you anymore, what can you do about it. BV is a brave attempt to highlight a major social issue and understand it from all angles. Anandi is in an ideal situation where she has the support of her in-laws, most women in reality do not.

The need for the law to protect child-brides comes from this background. A lot of people in this forum support Anandi not because she is good-looking (looks are subjective), or perceived chemistry with an actor (that is also dependent on the make-up artist, scriptwriter and director), mahaan (scriptwriter and director once again) or because of emotional attachment with the character, but because they realize the deeper issues at play here. I am not saying that the above reason do not exist, they do, but there is something else that goes beyond entertainment here. If we as intelligent audience cannot appreciate that, then we deserve the typical saas-bahu kitsch from Ekta factory.

There is also a reason that the Indian law does not accept the rights of the second wife. It is the responsibility of the adult wife to find out about the background of her husband prior to getting married. If she was lied to and cheated she can drag him to court on the counts of fraud, rape (marriage under false representation is covered under this heading), and cheating.

In the case of Gauri, she cannot claim that she was cheated or lied to because she was well-aware of the existence of the first wife. So here Gauri is neither right nor does she have any rights. In the meantime all said and done it is only a fictional show and the main purpose of the show is entertainment only, so enjoy the ride, have fun but at the same time never let momentary enjoyment and entertainment override your rational judgement and thinking.

Edited by gangubai1 - 14 years ago

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fast trak

@fast trak

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

sudha...u can call me dhanya

so sad that G has got this kind of torture but it was her own choice. agreed she fell in love unknowingly but committed a big blunder by marrying him after knowing truths. she has to pay for it.

its the karma of life. a big circle. what u do comes back to u in some way or other.

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