So much rudeness? - Page 3

Originally posted by: shamil

ya I too felt it too OTT what sugna said. The girl was just trying to be nice . Instead of behaving rudely with G, sugna should have done her bhashan on J ( her brother was too wise enough not to go near her😆 otherwise he would have received her share of thappad too)

at the same time , G should realise that it is too early to get 'friendly' with her inlaw family when they clearly dont like her and dadisa is on bed due to JG

i totally agree wid u!!
sugna was a bit much rude by saying fir se dhona padega!!
but gauri also should realize dis z too early to begin frdship wid d family!!!
time z d best thing to heal d wounds!!
n yes i cant understand why sugna didnt asked her bro anything???😡😡😡
like a typical lady she just bashed gauri

@NiVu mjht1 i agree wid u completely!! its not even the tip of the iceberg wen u marry a already married prsn knowing his marital status!!.

look we must understand that even gauri has got alot of unhealed scars from her childhood. Her being rude to Anandi isnt intentional its probably insecurity mixed with a little resentment at how she had come and the shaadi had broken. Gauri is also human. I find her suffering to be much more than anyone else in the serial. In a way if everyone accepts her I think she feels it would help heal the scars she had recieved from this very family...who surprisingly are not even bothered by that!

I don't want to indulge in this discussion but I wd just ask one thing, OK j&g r adult and they hv all rit to marry against the will of family forgetting tht he hs a wife, whom he loved and cared before his Mumbai departure (only j word is not enough to convince me tht there were no love, fact r against his word), thn his family also hs rit to disown him and not accept thm. Thm why they r imposing thmself and why they want acceptance. Live urself and let thm live thmself. Ye to jabardasti hai, man na maan ham tere mehman. 😆 😆 for me if once accepted ur marriage and hd no problem with ur wife thn having any love affairs with other girl is adultery and its not acceptable for me.my be my thought is not so called modern, but in jagiya situation he hd no rit to hv any affair wit j or any other girl, becoz before his departure he was happily married couple with A. Only becoz in city he started feeling shame on her gawanr bibi and found more educated girl friend dosnt give reason to dump A. Only becoz J&G love each other can't justify there act becoz in real life AUR BHI GAM HAI JAMANE ME MOHABBAT KE SIWA. But if u want to forget everything in ur great love thn forget na. Who invited u. Why this blessing drama. 😆

Originally posted by: ankit111

I don't want to indulge in this discussion but I wd just ask one thing, OK j&g r adult and they hv all rit to marry against the will of family forgetting tht he hs a wife, whom he loved and cared before his Mumbai departure (only j word is not enough to convince me tht there were no love, fact r against his word), thn his family also hs rit to disown him and not accept thm. Thm why they r imposing thmself and why they want acceptance. Live urself and let thm live thmself. Ye to jabardasti hai, man na maan ham tere mehman. 😆 😆 for me if once accepted ur marriage and hd no problem with ur wife thn having any love affairs with other girl is adultery and its not acceptable for me.my be my thought is not so called modern, but in jagiya situation he hd no rit to hv any affair wit j or any other girl, becoz before his departure he was happily married couple with A. Only becoz in city he started feeling shame on her gawanr bibi and found more educated girl friend dosnt give reason to dump A. Only becoz J&G love each other can't justify there act becoz in real life AUR BHI GAM HAI JAMANE ME MOHABBAT KE SIWA. But if u want to forget everything in ur great love thn forget na. Who invited u. Why this blessing drama. 😆

i agree wid u ankit!! that why this drama 4 acceptance?? and its really adultery once u get married & was happily married till u get the influence of city life & start comapring ur wife wid oder gals esply the one whom u r only attracted!! ppl r saying that G'd trauma or unhealed scars but does it give her right 2 ruin sum1s marriage in the name of so-called true or not so true luv??

, this is simply an exception case,he had to accept her at that time,
if he had met g before , he would have never accepted anandi
he thought a is her wife, he is supposed to love her and blah blah blah
get the thinking process, everyone saying a is ur beendni, so u r suppose to love her
a did love him , i would really have no prob if anandi had fallen in love with someone else
jagya when ventured out , he found out , he never loved her, he met gauri found out that he can only love her, no one else
i only have probs with jagya on one thing, how he did this was wrong what he did was not wrong
his methods, his process have been wrong but he has taken a correct decision in my eyes, why should u be in a forceful relation anadi and jagya would have had no future together
reg lord krishna and radha example, we r not living in that age, yeh uss waqt hota hoga , abhi nahin
sabko woh sab follow karne ki koi zaroorat nahin

Gauri is very immatured. Agree that she is normal like many other girls.

I for one would not like that my husband leaves me for another woman thinking that I am not educated or pretty or what ever kamiyan. And then gets married to some other chick ...

hey, i've not read all the posts, but my opinion is that Sugana is not completely wrong here... i mean how wud u feel wen u're bro marries another girl wen he's already married to sum1 who is lovveeddd by every1...and the other lady comes in wid a smile n expects evry1 to smile back at her...!!! not done..!!!

I dont think Sugna was out of place in talking to Gauri that way. Sugna did not go seek Gauri and start a conversation, she made it very clear that she dont like Gauri and dont want anything to do with her by completely ignoring her the other day. Suguna has the right not to like Gauri. Gauri should respect that, instead Gauri just went after Sugna calling her jeegi and all that which irritated Sugna. Suguna believes that what Ja-Ga did was wrong and it was even a bigger wrong in them coming to the house and she believes they caused her granma to get a heart attack. So she is plain mad right now at this couple. I think she is justified to feel that way. Gauri right now should respect that family's feelings and keep her distance from them. Thats my POV.