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divmath

@divmath

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: intruderfast
ok but i agree whole heartedly with the msg😉 , thank u cvs😃ab aage bhi hum jaisa chahe vaisa hi karna😉

I second you...I completely agree with today's message 👍🏼

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

I think the message is focusing on only one part , that is Bal Vivah.

If the serial was promoting infidelity and extra marital affair then , they would have left it at Anandi's remark that , its bal vivah that has lead to this regretful day and actions,

Rather,

Gehna stepped in and cleared out that, just because you feel that your partner is not according to your dreams, give you the right to dump them rather one should work towards the relationships and clearly speaking against what jagya did. That is having an extra marital affair. [Yes he didn't go in that physical extent sense,]

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divmath

@divmath

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

@ambodidi

Absolutely...where are these statistics?? and what relevance do they hold? child marriage and successful...?? as Anandi said the words "child and marriage" in itself dont go together...let alone expecting the boy or girl to spend their whole life together...lets keep Anandi and Jagya aside...what if the kids mentality doest match...what if their likings dont match? shouldnt they be just break free and end the relationship...even in an arranged marriage...one gets married to a person hardly knowing him/her...tomorrow if they realize they are not compatible...why should they be forced to live together? its useless staying in a loveless marriage...I would rather ask the two involved to separate and live life happily as they want...I know divorce is not a good thing and considered a taboo in India...but sometimes...if things dont workout...its the best option !

My two cents on Gehna's two cents - "Two people make a marriage work, Jagya didnt try from his end etc etc" ...but the most basic point which she was stressing..."love" ...thats exactly what was not present between Jagya and Anandi...this stems from my thought and belief that Jagya never loved Anandi, as opposed to most here who believe he did...again lets not talk about consummation, I have mentioned this 1000 times...in my view consummation is not a proof of love or marriage, it can also arise due to lust and physical attraction...another point which people make repeatedly is Jagya went to see Anandi those 5 years...for that my view is he just did that because he missed her as a friend...they had stayed together since childhood and when she was sent away suddenly he was mad at DS and wanted to be with her...thats all...there was no love there again...So yes what Gehna said applies to a normal couple...but not Jagya and Anandi...because Jagya never loved Anandi...so when there is no love...there is no scope for improvement in a relationship (I am not saying his behavior towards Anandi was acceptable, that is something which I hated)...however I feel what Jagya did was not wrong...he just chose his life partner cause he fell in love with Gauri...just my opinion.

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Rolzz

@Rolzz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

The written message at the end and vocal message during the episode didnt match...

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: drphill
i dont think there is such a statistic for one to say that child marriages work statisically speaking.

firstly when one partner ends up leaving i highly doubt many would see the insides of a court room therefore it is impossible to register it

secondly what do you define as sucessful? is it that it doesnt end in divorce? so if a woman feels like she has no other options in life but to stay in an unhappy relationship till she or he dies, would that be a sucessful match? or would it be when both parties have all doors open but want to stay with and enjoy life with one another :)

what a superb point@bold
and ppl who say he loved anadi , se this video. jagya said the truth here
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uVcyqRXIC5U,
he admitted that when they grew up they tunred their relationship into love while it was still just friendship. it was their samajh ki bhool as he so rightly said
when he came to mumbai and started to listen to his heart,, it never said it was love to anandi

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455325

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: divmath

Well said 👏👏

i bestowed a like upon u ⭐️

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divmath

@divmath

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: drphill
i bestowed a like upon u ⭐️

Ohhh thank you sir for that generosity 😉

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: divmath
@ambodidi

Absolutely...where are these statistics?? and what relevance do they hold? child marriage and successful...?? as Anandi said the words "child and marriage" in itself dont go together...let alone expecting the boy or girl to spend their whole life together...lets keep Anandi and Jagya aside...what if the kids mentality doest match...what if their likings dont match? shouldnt they be just break free and end the relationship...even in an arranged marriage...one gets married to a person hardly knowing him/her...tomorrow if they realize they are not compatible...why should they be forced to live together? its useless staying in a loveless marriage...I would rather ask the two involved to separate and live life happily as they want...I know divorce is not a good thing and considered a taboo in India...but sometimes...if things dont workout...its the best option !

My two cents on Gehna's two cents - "Two people make a marriage work, Jagya didnt try from his end etc etc" ...but the most basic point which she was stressing..."love" ...thats exactly what was not present between Jagya and Anandi...this stems from my thought and belief that Jagya never loved Anandi, as opposed to most here who believe he did...again lets not talk about consummation, I have mentioned this 1000 times...in my view consummation is not a proof of love or marriage, it can also arise due to lust and physical attraction...another point which people make repeatedly is Jagya went to see Anandi those 5 years...for that my view is he just did that because he missed her as a friend...they had stayed together since childhood and when she was sent away suddenly he was mad at DS and wanted to be with her...thats all...there was no love there again...So yes what Gehna said applies to a normal couple...but not Jagya and Anandi...because Jagya never loved Anandi...so when there is no love...there is no scope for improvement in a relationship (I am not saying his behavior towards Anandi was acceptable, that is something which I hated)...however I feel what Jagya did was not wrong...he just chose his life partner cause he fell in love with Gauri...just my opinion.

exactly divya, as far as i remember even gehna basant marrige was abt to break up too, basanth was planning for gehna remarriage, but their relationship survived cos they loved each other
that was not the case between jagya anadi, jagya never loved anadi, so even if anadi had changed , he would have never loved her, and she did change acc to jagya preferences but still he could not adjust to her because there was no love between them
i think jagya or gauri will stress this point in todays epsiode, let see 😊

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455325

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: intruderfast

what a superb point@bold
and ppl who say he loved anadi , se this video. jagya said the truth here
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uVcyqRXIC5U,
he admitted that when they grew up they tunred their relationship into love while it was still just friendship. it was their samajh ki bhool as he so rightly said
when he came to mumbai and started to listen to his heart,, it never said it was love to anandi

hey mate im new around here i just wanted to meet other people who fast fwd just to watch anandi bits :))) i really dont get all this proving whatever point BUT ILL JOIN IN NOW!! dont u think jag was telling gauri what she wanted to hear? he may love her and she loved him but dont u think when she has more time to reflect and hear a little bit more of the 'friendship' of jag and anandi she might start to feel betrayed? also dont u think she said enough times .. that she wont forgive jag for not telling her he was married.. she only really changed her mind once he sobbed my family doesnt talk to me.. then she suddenly became interested.

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shalgo

@shalgo

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Posted: 14 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: intruderfast

exactly divya, as far as i remember even gehna basant marrige was abt to break up too, basanth was planning for gehna remarriage, but their relationship survived cos they loved each other
that was not the case between jagya anadi, jagya never loved anadi, so even if anadi had changed , he would have never loved her, and she did change acc to jagya preferences but still he could not adjust to her because there was no love between them
i think jagya or gauri will stress this point in todays epsiode, let see 😊

the way Jagya treated Anandi after she came back was nothing short of showing husbandly love. they went on a honeymoon, had fun...he also cared a lot for wo so protective of her against dadisa, wanted her to study, get modern, and took care of her whenever she was sick. this was in all sense a potrayal of love...never did CVs show that there personalities din't mesh or there were significant ideological differences. the way Jagya cried for Anandi when he was getting married to Gudiya...was that not love

now come to the next argument which a lot of members have been saying that he never loved Anandi as a wife...it was only friendship...Ok, lets accept that it was only friendship (though he had gone far beyond that)...but there is love, care and respect in friendship too...and he knew that there relationship was more than that of friends...yet at the time he broke off his relations with Anandi...did he even once sensitively think about her and her future, his duties, her sacrifices...or even communicated with her in a civilised manner. This is what drives Gehna's point...that he is not worthy of Anandi's love or for that matter even freidnship.

I don't think Jagya is capable of loving or caring for everyone. Right now he is after Gauri...but soon Gauri will see his real face (which have been shown once or twice when he has been tensed). He is a outright selfish, spoiled brat and only time can teach him a lesson.

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