I dun agree with the message they r giving out! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Illyria

what the voice over said was that those marriages which are conducted when they are children, their likes and dislikes change when they are older and relations break. This is not their fault but the fault of the people who conducted the bal vivah, their parents.

Now usaully when a moral statement is given in BV they are not referring to the serial they refer to society. In the statement there was no mention of the infelidity, but that likes and dislikes, change in feelings which then make the relations break, which is true.

I guess its up to interpretation, that is how i interpreted it

Originally posted by: nkapoor

yes bal vivah is bad in the sense, that the children on sum level end up losing their childhood, but blaming a bal vivah for an extra-marital affair is ridiculous!! they are so many marriages in which extra-marital affair happens!! they are countless! soo?, does that mean they were married in childhood! jagya was completely in love with Anandi until Gauri came along, I cannot believe the creatives r saying it is not Jagya's fault! they are many Bal-vivah's in our country and almost all of them are successful! earlier messages given by the show were soo good, when they actually use to give proper statistics! this show is losing its touch!

Originally posted by: Rach1

@nkapoor - welll I have not seen the show itself Justifying Jagya's actions or Ja-Ga marriage so far. So I do not think they are promoting infidelity. If the show itself is justifying this marriage, I for one will have huge problems with this show. As I keep saying, picture abhi bhaki hai, they will bring the right message out, have patience😆

Originally posted by: nkapoor

what's the need to laugh? the show wants to show that bal-vivah's r wrong, but statistically speaking how many husbands who have been married in chidhood, cheat their wives? i dun think using infedility is a good excuse to put bal-vivah down!

Originally posted by: nkapoor

what's the need to laugh? the show wants to show that bal-vivah's r wrong, but statistically speaking how many husbands who have been married in chidhood, cheat their wives? i dun think using infedility is a good excuse to put bal-vivah down!

ok but i agree whole heartedly with the msg😉 , thank u cvs😃ab aage bhi hum jaisa chahe vaisa hi karna😉

Originally posted by: drphill

i dont think there is such a statistic for one to say that child marriages work statisically speaking.

firstly when one partner ends up leaving i highly doubt many would see the insides of a court room therefore it is impossible to register it

secondly what do you define as sucessful? is it that it doesnt end in divorce? so if a woman feels like she has no other options in life but to stay in an unhappy relationship till she or he dies, would that be a sucessful match? or would it be when both parties have all doors open but want to stay with and enjoy life with one another :)