I dun agree with the message they r giving out! - Page 5

Originally posted by: shamil

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Originally posted by: CutiePiee4

Hey I think I have interacted with you before but where I just can't remember😕

I dont agrre with the statement tht Jagya never loved Anandi.Jagya was very much in love with Anandi Before Gauri.
Even CVs agree to this I remember after the leap there were articles saying tht the current track will focus on Jagya and Anandi's "Love" story.I dont have links to them but will try to find it.
It was "Love" story not "Lust" story.Anybody with a common sense can differentiate between love and lust and the way Jagya behaved with anandi and took care of her it was definitely love.Plss see the old episodes and referesh ur memories.U'll realise Jagya was a very sweet and loving husband to Anandi.
I think ppl are mistaking it for lust coz they consumated.He had the license to consumate so he did it.I am sure if they were unmarried he wld have waited.

Jagya changed after getting influenced by city life.
In this case I consider Anandi too at fault wen she realised tht Jag wants her to be modern firts she resisted his attempts to become modern eg, refusing to wear a short dress during honeymoon.
But later on she realised and made attempts to change herself.Under Dadisa's domain it was difficult but still she gave her 10th boards and learned to use computers.
By then Jagya had already moved on and instead of appreciating he rediculed her attempts.He never made any attempt to save his marriage.
Jagya dosnt love Gauri he loves her qualification.
Do u think he wld still love her if she was not a doctor ?? What if Gudiya wld have been accepted in the family in childhood and become traditional like Anandi. wld he still love her ?? No way he wld have fallen for another city gal.
He's just a selfish MCP.He wants his wife to be according to his expectations but dosnt want to make any attempts to change himself.No couple is 100% compatible one has to mould themselves.
Lets see wat happens in future I am sure he'll go after Anandi again wen she becomes a better doctor than Gauri.

Originally posted by: Rach1

@nkapoor - Actually I do agree with you 100%. Not sure what made you think I was laughing, maybe the use of emoticons - that was definitely not my intend.

oh ok kool!

Originally posted by: shamil

he 'admitted' that coz he didnt want her to come to mumbai nd he wanted to have a gala time with gauri. There are many other youtube scenes which show he did consider her his wife and loved her 😆 Its clearly shown that he had no problem with A before he met G

If what jagya did is right , then I guess alll men who indulge in infidelity can find excuses that they never loved their wife hence they have the 'right' to love another girl🤢.

exactly!

Originally posted by: drphill

i dont think there is such a statistic for one to say that child marriages work statisically speaking.

firstly when one partner ends up leaving i highly doubt many would see the insides of a court room therefore it is impossible to register it

secondly what do you define as sucessful? is it that it doesnt end in divorce? so if a woman feels like she has no other options in life but to stay in an unhappy relationship till she or he dies, would that be a sucessful match? or would it be when both parties have all doors open but want to stay with and enjoy life with one another :)

wow! that is a strong statement to make! have u actually known a child-marriage couple? alsoo, I agree that child marriage is bad in the sense that a child is forced to act liked adults, and give up their studies and everything, but that does not necessarily mean that this will cause trouble when they grow up! Jagya was totally in love with Anandi when she came back, he changed only afer when he went to Mumbai, which any husband can! it is not like other partners do not cheat! did not say that child-marriage is good, but I dun think that extra-marita affair has anything to do with it! Jagya is just a jerk! and he has chosen an excuse to justify himself! I just did not agree with the message they gave at the end of the episode, stating that 'its that parents fault' that is not at all justified! My point is, that they are many negative effects of child-marriage, however, u cannot justify an extra-marital affair based upon that!

Originally posted by: nkapoor

wow! that is a strong statement to make! have u actually known a child-marriage couple? alsoo, I agree that child marriage is bad in the sense that a child is forced to act liked adults, and give up their studies and everything, but that does not necessarily mean that this will cause trouble when they grow up! Jagya was totally in love with Anandi when she came back, he changed only afer when he went to Mumbai, which any husband can! it is not like other partners do not cheat! did not say that child-marriage is good, but I dun think that extra-marita affair has anything to do with it! Jagya is just a jerk! and he has chosen an excuse to justify himself! I just did not agree with the message they gave at the end of the episode, stating that 'its that parents fault' that is not at all justified! My point is, that they are many negative effects of child-marriage, however, u cannot justify an extra-marital affair based upon that!

Originally posted by: shalgo

Agree with you...completely. i think they showed a wrong title message yesterday..."Moral of the story was wrong"

exactly! thankyou!