BALH 2 EDT #21 - Page 121

Originally posted by: Bana

But her main issue/fear is not that Ram kept her in the dark. It is - what are his current felings for V, what is V’s position in his life going forward. Whether he wants to get back with V now or will he ever leave her for Vedika in future.

This dual concern can only be answered by I dont love Vedika + I love you

I hear you and I think most of us here agree with you, but what @Rithika says makes sense too, we dissect the episode, analyse the characters, speculate on upcoming episodes, but at the end of the day, what is shown on screen is beyond our control, we just have to accept and move on. And when it goes beyond our level of acceptance, we would have to quit!

Originally posted by: Real_Me

@Bold: Gosh! How far we have come in couple of days, from wanting Pri to tell Ram about those messages & Ram to clarify his stance on ‘still loving ex, hence no love’ to this now 🙇🏽‍♀️

That's why i say we all have been trapped by the cvs🤣

Hum logo ki expectations itna low kar dete hai ye log pucho mat 😆

On a tangent, many here have listed Ram’s buying up the auto among his “actions” that spoke his love.

That reminded me of this sher…

Ek shehenshah ne banwake haseen Taj Mahal

Hum gareebon ke mohabbat ka udaya hai mazaak

Originally posted by: Bana

But her main issue/fear is not that Ram kept her in the dark. It is - what are his current felings for V, what is V’s position in his life going forward. Whether he wants to get back with V now or will he ever leave her for Vedika in future.

This dual concern can only be answered by I dont love Vedika + I love you

I wanted him to say that too.

He has told her that he doesn't love v anymore but the thing is he doesn't know how to make Priya believe that he loves her now verbally.

See sara told her straightforwardly that Ram loves her that's why does so many things for her and refused to believe her own sister.

Ram knows that Priya will not believe his words that why he has decided to show his love through actions.

See in the first season too both loved each other but the confession happened from priya's side first and i think they are going in the same direction. That Priya will confess in frustration with Ram's refusal to tell her his feelings but being adamant on showing it.

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Did you do your major in Psychology? I think you have not. Hence you are struggling like me to understand BALH2

Originally posted by: bhubhnis

I agree that in any real relationship after seeing your loved one go through such pain (Ps drunken speech) the guy should do (and say) everything to bury all those doubts.

Here .. going by my understanding of the characters..(self acclaimed psychologist ... certified by tirchi :) ).... Ram doesn't like difficult conversations.. he did apologize for hiding the fact, he was asked whether he loves V which he denied wholeheartedly and tried to show by his actions that he wants only P in his life. I don't think he has still realised that he did any wrong... He doesn't know all V kaands.

Actually P surprised me. She is stronger and difficult conversations don't trouble her. She has been shown so forthright before (when she asked R bout the lie, bout him leaving her at the wedding etc). With the trust issues she had... I am finding it very difficult that she is willing to trust him without any questions asked.

But whatever rocks their boat. I am making peace with Ps evolution.

Good point you have raised. In his mind, Ram knows his heart is clear and so are his intentions. So, he is not able to understand that other people cannot take a peek at your heart and realize your intentions. You need to verbalize it to them.

I think there was a follow up scene on the terrace after the bakery where Ram, Bri, and Sara talks or Ram was seen contemplating on the reveal after the bakery. They completely cut that scene because Aanchal left the show and they would have to pay her if she was seen in the episode. Hence, I think the episode was discontinuous next day.

About the V-kaands, I think during the MS confrontation at KM, he will talk/realize about that which is why I think Nandini will drag V to somewhere. Of course, he will say he knew about MS and how Pri saved her. After all she didn't ask for any explanation in the V-reveal. They really should have given a proper conversation. Somethings are needed to be said. It provides much needed assurance like listening to "I Love You" sometimes in our daily lives. These are feel good moments.

About Pri, I am wondering does she remember the bakery scene? But people can remember. I saw it in Ask Laftan Anlamaz (Turkish serial) where the FL's friends forced her to remember the night and the conversations she has with the ML. But with bhaang, I am not sure.

Then again, the V-reveal was a big issue. Is she giving him the same treatment he gave her during Neeraj reveal in front of the whole public? That was the same episode where he wanted her to meet V. But in argument I can say that both premises are different. With V, she stayed like a queen at KM whereas Neeraj dug his own grave that day. To top it all, Pri cleared the very first day that she had moved on which made Ram easy to support her. On the contrary, Ram's declaration of forever love towards V made it much more complicated to believe Ram. I know with times passing, Ram and Pri's trust, bond, faith in each other had become stronger but that doesn't fully justify their non-communication regarding V-reveal. In that sense, they don't even need to hear those three words to confirm the love from their respective partners.

Originally posted by: DazzlingLight

True! And the pressure on young couples to conceive is also very real. It may not be in-your-face as before, but it's definitely there (as I can see happening to more than one young couple in my family). There's so much emotional blackmailing, comparison, scare mongering (your body clock's ticking)😔.

I was once asked to speak to a young couple in my family on the sly to find out why they weren't ''going ahead". I had to give the person a proper telling off and also asked them to butt out of the couple's business (as politely as possible, since they were much older 😔)

India mein this problem still exists?

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

I wanted him to say that too.

He has told her that he doesn't love v anymore but the thing is he doesn't know how to make Priya believe that he loves her now verbally.

See sara told her straightforwardly that Ram loves her that's why does so many things for her and refused to believe her own sister.

Ram knows that Priya will not believe his words that why he has decided to show his love through actions.

See in the first season too both loved each other but the confession happened from priya's side first and i think they are going in the same direction. That Priya will confess in frustration with Ram's refusal to tell her his feelings but being adamant on showing it.

Originally posted by: Doodle

India mein this problem still exists?

It exists everywhere in the world where there are nosy aunties who loves having a say in others lives.

Jokes apart.. it's not that difficult to believe..in Asian culture.. elders are revered and their advising the younger members is welcomed since past..Of course this has been abused and there is no concept of personal space for some people.

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

I wanted him to say that too.

He has told her that he doesn't love v anymore but the thing is he doesn't know how to make Priya believe that he loves her now verbally.

See sara told her straightforwardly that Ram loves her that's why does so many things for her and refused to believe her own sister.

Ram knows that Priya will not believe his words that why he has decided to show his love through actions.

See in the first season too both loved each other but the confession happened from priya's side first and i think they are going in the same direction. That Priya will confess in frustration with Ram's refusal to tell her his feelings but being adamant on showing it.

Yes, I think we are heading towards that. I really want them to have a major confrontation or frustration.

On a lighter note, "how did Ram leave Pri at SH and go back to KM after that moment? I thought banda was ready from Diwali. Itna control power kaise hai hai iske paas?"