BALH 2 EDT #21 - Page 120

Originally posted by: bhubhnis

I know it's a short time (6 months) but i could relate to it.. P had enough reasons to trust R... Will be a long list if i recount every . But this guy had stood up for her... her brother, her sister, her mom and just in general the way he behaved with her .. the importance he gave her... I feel her trust ii's not completely out of blue

Even Akki trusted him without any proof :))

Lets agree to disagree :))

I think viewers would trust CVs more if they were more proactive about showing flashbacks of all the scenes that made Priya trust Ram.

We're always shown FBs when something terrible happens but hardly ever when we want them.

Originally posted by: bhubhnis

I was a little confused too before with P not asking any questions.. but i guess seeing the sneak peek.. it makes sense... The way R said koi safai nahi mangi . Bharosa kiya .. i think they wanted to show that the foundation of their marriage has already been cemented with trust after all the previous kaands and the way they had stood for each other. They have had their share of MUs.

I know it's all fiction and no one chose to remain silent when it's so easy to seek answers.. but its still convincing to me. I don't see any reason why P should not trust him... And she chose to do that instead of asking questions. And that's ok.

Most of us who have partners have that fundamental trust... We may still ask questions but we already know the answers.. ye fundamental trust that your partner is not going to cheat u and have an affair or will not lie to u and love someone else... Ye to basic hai na... Whats a relationship without that ?

Just my view after so much of debate on this... Don't bash me :))))

Exactly! Thank you❤️

This is absolutely that point where they both trust have on each other. I get that in reality it takes more than 6 months of marriage to have this strong trust and faith on each other but they donot have that long to stretch this thing.

The actual journey might take yrs but they have very limited time on their hands and they are showing what eventually happens in a marriage of convenience.

We have to keep in mind it is fiction at the end of the day. We all should defend a track or a character as we feel like but we should also try to keep more objective views too.

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Originally posted by: bhubhnis

I know it's a short time (6 months) but i could relate to it.. P had enough reasons to trust R... Will be a long list if i recount every . But this guy had stood up for her... her brother, her sister, her mom and just in general the way he behaved with her .. the importance he gave her... I feel her trust ii's not completely out of blue

Even Akki trusted him without any proof :))

Lets agree to disagree :))

Absolutely! ❤️

And also sometimes some relations do not need constant reassurance with each other. The trust grows organically, with the behaviour of that person in general with others.

See if you remember in the auto scene when Priya was going to KUs from bakery she says to herself - mr.kapoor is a good man, he has always been good with others then why would he do something terrible with me?

She had already come to a conclusion that it was all a mistake only and nothing more. When she saw vedika she was angry but all that disappeared when Ram chose to go after her and not stick with vedika.

And this has been happening since the beginning, he always decides to either go after Priya or stay behind for Priya. He has been constantly doing this. And as Priya said she never forgets anything.

The problem is in the screenplay. If they have shown the FBs correctly in that auto monologue all this confusion would not have been created.

The fact is priya was never angry at Ram for hiding but herself. And after talking to sara and ram choosing her, priya's anger evaporated. She realised she has nothing to fear from her husband.

And where vedika is concerned, priya never really felt threatened by her.

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Absolutely! ❤️

And also sometimes some relations do not need constant reassurance with each other. The trust grows organically, with the behaviour of that person in general with others.

See if you remember in the auto scene when Priya was going to KUs from bakery she says to herself - mr.kapoor is a good man, he has always been good with others then why would he do something terrible with me?

She had already come to a conclusion that it was all a mistake only and nothing more. When she saw vedika she was angry but all that disappeared when Ram chose to go after her and not stick with vedika.

And this has been happening since the beginning, he always decides to either go after Priya or stay behind for Priya. He has been constantly doing this. And as Priya said she never forgets anything.

The problem is in the screenplay. If they have shown the FBs correctly in that auto monologue all this confusion would not have been created.

The fact is priya was never angry at Ram for hiding but herself. And after talking to sara and ram choosing her, priya's anger evaporated. She realised she has nothing to fear from her husband.

And where vedika is concerned, priya never really felt threatened by her.

@Bold: This exactly is my point, Pri has reasons to believe Ram, especially w.r.t V as she has been witnessing how his behaviour is evolving from the first dinner at Shasi-V to V’s stay at KM, but we are not privy to her thought process, she going from comparing him to MS based on those laptop messages at one moment to melting in his arms in the next moment, we need to know how she arrived at where she is.

Dare I hope we get to see some of her reasoning in her talk with Sara?

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Absolutely! ❤️

And also sometimes some relations do not need constant reassurance with each other. The trust grows organically, with the behaviour of that person in general with others.

See if you remember in the auto scene when Priya was going to KUs from bakery she says to herself - mr.kapoor is a good man, he has always been good with others then why would he do something terrible with me?

She had already come to a conclusion that it was all a mistake only and nothing more. When she saw vedika she was angry but all that disappeared when Ram chose to go after her and not stick with vedika.

And this has been happening since the beginning, he always decides to either go after Priya or stay behind for Priya. He has been constantly doing this. And as Priya said she never forgets anything.

The problem is in the screenplay. If they have shown the FBs correctly in that auto monologue all this confusion would not have been created.

The fact is priya was never angry at Ram for hiding but herself. And after talking to sara and ram choosing her, priya's anger evaporated. She realised she has nothing to fear from her husband.

And where vedika is concerned, priya never really felt threatened by her.

I wish there are few more P V scenes... The way P sees through her drama and shows her her right place is amazing ... Those dialogues were so well written...

Originally posted by: Real_Me

@Bold: This exactly is my point, Pri has reasons to believe Ram, especially w.r.t V as she has been witnessing how his behaviour is evolving from the first dinner at Shasi-V to V’s stay at KM, but we are not privy to her thought process, she going from comparing him to MS based on those laptop messages at one moment to melting in his arms in the next moment, we need to know she arrived at where she is.

Dare I hope we get to see some of her reasoning in her talk with Sara?

@Bold: Gosh! How far we have come in couple of days, from wanting Pri to tell Ram about those messages & Ram to clarify his stance on ‘still loving ex, hence no love’ to this now 🙇🏽‍♀️

Originally posted by: vaidharbhi95

I don't think even the fairy tale audience will mind a civil decent conversation . We have all patiently waited for more than150 episodes for the actual romance to start..

One episode of a good conversation is not too much to ask for and won't affect the TRPs too .

Ram and Priya are 2 completely different individuals..

Ram has the ability to truly let go of unpleasant situations without holding grudges . Because his priorities r different . He would rather accept people in spite of everything they do to him rather than letting them go..

Priya is made of different stuff. She went by her gut feeling and chose to trust Ram when she found out that he was lying about being in the office . She had the chance to seek answers from him, instead she went by her gut feeling and chose to trust him , did that help her ??

No, next time she found the private messages, she added this previous lie to it , and ended up feeling hurt. She brought back that issue in spite of settling it with Ram that day, by testing him in the interview.

Once again she goes by her instinct , is satisfied by all his actions , him taking care of her , dragging her away from all the noise, his answers during the interview , but still doesn't tell him about the messages.

She herself convicted him , herself tested him , and herself gave the judgement ..

Did this non-confrontational attitude and trust on him without a bi-directional communication help her ??

No, finally when the ex-matter is revealed , both the issues she let go, once again hit her back, and she ends up blaming Ram of living dohri zindagi, fareb, dhokebaazi , you r like MS and all that..

So now is the time for bi-directional communication , if once again she let's it go , blindly believes his actions , tomorrow another misunderstanding crops up, then what ?? Back to her same insecurities?? How long will this loop run??

As Priya says, " Mere jo dil ka dimaak hai na, bohot tez hai , sab dhokke sab fareb yaad rakhta hai".

Priya cannot let go of things completely without holding grudges , that is why it is important for her to communicate with Ram.

If you see the precap, she is still insecure and afraid to fall in love..

What is she afraid of now? Is it destiny , that she is afraid of now , that it'll snatch Ram from her ??

If that is the case , fine..

But if she is still has even an iota of doubt about Ram's character , or about the fact that Ram may himself reject her and leave her one day like the other men in her life ,then this blind trust on him makes no sense to me..

I really want a proper monologue , to understand where exactly does she stand in life in terms of her past baggage , in terms of her inferiority complexes, her insecurities in this marriage ..

Had she shared these apprehensions with Ram , had a proper conversation , she would have been much more confident today. It is high time that Priya includes Ram in her inner circle, shares her feelings, her doubts , her insecurities with him instead of testing him in her head, a test that Ram is not even aware of .

Him buying the auto, running behind her , the kiss ,all of this is nice goody goody , but not enough for the level of insecurities and trust issues Priya suffers from.

I don't say , Ram' actions don't count , don't believe them !!

Believe them , bask in this new found happiness, enjoy it , but still go ahead and ask questions and for once face all your inner demons .

The reason I say this is, next time an issue crops up, Priya should not sit and regret that she did not seek for answers.. Audience will not have the patience to see her going back to square one of her insecurities. She has all the time in the world right now, to go ahead and talk, there is no urgency , no one is holding her at gun point , even Ram said " I owe you all the answers" , so the ball is in Priya's court, if she has chosen to trust him, without explanation, she should not blame him the next time . For me the onus is on Priya now, if she asks, Ram will have to answer . Upto her..

I know that the cvs are not letting this story move forward in a way we all had expected.

There are only two things we can do as an audience at this point either reminisce about the expectations that were not met by the cvs for this show or change your expectations and move forward.

I have made my peace with the first one and accepted the latter option.

I'm no one to judge anyone, what worries are being put up by you are valid.

I'm just not going to waste my energy on a show whose decisions are not in my hand.

I saw what they show, react to it and move on. For me it's only entertainment and i have long ago decided to never ever take any fictional show too personally bcz it's not reality at the end of every day.

They use a lot of cinametic liberties for their convenience.

Originally posted by: RitikaS99

Are that Bakery conversation was where she realised ram is not lying, cheating or hiding anything as her sister already knew everything.

That means all this was not to keep her in the dark just so that she doesn't get uncomfortable.

It's that that her monologue and FBs didn't reflect this all.

But her main issue/fear is not that Ram kept her in the dark. It is - what are his current felings for V, what is V’s position in his life going forward. Whether he wants to get back with V now or will he ever leave her for Vedika in future.

This dual concern can only be answered by I dont love Vedika + I love you

Originally posted by: Real_Me

@Bold: This exactly is my point, Pri has reasons to believe Ram, especially w.r.t V as she has been witnessing how his behaviour is evolving from the first dinner at Shasi-V to V’s stay at KM, but we are not privy to her thought process, she going from comparing him to MS based on those laptop messages at one moment to melting in his arms in the next moment, we need to know she arrived at where she is.

Dare I hope we get to see some of her reasoning in her talk with Sara?

See that is my problem too.

It was so flat that more than half the Audience don't want to accept their reasonings.

And that's why i had decided to write a version of this from my pov.