I am a newbie to BALH forum, but just tempted to reply to this post...
Priya has actually done what Ram is just contemplating/giving dhamki about. She actually lied to the whole world about it for 1500 days. Ram has just mentioned he want to do it..a few days back and people are saying he is wrong ?
I for one don't think Ram will take his dhamki to closure..its his bura naseeb that he is out to take revenge against the same people he loves the most, so it is hurting him equally or will hurt him equally to see his own daughter separated from his mother, so I don't think he will implement it ..as in even if he wins the case, he wouldn't put that into practice...he isn't so full of hatred that he will cause grief to his own daughter/priya.
It is ironical that his family is not understanding his pain and making him a villain. Everyone is saying if he really loves Priya, why is he hurting her, honestly I think, it is only because he loves her so much he is hurting her. He is hurt within, and that is what is showing without.
If Ayesha/Nutts or who ever in his family betrayed him would have caused him so much grief..i don't think so. The more you do for some one, the more you expect and the more it hurts if they hurt you.
Each to his own views finally..