Humiliation.. Is it necessary?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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First things first!!! Hats off to RK for pulling off the RB mode and roar back like a tiger... It shook P and all of us infact so much that we are still reeling from the after effects...Not to forget ST who stood up against the storm that broke all boundaries and flinched and emoted as if it was happening in real life and not in the reel life...
But comming to the main point.. humiliation... Did Priya really deserve that?? Anger yes, disappointment yes, verbal slaps yes.. Raging hubby yes... But all said and done, She did come to him.. Waited till he got back to his feet, wanted to apologise for all that she had done.. Got to know that her own sister was her souten.. Mother literally accusing her of having feelings for someone else.. Dad had turning his back to her... No friends she could call her own.. Standing all alone and having immense faith in her husband that he will make everything better..standing up against her sister and telling her that she will abide by whatever R tells her and till then she will not leave.. trusting that her hubby might have married her sister due to some very valid reason, Not minding the fact that the bloke did not even mourn her passing away for even a year before he got himself another wife..
She could have run off again with her daughter leaving R to think that he was or had been hallucinating.. Took guts to stand up in front of the family and whole heartedly accepting her mistakes, begging forgiveness again and again, which was not even reciprocated by anyone... all this and the poor lady had to be given a lesson in humiliation by none other than a man who claimed to love her and lived only for her.. Was it really needed?? He could have just left her in the room and gone home with the rest of the family... When one realizes that they are all alone and no one to support them,the pain is tenfolds... Whatever she did may have been wrong in some people's view and right in some one else's ..But I draw a line at humiliation... It was wrong.. He could have humiliated her due to his anger, but could also have done it in private.. Could have rubbed it on her saying that his wife is A and not P any longer.. You don't talk about right and wrong to someone else when you are doing the wrong thing.. After reading all the posts and arguments and takes, all I can see is the fact none thought it was wrong.. Pity that women are women's worst enemies...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Though I dont watch BALH much after the leap had happened, I agree with what you say...it indeed takes a lot to accept one's own mistakes...and the only healing factor is time and nothing else...am not justifying any one's action...neither P or R...both of them had their own reasons...but as you said it could have been a private affair...I hope the child is not affected in their personal problem...as she is so used to being with her mother till she met her father...but hats off to RK the actor...his anguish was evident in every frame...I also hope P fights back all the insults hurled at her...with Rajat by her side and Kady for emotional support..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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He said everything to her in private no one was der in da room but after cmg out he said as his wife i feel its just to make her jealous n now priya vil play this jealousy game with the help of rajat in this process they vil realise der mistakes.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i couldn't sleep properly after yesterday's episode...i felt ,like priya should go on with rajat to dubai and have her own life... she called him so many times yaaar to tell him that she is pregnant ,,,,but golu did not life the call at all...he did not even mourn her death...just that he kept her alive in mind and heart...

none of them except very very few were happy seeing her...nuts,vikram and neha...rest of them all behaved like what the hell why is she here...she was better thought dead... they seem to love only the dead priya... suddenly the track changed like...priya is guilty...i know what ram said yesterday was out of sheer love inside...but i did not like the episode...though the future track could be intresting ...from hate to love again...
if from 5 years shadi hi nahi rahi tho beti bala kyu aapki hui???? i got this thought wen ram said no shaadi since 5 yrs...

priya even called his father he thought some wrong call... and shame on that watchman who did not see priya coming to Kmansion on the night of her shoksabha...see priya has so many points to blast them now...
rajat will come to priya's rescue...i wish they really battle it out in court for the custody and priya should retain it...
showing priya completely guilty of what all happened didn't go well...atleast ram was not alone he had a second dummy wife...and complete family with him all 5 yrs...wat abt priya poor lady she ran here n there to collect money to pay her book shop rent...to raise that peehu...

so many thoghts..so much anxiety...feeling like debate it with ram...😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: indira19

i couldn't sleep properly after yesterday's episode...i felt ,like priya should go on with rajat to dubai and have her own life... she called him so many times yaaar to tell him that she is pregnant ,,,,but golu did not life the call at all...he did not even mourn her death...just that he kept her alive in mind and heart...


none of them except very very few were happy seeing her...nuts,vikram and neha...rest of them all behaved like what the hell why is she here...she was better thought dead... they seem to love only the dead priya... suddenly the track changed like...priya is guilty...i know what ram said yesterday was out of sheer love inside...but i did not like the episode...though the future track could be intresting ...from hate to love again...
if from 5 years shadi hi nahi rahi tho beti bala kyu aapki hui???? i got this thought wen ram said no shaadi since 5 yrs...

priya even called his father he thought some wrong call... and shame on that watchman who did not see priya coming to Kmansion on the night of her shoksabha...see priya has so many points to blast them now...
rajat will come to priya's rescue...i wish they really battle it out in court for the custody and priya should retain it...
showing priya completely guilty of what all happened didn't go well...atleast ram was not alone he had a second dummy wife...and complete family with him all 5 yrs...wat abt priya poor lady she ran here n there to collect money to pay her book shop rent...to raise that peehu...

so many thoghts..so much anxiety...feeling like debate it with ram...😊


I agree with you completely... Showing Priya guilty completely didnt go well with me... I felt damn bad...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: indira19

i couldn't sleep properly after yesterday's episode...i felt ,like priya should go on with rajat to dubai and have her own life... are you kidding?? have you watched balh form the start??? she called him so many times yaaar to tell him that she is pregnant ,,3 times beta three times, after that she had five years!! net tha search karsakti thi apne case k baray mei kuch tou effort karti!! ,,but golu did not life the call at all..lan line ka ik masla tou yeh saza!! .he did not even mourn her death...just that he kept her alive in mind and heart... have you skipped the part when ram is sitting in the room without eating drinking and all messed up in room vik dsnt talk to him neha does and tries to makle him leve he says chordu muje iss tarah surronded him by her memories is that not mourning?? phele he was in shock babe!! how can you even make a statement like this??in this entire spe the most hurt the most disadb has been ram!!


none of them except very very few were happy seeing her...nuts,vikram and neha...rest of them all behaved like what the hell why is she here...she was better thought dead... they seem to love only the dead priya... : they WERE IN SHOCK thier dead daughter came up , incredulaous, her dad is angry at her- ewhy coz she was close to two ppl ram nad sudhir n BOTH FEEL betrayed!! !! suddenly the track changed like. ..priya is guilty.. u seriuously missed the epi which all the forum loved which was even said to be priyas redemption whenshe relasied that maybe she was wrong in all those fgive years the track hasnt changed she didi a foolsih thing with good intentions but she is rightly felenig guilty!! .i know what ram said yesterday was out of sheer love inside...but i did not like the episode...though the future track could be intresting ...from hate to love again...i loved the epi i want priya to iunderstand the rlaity the consequinces of her actions how can she make descions on her own which effect ram too, u ddnt see the dream? it was all the lost moments that ram lost made him so angry!! 😡
if from 5 years shadi hi nahi rahi tho beti bala kyu aapki hui???? i got this thought wen ram said no shaadi since 5 yrs... get real!! agar shadi nhn rahi kyune prya tou margai na and when she can allow him to move ahead , then kaisi shadi? jab betrayl johhot lies distrust ha tou kia shadi tundertsand metaphors!! 🤢

priya even called his father he thought some wrong call... watch again the epi she calleed but in dring hidden by pihu she has cut the call and was speaking on the silent phone!!!and shame on that watchman who did not see priya coming to Kmansion on the night of her shoksabha...see priya has so many points to blast them now... kia points? kisis nay bola tha k jao yaa se she went of her own accord!!!
rajat will come to priya's rescue...i wish they really battle it out in court for the custody and priya should retain it...he is not the hero!! priya agar thri se b aqwAL HA TOU will not battle it out custody!! priya lied kept away a daughter from ram, she cheated the law- ran away as a felon, do u thnk she will win custody case??
showing priya completely guilty of what all happened didn't go well... went very well!! this was i wanted to see!!wwaiting to see!! k priya ku samj aye k sochne mei and asal me hunay mei kitna diff ha!! jab motive hi yehi tha to move ahead then move ahead!! atleast ram was not alone he had a second dummy wife.. no relation in them lived in other room, lived only for her meory, dnt u listen to his dialiouges? with rajat in dubai sab hain bhi tou kia faida aisa jha jaisay koi nhn ha!! he hasd everyone but he was suffering five years with a gulit of having let down priya not giving her the akhri wish to- mujhe kisi ku zingi deni ha, every day he fought with gulit!!.and complete family with him all 5 yrs...wat abt priya poor lady she ran here n there to collect money to pay her book shop rent...to raise that peehu... - who asked her to do ?she did of her own accord! thats the diff ram was livnig a life he had no hand in priya chose her nbnew life!! big diff

so many thoghts..so much anxiety...feeling like debate it with ram...😊
i just dnt get how a single scene can just overwite all the five years of rmasn misery? am so tired of anti ram posts!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: janardana


First things first!!! Hats off to RK for pulling off the RB mode and roar back like a tiger...👏👏👏 It shook P and all of us infact so much that we are still reeling from the after effects..😃.Not to forget ST who stood up against the storm that broke all boundaries and flinched and emoted as if it was happening in real life and not in the reel life... 👏👏👏
ilove these two, they make me cry seetyh in anger, raise my bp play havoc with my heart!!
But comming to the main point.. humiliation... Did Priya really deserve that?? YES!! Anger yes, disappointment yes, verbal slaps yes.. Raging hubby yes... But all said and done, She did come to him.. Waited till he got back to his feet, wanted to apologise for all that she had done..- by chance tha, she was ready to leave when rajat stopped her, she wouldnt even have met him if wedding carash nhn hoti so now inagine his betrayl, ik taraf banda pahggal hrha ha keepnig her alive and pata chala that banda is hale and hearty and is even gong away?? Got to know that her own sister was her souten.. Mother literally accusing her of having feelings for someone else.. Dad had turning his back to her... - he ddnt tunr her back he is Dissapointed like ram, two men she trusted she loved and they loved her them ost who live now in seclusion only with her meores both feel anger betrayed at having to undergo the five most teriiable years of life!! No friends she could call her own..rajat cady daija Standing all alone and having immense faith in her husband that he will make everything better..standing up against her sister and telling her that she will abide by whatever R tells her and till then she will not leave.. trusting that her hubby might have married her sister due to some very valid reason, Not minding the fact that the bloke did not even mourn her passing away for even a year before he got himself another wife..
She could have run off again with her daughter leaving R to think that he was or had been hallucinating.. was donmg excalty that!! Took guts to stand up in front of the family and whole heartedly accepting her mistakes, begging forgiveness again and again, which was not even reciprocated by anyone... all this and the poor lady had to be given a lesson in humiliation by none other than a man who claimed to love her and lived only for her.. Was it really needed??
yes yes it was needed!! she is so matter of fact when it comes to raya!! i will sign the div ppr once u hear me out, i will leave if u listen, i did a mistake!! really is that enough!! the fact that this is what she thniks of his love that moving ahead was good for him rightly brouhgt a sneer on his face!! huh is that all she knws her ram! well she wants him to moive ahead ok fine i will show her how it fels when u see ur spouse moving ahead!! it was rightly needed for her, this was the jhaka she needed!! har qat ayesaha ki khushi kayesha ki zaindgi !! kabhi ram ki nhn?? ab karo suffer!! and ab pihu ku detay huay khayal arha ha k survive kaisay karogiu? will she igve him back them moments ram and pihu missed??
He could have just left her in the room and gone home with the rest of the family... When one realizes that they are all alone and no one to support them,the pain is tenfolds... Whatever she did may have been wrong in some people's view and right in some one else's ..But I draw a line at humiliation... It was wrong.. He could have humiliated her due to his anger, but could also have done it in private.. Could have rubbed it on her saying that his wife is A and not P any longer.. You don't talk about right and wrong to someone else when you are doing the wrong thing.. After reading all the posts and arguments and takes, all I can see is the fact none thought it was wrong.. Pity that women are women's worst enemies...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ram' action was justified, His calling A as his waife was jut to rub Priya, I think knowing him so well she will understand. The immediat reaction is anger and furry which was so natural. He will realise all pain which she underwent thse 5 years, being a single mother and will start feeling for her, that can be ther naye shhuwat. Eagerly waiting for the future episodes, let them fight, shout at each other or any other drama CVs come up with, we want RaYa to be in the same frame. Still could relax myself afer yesterday, just feeling sorry for Priya, ST imoted it so well have no words for her. Even surprised by the reactin of the family members, excepting Nuts, Neha n Vikram it seems no one else had forgiven her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Each one has their own opinions.. I can argue saying that even if P did let R know that she was alive and went back to jail, was it right for her to have a baby in such conditions?? Assuming she had the baby in jail and handed over the baby to R, she would have also been in the same scenario of not seeing her baby grow in front of her eyes.. And I would absolutely disagree to the fact that this was an anti Ram post!! All I asked was "is it necessary to humiliate P???".. I have not written anything that says Anti Ram to me!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Chill !!!...i posted what i felt after seeing yesterday's episode... that was not at all anti-Ram post okay... if u feel he is right in his way i feel she was right too...in her way...
when a person most loved thought dead comes live...it also makes sense to show love followed by anger...
and i have been watching BALH since the first episode...she might have called him thrice...she even called on landline... well later why she didn't call.. ekta didn't show that... when she called he was talking abt earrings...that was a misunderstanding..nd how wud she feel...that i am dead and he is flirting ... even then she thought to try again but he did not lift any...she was all alone...she chose to suffer while ram was atleast happily dreaming abt priya and was with family...she did not leave him for happiness...she instead chose suffering and wanted ram to be happy..

btw i am a great fan of ram kapoor more that that of sakshi... but the episode was completely one sided yesterday... ram was happy for 5 years he MISSED priya ...but happy tha...business expand kar raha tha...maa hain behen hain...aur kya nahi tha...and priya AKELI EK AJNABI SHAHAR MEIN BEGGING FOR JOB TO SURVIVE HER DAUGHTER.. and priya did think she cannot see ram suffer while she was in jail...(in her jail episodes ram was behaving like he will leave everything now) ...and what law...she was framed in the wrong case ...if ram ke liye jail jaana is love...ram should be happy isliye dubai jaana was also love...

just that ram will get to know and even priya will follow up ...knowing and understanding on the way...

wen i said she should go with rajat to dubai..i meant not to marry hiim...i meant she should have gone back and live her life...

all these feelings were a result of just yesterday's priya bashing..and nothing to do with the whole story okay...so relax... in my opinion the episode was one sided

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