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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: janardana



Each one has their own opinions.. I can argue saying that even if P did let R know that she was alive and went back to jail, was it right for her to have a baby in such conditions?? Assuming she had the baby in jail and handed over the baby to R, she would have also been in the same scenario of not seeing her baby grow in front of her eyes.. And I would absolutely disagree to the fact that this was an anti Ram post!! All I asked was "is it necessary to humiliate P???".. I have not written anything that says Anti Ram to me!!
this anti ram was to the post that u quoted not to the thread! thread wali post pe i did comment!! , this particular post striked me ans anti ram coz it just painted everything against ram so i called it an anti rma post coz with ref to the post , not UR thread!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Chill !!!...i posted what i felt after seeing yesterday's episode... that was not at all anti-Ram post okay... if u feel he is right in his way i feel she was right too...in her way...
when a person most loved thought dead comes live...it also makes sense to show love followed by anger... why not the reverse? sudhir loves her the most he is angry!! 😃
and i have been watching BALH since the first episode...she might have called him thrice...she even called on landline... well later why she didn't call.. ekta didn't show that... when she called he was talking abt earrings...that was a misunderstanding..nd how wud she feel...that i am dead and he is flirting ... even then she thought to try again but he did not lift any...exaclty ,i did mention in this or antoher post that the reason of sep is the most illogical and weak track!! and i agree that it was all shown weird, but my point was and is : why will prioya not be guilty? she is rightly shown as guilty!! ik galti karke sorry bolke sab theek thir hujata ha??she was all alone...she chose to suffer while ram was atleast happily dreaming abt priya and was with family...she did not leave him for happiness...she instead chose suffering and wanted ram to be happy..- waha tak i was happy - atleast ok with the sep - k post leap it was reqd, and to story to move forwd, but then later it just dsnt add, and makes her case weaker in my opiion, simpy see na cady ghumti na woh ati, na wedding crash hoti na kuch hota, ram ki zingi mei jo bhi hu, woh priya ki decsion se hu, he and pihu suiffered coz of priya decsion- good intentions but worng!! ayesha k after her logic irritated me!! - all that cant do this to aysha!! this crap makes me angry!! i can accept her not reachig her, and everytihng but not her saying k mei ayesha nadk hush k saath aisa nhn karsakti ha, kuch pihu and ram ka nhn socti?? that is why i feel that it is good that abhi uske jhtka mle that she just assumeed that she will feel happy in ayeshas happiness and she cant let ram ove on without her!! yeh lesson bht zaruri ha, she has always kept ram after ayesha!!

btw i am a great fan of ram kapoor more that that of sakshi... but the episode was completely one sided yesterday... ram was happy for 5 years he MISSED priya ...but happy tha...business expand kar raha tha...maa hain behen hain...aur kya nahi tha. nhn yar, yaha mei differ karti hu: woh dubai restau ka conv yaad ha? rajat was saying k i knw tyum buss kyu expand karehu kyunke tumku ghar nhn rehna fillng ur life trying ot overome ur emptiness, and famil ka he saiud abbkisis se kuch fark nhn hota, he ddnt care for anyone hjust did his duties..and priya AKELI EK AJNABI SHAHAR MEIN BEGGING FOR JOB TO SURVIVE HER DAUGHTER.. han i agree v tuff times ofr priya- but see when u face tuff times from ur own decsion ur a better prepared to face them , when ur life faces tought situations as a result of other decsiuons then u cant!! that is the diff in ram ans priya!!and priya survived coz she has a memory of ram livng in fornt, she shared all joys with pihuand priya did think she cannot see ram suffer while she was in jail...(in her jail episodes ram was behaving like he will leave everything now) ...and what law...she was framed in the wrong case ...if ram ke liye jail jaana is love...ram should be happy isliye dubai jaana was also love... he will do so , once he gets over the fact that she kept his daughter away and knownigly livng away and more than that she really doesnt want him to move ofwd!! right now he is angry that how can she decide alone what is better ofr him for thme? there is no them for her

just that ram will get to know and even priya will follow up ...knowing and understanding on the way...

wen i said she should go with rajat to dubai..i meant not to marry hiim...i meant she should have gone back and live her life...but she should get the fact that all the words she says can really happen- she was prepared to give pihu to ram and og away, will she able to do that? and why leave her dad now ? and go to dubai? dubai mei kia hai?

all these feelings were a result of just yesterday's priya bashing..and nothing to do with the whole story okay...so relax... in my opinion the episode was one sided - rams dream spoke of all the hurtand the hurt came out and there will be more of such incidences!! liken my point remians the same pihu and ram were the most hurt and sufferend the most!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Here v go again--- the arguements for & against hav begun.HA--
I think v should let the story unfold before v start getting upset. I feel this track is going 2 b wonderful. Ram is only hurt, & he wants 2 hurt Priya also as he luvs her a lot , but he will soon melt----
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I absolutely agree with ur post Arey nobody was there to even hug her and try to feel her emotions when she was crying bitterly Only nuts, vikram and neha are really happy seeing priya back Nobody was even ready to try and understand what would have she went thru during those 5 yrs And the lady who is Ram's mom for whom Priya turned the whole world upside down to get her back to her son does not bothered to have a word with priya such a hopeless character As for priya's dad he is very ready to get angry on her but he cannot see what his wife and his second daughter are doing and give a tight slap to his wife and make her stay back in his house.
What to say I pity priya and I want Neha to sit and talk to her in the right way so that she could cry out her emotions to her Nobody is there for her to console her and really we sometimes need energy to think what next in life and undoubtedly friends are the only source of it and neha shld be that friend
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You are bang on Leo4ever, this is not about all others, but the people who loved her most, i.e. Ram and her father! They feel rage today, because however much Priya thought her reasons were valid, just to know she was alive meant the most to them. Just imagine with grief in your heart of losing a dear one, you have got face another day, people, day in and day out, you are dying every single moment just so that you keep the people who love you happy, but the grief inside does not go, knowing you will never see her again. He had people whom he loved with him, but inspite of that he lived a lonely life. I am sure one knows how it is to be in a crowd and still feel lonesome. Live that few moments that Ram lived in the hospital, where he was dreaming about Priya and Pihu, how he felt left out of every joyous moment, every such moment that it happened I know for myself how much Priya was denying Ram. The fact being that Ram got closer to Pihu even without knowing their relationship, the attachment, his uneasiness when pihu was ill, and to know after all that she was rightfully his. I felt Ram was absolutely right when he stopped her from explaining whatever her reasons could be and demanded for the custody of Pihu. Awesome! cos she would still after all act the benevolent wife and give up Ram in charity to Ayesha, just to show how much her sister means to her. This is BS. Now with what happened in yday's episode will make her fight, and live the lonely life he lived and will know how important it is to have Ram and Pihu and give them what is rightfully theirs.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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we cant blame anyone for being angry with priya.what she did to her family is not at all justified.
she left for Dubai,she could ve at least call ram & say she is there,without anyone s knowledge.he would ve done it happily.
the times she tried to reach him when she came to know she is pregnant,that really should nt be an excuse from her part.could nt call or ctc a person at this age,what a foolish excuse.
anyway there is no point in our viewer s opinions & discussions,we ll see what is there in ekta maa s head.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#17
For someone who went to jail for him, didnt ram think of what would have been the alternative to priya going away ?- no fb bout how priya would have lived in a jail with her daughter growing up motherless especially in the years when a child neds amother more than a father ???...he can only think what wrong she did to him, not a moments thought about what were the alternatives ...
she could have and did try sometimes getting in touch - but when u are an outlaw running away from jail - would u rather have the person u love become an accomplice and be implicated in it all ...or have him move forward !...and if what she did was wrong, what he did hit below the belt - to get his revenge he went off with the sister who brought this upon thm for god's sake ...who never gave him a moments thought etc...and if it was just to pay her back , then he's also ruthlessly using ayesha...and in coming days if ayesha strts winning, u can bet people will strt giving up if the story is stretched in the same way as other k serials...people watched it because they thought it was different !
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: PKBAAA

Here v go again--- the arguements for & against hav begun.HA--
I think v should let the story unfold before v start getting upset. I feel this track is going 2 b wonderful. Ram is only hurt, & he wants 2 hurt Priya also as he luvs her a lot , but he will soon melt----

yes thats the difference between ram and priya...again and again ram has mistrusted her in the past but she forgave him...this time also while she is to be blamed partly for not letting him know, she did it all for him - and for her child ...so her love remains far more selfless...but ram is now just thinking about what he missed and his hurt, he hasnt come around to give a thought to priya yet...and though i think priya shd have tried more to let ram know ( though given the jail bit i feel she was right in running aaway from a crime she did not commit for the child's sake), once she was back and saw ram after that she did all the right things in terms of sticking on depite all the odds and standing up to everyone , just to be let down in this way...
Edited by sarandha - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarandha

yes thats the difference between ram and priya...again and again ram has mistrusted her in the past but she forgave him...this time also while she is to be blamed partly for not letting him know, she did it all for him - and for her child ...so her love remains far more selfless...but ram is now just thinking about what he missed and his hurt, he hasnt come around to give a thought to priya yet...and though i think priya shd have tried more to let ram know ( though given the jail bit i feel she was right in running aaway from a crime she did not commit for the child's sake), once she was back and saw ram after that she did all the right things in terms of sticking on depite all the odds and standing up to everyone , just to be let down in this way...

i hav a point here priya has not cum to meet ram she came for cady if cady doesnt run away from dubai she will be in dubai always n pihu will be always with her..now wont it be unfair on priya's part dat she wud neva give ram his part of happiness in fatherhood.atleast once she didnt try to find the reason behibd rash she feels ram has moved on n hav a son now wer is the trust or atleast understanding
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Posted: 13 years ago
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She was ready to run away again for the lack of courage to face Ram n family and also that he got ill bcos of her. Rajat stopped her in time. Thanks to him. Only then did she change her mind. Ofcourse Ayesha helped a lot by going below the belt.
She still thinks and believes its due to destiny that they met. Says, she has no intention of meeting him. If Ram hears this from her mouth,then what will he do.RB mode doubles in magnitude.
Priya needs this to get into her elements. Ram was inderectly asking her to assert. Thats why one month's time. We really need to decode the raging bull. If not for his anger, will she ever realize what he went through? NOPE. She still thinks he happily moved on.
Humiliation as in walking with Ayesha? He wants to rub on the insult she caused to his love by thinking he moved on that too with Ayesha(of all the ppl). He wants to show what it looks like if her presumptions look real.
PK didnt know Ram's hurt. Thats the truth. He was showing her that. She was feeling guilty, was honest enough to accept her mistakes,courageous enough to say so to him. We all love her honesty. She needs to know what her name means to him and not self-deprecate herself. She means the world to him.

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