A new FF - What does Ram really think? update pg14 - Page 6

thanks and will most certainly do...

you know me... my fascination for the big man is BIIIG. and thank you

continue soon

hi punya,

thank you very much... am really happy that my friends like what I write... and for me the first 75-80 episodes of the show really showcase the real ram kapoor... that is the character for who the show was created - at least in my belief... after that the cv's started focusing on making him more golu than the Ram Kapoor... and the first 50 episodes are my all time favorite... both the actor and the character charmed the hell out of me...

June 13^th

This has to be the weirdest day in my life so far... Maa wants me to go and talk to that karthik's family and finalize Natasha's marriage... even after I tried to tell her that they were gold diggers... she said that once we gave them what they wanted, they wouldn't run after my money any more... How can maa be so blase about something as important as Natasha's married life... Is there more to this than I can see... What is really happening in her life and why is Maa so desperate to get her married..

I went there only because I could not deny maa and Natasha anything... and what did I find? The most exasperating woman in all of mankind... Oh my god!!! Kitna bolti hai aur zara bhi kadar nahi thi use ki wo Ram Kapoor se bath kar rahi thi' She treated me ...me.. like I was just another man... How dare she?? She made me carry two bags of sabzi up 3 flights of stairs... and poora samay taane dethi hi rahi... the names she called me... dinosaur, mota, selfish!!!!... no one has abused me the way she did in the half hour that I saw her!!!! And kya attitude hai uski.. Kitna chillathi hai ...baap re baap, is kism ki aurat se kaun jee payega... and she is Karthik's sister!!!! the same gold digging woman I spoke with regarding chothi.. Main kaaise accept karoo aise logo ko... jo public me chillate hai, har kissi ko tanna marthe hai.. kaise rishta rakhoo in logon ke saath...I don't think I have ever been as angry today ever in my whole life... god that woman brings out the worst in me... never have I shouted in public like I did today... she made me lose it totally... me...Ram Kapoor lost control' Waise who inder ko dekhne tak theek hi thi' use dekhkar itna react kyon kari woh mujhe ghar aake hi pata laga' Main bhi kitna ullu hoon' wo baat kar rahi thi gaadi ke bare mein aur main sochtha raha ki wo Natasha ke bare mein bol rahi thi... Itna gussa aaya ki if I had not left when I did, I might have shaken her to bits... and in front of all her neighbours... It looks like she too realized the misunderstanding and she called but god!!!!! The woman can t apologize... kitna ghamand hai use-- she wants to be right always!!!! aisa hota haii kya... She wanted me to say sorry ... for what?? Why should I? Anywise, I got her to accept to meet me tomorrow so that I can talk about Natasha's marriage to her brother...

Lekin ab mujhe yeh baat samaj nahi aa rahi hai ki yeh kaisa coincidence hai...accident hona -- babuji ki barsi miss karna ... un logon ko police station ka chakkar katvana ... aur unke ghar me Natasha ki baat karne ki pahoonchna... Why is all this happening? Hum sab log Mumbai mein itne saalon se reh rahe hai... itne din ek bar bhi nahi mile ya dekhe ek doosre ko aur ab suddenly 3 dino me itna sab kuch hamare beech mein??? Mujhe toh kuch ajeeb sa lag raha hai... Kya hone wala hai humare families ke beech mein?

June 15^th

Met with Priya Sharma ... she is most certainly very different from the women I know'very independent, opinionated ' she has something to say about everything ' baap re baap, and tanne marne ki ek mauka bhi nahi chodthi' aur she is not really bothered about many things ' wo bindi ko plate mein chipak di' ugh' mujhe toh bahut hi chinta ho rahi hai' choti us ghar mein ???

June 16^th

Today is truly a momentous day in my life... I went to the Sharma house thinking that I have to make a business deal with greedy people... and there I met a set of people who surprised me... Main toh itne negativity ke saath gaya tha us ghar mein aur wahan maine dekha ki us family ko relationships important hai paise nahin... Woh log to rishton ka kadar karna jaanthe hai aur ek doosre ka pyar jo hai un mein ...woh dikhava nahi hai --- sach hai!!! I saw in Karthik the perfect mate for my Chothi... Maine toh kitne apprehensions ke saath un logon se milne gaya... aur Karthik to fantastic nikla!!!! he is truly in love with my little sister... he does not see her as a commodity ... she is a person and I can clearly make out that he loves her a lot.

Jab Karthik ne kaha ki he is not in a position to marry my sister until his sister is married and settled...I was shocked...Here is a 25-26 year old who is very aware of his responsibility ... mujhe toh bahut accha laga ki he has his head fit tightly onto his shoulders... was amazed at the composure that he and his sister showed ... I am sure that Priya did not expect to hear what Karthik said and that is what really impressed me ... Mujhe toh yakeen hai joh aadmi apne behen ko itna kadar aur pyaar kartha hai wo meri chothi ka total khyal rakhega.. zindagi mein pehli baar maine dekha ki bhai -- behen aise bhi hote hai!!! Karthik ka family bhi theek hai... sudhir ji seems to be very level headed and calm' Karthik ki maa ... kuch loud and brassy hai but kuch kart toh nahi sakthe hai-- the two sisters are very different ... Priya seems to be the centre point of the family ... Every body looks to her for guidance and she does it so effortlessly ---and she can apparently cook well too ... She is truly very different from the other women in the room... and Ayesha seems to be a lot like Ishika ... pretty and self centered'

Lekin yahi responsible nature of Karthik's is giving me trouble now... Natasha wants to get married NOW and is not prepared to wait... I now have to find a groom for Priya now or Natasha is going to again do something very stupid...Uff yeh kaisi musibat hai !!!!

Thanks Punya... it is really great to write about those episodes.. absolutely love Ram Kapoor as the dashing suave business man... total droolathon...am enjoying it immensely