Originally posted by: Dee-Dee
Till date they haven’t shown anything that reflects ‘bad’ in Aadya’s behavior, she was insecure as a child 5 yrs back because her mother never ever had time for her, never prioritised her.
Now she is in a state of trauma and hates her Mom because instead of talking to her and sorting out her insecurities the woman abandoned them and left them, and let’s not forget she has spent initial years of her life in an Orphanage with no one to look after her but herself.
After leap, haven’t seen her demanding anything unreasonable and Anuj fulfilling her demands, he spoke to her about her social media addiction which is so common in every child even adults these days, let’s say Pakhi for example.
He spends time with her and plays games or takes her out. What else can he do as a male parent?
Honestly, I can tell you from personal experience, it’s not easy to share things with your father like you do with your mother and you have to think of his feelings as well, not remind him of things that will give him pain. I don’t share every detail with my father like I do with my aunt on a daily basis. In Aadhya’s case, her own mother died saving Anupamaa, she got Shruti and now sees a mother figure in her, what’s wrong in that? It doesn’t mean Anuj dumped his responsibilities on Shruti and is careless about her upbringing, Aadya and her well being is on his mind all the time.
He is always available for his daughter unlike Anupamaa who was actually available 24*7 for her biological kids still they turned out to be like this. Why he didn’t go for the race is an assumption, the school might not have invited parents, or maybe Aadya didn’t want him to come of anything? There was a reason school was live streaming the event right.
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