One more double standard

Conphused about Anupamaa's "prayktikal" speech. She tells Pakhi that it's good that Anupamaa and Anuj were not prayktikal when dealing with the men who harassed Pakhi. She's saying it's good they did not ignore the harassment and instead slapped and fought with the harassers.

But she's giving Anuj the silent treatment exactly because he did the same thing in Samar's case. He was not prayktikal, and now he's paying the price.

According to Aupamaa, Anuj was wrong because he was not prayktikal and Pakhi is wrong because she is prayktikal.

Poor Pakhi and Toshu, no wonder they are so conflicted now. The people who raised them have double standards all the time and expect everyone else to accept it silently. And whenever they question it they are met with a bhaashan about unrelated things.

But that has been brushed under the carpet.

According to what Maa has told MD she was never upset with Anuj to begin with, she was just playfully ignoring her husband and not seeing his messages, not taking his calls and asked him to leave from the funeral because Anuj reminded her of her son! Also she was silently watching when Mishter Shah were dragging Anuj thru his collar and accusing him of Samar’s murder.
Now she is getting back normal with him because he is fighting for her dead son, his name and power is helping her in the case, still not properly talking to him and giving him cold shoulder, still saying I can fight alone this is Maa ki ladayi while earlier she told him she will fight this battle with Samar ka Pita

Basically there is no explanation of Anupama’s Impactical Pactical approach, she never wants to talk about what went wrong and what led to circumstances, she always brushes the main issue under the carpet and gets back to normal as if nothing ever was wrong.

I personally hate this approach in a relationship, not talking about the actual issue and acting as if nothing ever went wrong and keep repeating the same behavior.

Also in this case Anupama doesn’t want to acknowledge that the bullet was meant for Anuj and Samar took it on him, Anuj saved an innocent girl from getting molested by Sonu, because only she can take a stand for the right and save people

She is a disgusting person, an irresponsible wife and mother, and preaching wrong values, plus she never practices what she preaches.

Anupamaa may be anpadh but she has a Bachelors in besharmi and a masters in Bhashanbaazi. Now she is all set to get a Doctorate in Doglapan/hypocrisy. Let's celebrate her achievements

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Anupamaa may be anpadh but she has a Bachelors in besharmi and a masters in Bhashanbaazi. Now she is all set to get a Doctorate in Doglapan/hypocrisy. Let's celebrate her achievements

And a born narcissist.

Oh there's more........

https://twitter.com/vibha510/status/1715438769602707874?t=7J75XXodMfgbZMmQzGTEvA&s=19

Flashback:

https://twitter.com/vibha510/status/1712423929812488400?t=hbVfFeLTi_p_2zqlX5JZOA&s=19

Ek aur ek aur:

Anupama comes from Shah House and overslept that she couldn't tend to Choti Anu next morning.

But you know what she made sure she studied the deal and made notes for Anuj for the meeting the following day despite returning log tired from Shah House!

Priorities, I tell you!

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Ek aur ek aur:

Anupama comes from Shah House and overslept that she couldn't tend to Choti Anu next morning.

But you know what she made sure she studied the deal and made notes for Anuj for the meeting the following day despite returning log tired from Shah House!

Priorities, I tell you!

Vanraj must have helped make notes

anupama who cannot understand english will read business files and make notes is far fetched

Evven MBAs without exp do not understand much of those fiiles

And Anuj was going to meeting without preparing anything so Maa makes the notes.

Anupama really thinks that she is contributing in business. Anuj can’t do anything without her.

Why can’t she accepts that she is unfit for business. She doesn’t have time for it. It’s just a timepass for her.

Why can’t she just say that I didn’t had the time for preparation. Why she have to pretend that she can do everything Or she care for Anuj and Kapadiya’s business.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

And Anuj was going to meeting without preparing anything so Maa makes the notes.

Anupama really thinks that she is contributing in business. Anuj can’t do anything without her.

Why can’t she accepts that she is unfit for business. She doesn’t have time for it. It’s just a timepass for her.

Why can’t she just say that I didn’t had the time for preparation. Why she have to pretend that she can do everything Or she care for Anuj and Kapadiya’s business.

That's not even the point.

She said she had a hectic day and was log tired when she returned.

She knew Choti Anu goes to school, what her school timings are, if she has tests or events in school. She is a 7 year old for Heaven's sake.

What would the priority of the woman (who is tired and knows of the schedule of her 7 year old) be in that case?

Making notes (by stretching one's imagination by leap) for the husband's business meeting (which he is far more capable or can get help at office or otherwise) or tending to the child who she has royally ignored from so many days?

This forces one to think she prioritised business notes over her adopted child, afterALL Shahs need to be fed🤷🏻‍♀️.

If by some chance, remote chance, Choti Anu were to become the legal, unquestioned, undisputed heir of Kapadia Empire, you will see the difference. Unless ofcpurse Leela and Anupama intend to go the "Chalbaaz" (movie) way!!

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Vanraj must have helped make notes

anupama who cannot understand english will read business files and make notes is far fetched

Evven MBAs without exp do not understand much of those fiiles

About Anupama's abilities. One has got to agree, she is damn smart.

She secured a whole family for a lifetime. She effectively made a business tycoon, emotionally incapable of reason.

Her business acumen, well. Not required, she has Anuj to run the business. She will eventually decide what happens to money they earn.

How else do you explain that Anuj employed Ankush and Adhik (who are educated and skilled) on lower ranks that too after an evaluation from a company staff but Pakhi, who is a dropout and had no prior experience got to be Marketing Head .

How else do you explain that Anuj (on Anupama's insistence) asked Barkha to give a detailed proposal (prejentashun to be reviewed by none other than Anupama herself) for a loan to start her business but Samar got an off-hand 10 lakhs on The losses of the Dence Ecedemy (which the Phinance Literacy expert couldnt find out), sponsored foreign programs for them, Paritosh got to use his name for Publicity, not to mention bearing everyone's penalties including Anupama's.