Originally posted by: poobaniparvati9
So we know Anuj's majburi is really stupid and a woman shouldn't wait for a man who wants to live with another woman for absurd reasons. But as per the show and Anupama herself it's a very valid reason and she still loves him so much blah blah. Then how can she just let him be without even trying to find a solution for this or help her husband and daughter who she apparently loves? We've seen that it's in Anupama's nature to help even strangers and absolutely ungrateful people whom she calls family, with the silliest of things, but in this case she says I feel bad for you I love you and totally accept your reason but gotta go on my udaan, bye? If they had shown her not accepting his reason and deciding to leave it would make sense but how does this make sense at all especially given how in the past she has prioritised Shahs and strangers over everything, even when they didn't give her an ounce of respect or love compared to what Anuj and Choti gave her?
And also I haven't watched the past few episodes because I get too frustrated with the pathetic storyline but did they address CA's trauma at all? The poor kid was so much better off in an orphanage! Ever since she was fostered by Maan, she's been through utter toxicity, discrimination and neglect. First they don't address the fact that she thought she's the reason for her parents fighting. No one even corrected her. And now she found Maaya lying in a pool of blood, her own hands were full of blood etc, she witnessed that whole disturbing scene and Anupama wasn't heartbroken or shocked by what she went through? Imagine if one of her bio kids had to go through such a disturbing incident, would she just leave them in such an unsafe environment without any worry about what will happen to them living with a psychopath? I know Maya is the biological mother but in ITV world since they can't use their brains and take custody of the child using this reason, they could've at least shown her being worried about Choti and how she could leave her in this situation?
Are the makers deliberately trying to show that Anuj and CA are really not a priority for her because her actions are the exact opposite of her words, she talks about how much she loves them but is willing to let them suffocate and suffer living with a psychopath because her udaan is important? How can she even be happy in her udaan knowing that her husband and daughter are stuck in such a toxic situation, is that even possible given how "kind and benevolent" she's shown to be?
I'm asking these questions for the simple reason that Anupama was apparently shown to accept Anuj's reason completely and not have an ounce of anger in her for him (although we viewers disagree), so how is what she's doing in such a situation justified?
P.S - I haven't been watching this week so if any of my facts are wrong or I've missed something, please let me know! And I'll be more than happy if they plan to address this in the upcoming episodes, just thinking of how absurd it is that they still haven't!
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