Overreacting!!

I have stopped watching Anupama since whole adoption track but following the story along. And I am big GK fan since ‘Love me mila di jodi’ days. Kudis to his acting skills 🙌🏻

Story-wise, while I understand k Anupama ne foster kiye huye orphan ko bina authorities ko inform kiye kisi manipulative adult k saath jane diya wo galat hai, but I strongly feel Anuj is over reacting to this whole situation at another level.

Bhai legally adopt nahi kiya tha m, bass foster child thi wo. Foster kids can go back to some other adoptive parents or their own parents if they become lawfully available. For ome its like when due to family situation you taking care of your niece or nephew. And when their parent become available, you overreacting kids moving back to their place. 26years jisko stalk kiya usake upar ek foster child ko rakhana is so unhealthy possessiveness 😧

Originally posted by: fan_fiction123

I have stopped watching Anupama since whole adoption track but following the story along. And I am big GK fan since ‘Love me mila di jodi’ days. Kudis to his acting skills 🙌🏻

Story-wise, while I understand k Anupama ne foster kiye huye orphan ko bina authorities ko inform kiye kisi manipulative adult k saath jane diya wo galat hai, but I strongly feel Anuj is over reacting to this whole situation at another level.

Bhai legally adopt nahi kiya tha m, bass foster child thi wo. Foster kids can go back to some other adoptive parents or their own parents if they become lawfully available. For ome its like when due to family situation you taking care of your niece or nephew. And when their parent become available, you overreacting kids moving back to their place. 26years jisko stalk kiya usake upar ek foster child ko rakhana is so unhealthy possessiveness 😧

It seems like Anuj is secretly in love with Maya

But doesn't want to look like another Vanraj being involved in EMA

So he is doing this OTT drama and conveniently blaming it all on Anupama so he doesn't look bad

Originally posted by: fan_fiction123

I have stopped watching Anupama since whole adoption track but following the story along. And I am big GK fan since ‘Love me mila di jodi’ days. Kudis to his acting skills 🙌🏻

Story-wise, while I understand k Anupama ne foster kiye huye orphan ko bina authorities ko inform kiye kisi manipulative adult k saath jane diya wo galat hai, but I strongly feel Anuj is over reacting to this whole situation at another level.

Bhai legally adopt nahi kiya tha m, bass foster child thi wo. Foster kids can go back to some other adoptive parents or their own parents if they become lawfully available. For ome its like when due to family situation you taking care of your niece or nephew. And when their parent become available, you overreacting kids moving back to their place. 26years jisko stalk kiya usake upar ek foster child ko rakhana is so unhealthy possessiveness 😧

Yet another post stating that parents cannot love foster kids like their own and losing them is just like losing a neice or nephew

Shows exactly the kind of harm such regressive shows can cause. I remember in the 80s and 90s that we had doordarshan shows which used to have progressive characters who used to shame pepple trying to differentiate between foster and biological kids

And this is 2023 and we have posts after posts claiming no one can love foster kids and if you are sad after losing your kid, you are over acting

And this post has so many likes here, man its so so difficult to keep patience with such posts here, sigh. We have gone so so back as a society in recent times, its scary and regressive shows like this have part of the blame

This post claims foster kids are like commodities, yahan move kar diya, wahan move kar diya, became available etc. And if anyone loves them and are sad for them? They are over reacting! You can only be sad for losing biological kids, foster kids to pets se bhi gaye guzare hai, losing pets can traumatize owners, but losing foster kids? Dude get over it?

Yeh kya mentality hai bhai. Shows like this are such a blow to foster system and adoption, pushes such regressive agenda in society

Yup anuj aise kaise choti anu pe right jama sakta hai when he is not even legally adopted her

Just because u love choti so much does not mean that for u choti love become above law

Edited

Maza to tub aayejub choti anuj se gussa ho jaaye for leaving anupama

The problem is Anuj never differentiated between a foster or biological child. For him, who has been waiting for a family of his own. Choti was his daughter. She was the pillar of strength while mataji was running to SH at the drop of a hat. She was his family regardless if they had adopted her or not. He lost his family due to mataji being mahaan. Since he is human with flaws, he can not move on in a day, forget his own daughter and start dancing to next festival songs.

People grieve for years for a pet that became a family and here he lost his own family.

Adopted or not, for him it was his daughter.

The daughter that he couldn’t stop from going away.

The daughter that didn’t want to go away but sacrificed her happiness for his.

The daughter for whom he was the father she looked upon.

The daughter for whom he feels he failed to be a father.

Fostering/adoption/legality jo bhi ho lekin shahs ki 24/7 ki service provider ki yeh halat dekh kar acha feel ho raha hai. Anupama ko bada shokh/chaska tha shahs ki service provider bane reh kar khud ko bati hui aurat kehlane ka !

Pata nahi yeh bati hui aurat dukhi kyon hai, usko toh next auto pakad kar shah house ja kar dekhna chahiye ki ab kisko uss ghar mai uski service chahiye.Service provider aise to apne shah customers ko anytime anywhere service dene pohoch jati thi and yaha tak ki unwarranted shah customer ko apne ghar mai rakh kar khichdi bhi khilati thi! Ab kyo bhul gayi apne customers ki services ka?!

Anupama should stay honest with her existing matkas and should never forget her duties as service provider for shahs😏

Tumko Khushi nahi hui ki anupama ne apne sir se khuch matke utha ke Patak diya?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Tumko Khushi nahi hui ki anupama ne apne sir se khuch matke utha ke Patak diya?

Khushi isiliye nahi hui kyon ki shahs ki 24/7 service provider next auto pakad kar shah house yeh dekhne nahi gayi ki ab kisko uski service chahiye!

And yes iss baat ki toh muje behad khushi hai ki 2 matke foot gaye but sirf 2 matke foote hai na. Rest of the all matkas are as it is on her head.

Aur yeh tum kya bol rahi ho ki anupama ne matke patak diye?! Bichari service provider se balance nahi hue isiliye 2 matke foot gaye otherwise jaan-buj kar anupama apne matke kabhi zameen par girayegi toh kya rakkhegi bhi nahi kyunki bubble wali anupama ek din bubble wale maayke ke mooh bole Bapuji ko bata rahi thi ki matke toh har orat ko uthanehi chahiye so aisa matt bolo ki matke patak diye.

Aaj anupama ne vanraj ka Matka Patak diya .keh raha tha anupama ko rani Bana ke rakhega