Oucchhh...Truth Hurts

It was a hard-hitting episode. 👍🏼MAAya is a home-wrecker, shameless, and manipulative woman but what she said was 100% true. She can be termed as a horrible mother for leaving CA at an orphanage but still, she has the most rights in CA. Anuj has finally received the opportunity to rectify the mistake he made by emotionally coercing a mother of three children to adopt a child two days after the marriage.😵 MAAya rightly pointed out that MAA could never prioritize CA over her children. There is absolutely nothing wrong if MAA feels more attached to her three kids than CA. Not everyone can love an adopted kid the same way they love their biological kids, and it's ok. MAA has a lot on her plate and she can never give undivided attention to CA. So, if CA gets undivided attention from her birth mother, then why would she not stay with her? She will always be treated as an unwanted child by Baa, V, Pakhi, and Toshu, and MAA could never cut off the Shahs from her life, so it's better if CA stays with MAAya where she won't be treated as unwanted. This society will always treat adopted kids as inferior. Why would CA be subjected to such treatments her entire life when she can live as a biological child? A kid whose mother is alive and is perfectly capable of taking care of her should not live with adopted parents just to satisfy the egos of the adopted parents. Anuj should step into the real world. Instead of having unrealistic expectations from MAA, he should let both MAA and CA free. MAA should take care of her three kids while MAAya takes care of her kid. This is the perfect arrangement. Anuj should stop being a man-child and accept the truth.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

It was a hard-hitting episode. 👍🏼MAAya is a home-wrecker, shameless, and manipulative woman but what she said was 100% true. She can be termed as a horrible mother for leaving CA at an orphanage but still, she has the most rights in CA. Anuj has finally received the opportunity to rectify the mistake he made by emotionally coercing a mother of three children to adopt a child two days after the marriage.😵 MAAya rightly pointed out that MAA could never prioritize CA over her children. There is absolutely nothing wrong if MAA feels more attached to her three kids than CA. Not everyone can love an adopted kid the same way they love their biological kids, and it's ok. MAA has a lot on her plate and she can never give undivided attention to CA. So, if CA gets undivided attention from her birth mother, then why would she not stay with her? She will always be treated as an unwanted child by Baa, V, Pakhi, and Toshu, and MAA could never cut off the Shahs from her life, so it's better if CA stays with MAAya where she won't be treated as unwanted. This society will always treat adopted kids as inferior. Why would CA be subjected to such treatments her entire life when she can live as a biological child? A kid whose mother is alive and is perfectly capable of taking care of her should not live with adopted parents just to satisfy the egos of the adopted parents. Anuj should step into the real world. Instead of having unrealistic expectations from MAA, he should let both MAA and CA free. MAA should take care of her three kids while MAAya takes care of her kid. This is the perfect arrangement. Anuj should stop being a man-child and accept the truth.

One thing is very clear now if choti leaves Anuj will leave every expectation from Anupama and he will not care ki Shah house padi rahe ya Kapadia mansion , this Anupama devi is herself living in delusional world ki she can manage everything and tab kyu nahi bataya ki nahi manage kar oayu gi i will forever hate Anupama for this,

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

It was a hard-hitting episode. 👍🏼MAAya is a home-wrecker, shameless, and manipulative woman but what she said was 100% true. She can be termed as a horrible mother for leaving CA at an orphanage but still, she has the most rights in CA. Anuj has finally received the opportunity to rectify the mistake he made by emotionally coercing a mother of three children to adopt a child two days after the marriage.😵 MAAya rightly pointed out that MAA could never prioritize CA over her children. There is absolutely nothing wrong if MAA feels more attached to her three kids than CA. Not everyone can love an adopted kid the same way they love their biological kids, and it's ok. MAA has a lot on her plate and she can never give undivided attention to CA. So, if CA gets undivided attention from her birth mother, then why would she not stay with her? She will always be treated as an unwanted child by Baa, V, Pakhi, and Toshu, and MAA could never cut off the Shahs from her life, so it's better if CA stays with MAAya where she won't be treated as unwanted. This society will always treat adopted kids as inferior. Why would CA be subjected to such treatments her entire life when she can live as a biological child? A kid whose mother is alive and is perfectly capable of taking care of her should not live with adopted parents just to satisfy the egos of the adopted parents. Anuj should step into the real world. Instead of having unrealistic expectations from MAA, he should let both MAA and CA free. MAA should take care of her three kids while MAAya takes care of her kid. This is the perfect arrangement. Anuj should stop being a man-child and accept the truth.

There is a huge difference between not loving a foster kid as much as ones own and completely neglecting them to the point of it being child abuse. Lol, what undivided attention, she gives her NO attention at all

I don't know what message the show is giving, foster kids can and are loved by families, maybe not on such regressive shows, but its sad that the regressive message of this series is now being parroted as facts by people

Also i completely disagree that someone cannot be attached to a kid in a few months. It doesn't matter if its ones own or foster, losing a kid is incredibly traumatic. Anuj's trauma is being downplayed only because he is a guy. A woman can have trauma even if she loses her baby after being pregnant for 3 months, when the baby does not even have limbs or is fully formed

Lets not trivialize the trauma of losing a kid just because someone is a guy, as if a guy cannot get emotionally attached to a kid. Its again perpetuating sexist stereotypes

Agree with your post except this part: Not everyone can love an adopted kid the same way they love their biological kids, and it's ok.

I feel it's not okay as Choti deserves the love and care that Toshu, Samar and Pakhi (err.. forget Samar) get.Anu shouldn't have agreed to adopt Choti and Anuj should have discussed things through with Anu instead of kind of pressurising her (it felt that way).

You are right, the best option now is for Anuj to accept that MaaYa can take better care of Choti and AnupaMaa already has her hands full with her troublemaker kids, and let Choti go.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

It was a hard-hitting episode. 👍🏼MAAya is a home-wrecker, shameless, and manipulative woman but what she said was 100% true. She can be termed as a horrible mother for leaving CA at an orphanage but still, she has the most rights in CA. Anuj has finally received the opportunity to rectify the mistake he made by emotionally coercing a mother of three children to adopt a child two days after the marriage.😵 MAAya rightly pointed out that MAA could never prioritize CA over her children. There is absolutely nothing wrong if MAA feels more attached to her three kids than CA. Not everyone can love an adopted kid the same way they love their biological kids, and it's ok. MAA has a lot on her plate and she can never give undivided attention to CA. So, if CA gets undivided attention from her birth mother, then why would she not stay with her? She will always be treated as an unwanted child by Baa, V, Pakhi, and Toshu, and MAA could never cut off the Shahs from her life, so it's better if CA stays with MAAya where she won't be treated as unwanted. This society will always treat adopted kids as inferior. Why would CA be subjected to such treatments her entire life when she can live as a biological child? A kid whose mother is alive and is perfectly capable of taking care of her should not live with adopted parents just to satisfy the egos of the adopted parents. Anuj should step into the real world. Instead of having unrealistic expectations from MAA, he should let both MAA and CA free. MAA should take care of her three kids while MAAya takes care of her kid. This is the perfect arrangement. Anuj should stop being a man-child and accept the truth.

Many Needed Questions, but there will be no impact, this enlightenment syndrome will last for few hours or days😳,whenever some sensible question were asked , we will be served with some irrational scenarios.They will defenitly justify Maa by all means.there are two options left from here,Save Choti or Sacrifice Anuj. Sence and Anupamaa(DKP) can't coexist together🤓.

Anuj wants CA because he has wholeheartedly accepted her as his daughter, is a fact but Anupama is also saying all her 4 kids are equal for her and she is equally begging Maya to leave CA with them

Its not Anuj who had unrealistic expectations, but Anupama who thinks she is some superwoman and can manage everything and everyone singlehandedly, she is still not accepting that her three adult kids will always be her topmost priority and even Baa’s khichdi is more important than CA

Anuj must be 45+ in age and he got to experience the feeling of being a father and having a child at this age, while he has been all alone all his life, so obviously his love and affection for CA will be more as Anupama by 45 years of age was already a mother of three, nothing Anuj is feeling is unhealthy or obsessive, it’s Anupama’s obsession with her three grown up kids and Shahs which is super unhealthy and obsessive and is one of the main reasons Maya feels CA does not have a good future in this family or she developed feelings for Anuj because she got to stay in Anuj’s house because Anupama invited her, left her husband and child with Maya and stayed in Shah house

Maya just spitted some hard hitting facts and showed the mirror to the greatest Maa today and everyone else was speechless because what Maya said was 100% true

And it’s funny Anupama still thinks and is convincing Anuj that no court or police is required we can have CA back from Maya just by showing her how CA is more happy with them, they all call themselves a family who just create tamasha on every festival and occasion and humiliate each other, Anupama lives in a bubble and finally the bubble burst, no one forced her to love or take care of CA, in fact no father should have to ask a mother or beg, to look after and give some attention to their child, but Anuj had to do that multiple times and even when Anupama was with CA her mind and heart are always in Shah house

Originally posted by: Harish111

There is a huge difference between not loving a foster kid as much as ones own and completely neglecting them to the point of it being child abuse. Lol, what undivided attention, she gives her NO attention at all

I don't know what message the show is giving, foster kids can and are loved by families, maybe not on such regressive shows, but its sad that the regressive message of this series is now being parroted as facts by people

Also i completely disagree that someone cannot be attached to a kid in a few months. It doesn't matter if its ones own or foster, losing a kid is incredibly traumatic. Anuj's trauma is being downplayed only because he is a guy. A woman can have trauma even if she loses her baby after being pregnant for 3 months, when the baby does not even have limbs or is fully formed

Lets not trivialize the trauma of losing a kid just because someone is a guy, as if a guy cannot get emotionally attached to a kid. Its again perpetuating sexist stereotypes

Exactly my thoughts 👍

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

Anuj wants CA because he has wholeheartedly accepted her as his daughter, is a fact but Anupama is also saying all her 4 kids are equal for her and she is equally begging Maya to leave CA with them

Its not Anuj who had unrealistic expectations, but Anupama who thinks she is some superwoman and can manage everything and everyone singlehandedly, she is still not accepting that her three adult kids will always be her topmost priority and even Baa’s khichdi is more important than CA

Anuj must be 45+ in age and he got to experience the feeling of being a father and having a child at this age, while he has been all alone all his life, so obviously his love and affection for CA will be more as Anupama by 45 years of age was already a mother of three, nothing Anuj is feeling is unhealthy or obsessive, it’s Anupama’s obsession with her three grown up kids and Shahs which is super unhealthy and obsessive and is one of the main reasons Maya feels CA does not have a good future in this family or she developed feelings for Anuj because she got to stay in Anuj’s house because Anupama invited her, left her husband and child with Maya and stayed in Shah house

Maya just spitted some hard hitting facts and showed the mirror to the greatest Maa today and everyone else was speechless because what Maya said was 100% true

And it’s funny Anupama still thinks and is convincing Anuj that no court or police is required we can have CA back from Maya just by showing her how CA is more happy with them, they all call themselves a family who just create tamasha on every festival and occasion and humiliate each other, Anupama lives in a bubble and finally the bubble burst, no one forced her to love or take care of CA, in fact no father should have to ask a mother or beg, to look after and give some attention to their child, but Anuj had to do that multiple times and even when Anupama was with CA her mind and heart are always in Shah house

Wohi Toh. Anu can never ever leave Shahs. So, if Anuj wants the best for CA then he should either leave Anu or let CA go with MAAya. He can't have it both ways.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

It was a hard-hitting episode. 👍🏼MAAya is a home-wrecker, shameless, and manipulative woman but what she said was 100% true. She can be termed as a horrible mother for leaving CA at an orphanage but still, she has the most rights in CA. Anuj has finally received the opportunity to rectify the mistake he made by emotionally coercing a mother of three children to adopt a child two days after the marriage.😵 MAAya rightly pointed out that MAA could never prioritize CA over her children. There is absolutely nothing wrong if MAA feels more attached to her three kids than CA. Not everyone can love an adopted kid the same way they love their biological kids, and it's ok. MAA has a lot on her plate and she can never give undivided attention to CA. So, if CA gets undivided attention from her birth mother, then why would she not stay with her? She will always be treated as an unwanted child by Baa, V, Pakhi, and Toshu, and MAA could never cut off the Shahs from her life, so it's better if CA stays with MAAya where she won't be treated as unwanted. This society will always treat adopted kids as inferior. Why would CA be subjected to such treatments her entire life when she can live as a biological child? A kid whose mother is alive and is perfectly capable of taking care of her should not live with adopted parents just to satisfy the egos of the adopted parents. Anuj should step into the real world. Instead of having unrealistic expectations from MAA, he should let both MAA and CA free. MAA should take care of her three kids while MAAya takes care of her kid. This is the perfect arrangement. Anuj should stop being a man-child and accept the truth.

Aisha, from reading recap and seeing little bit of the clip on YouTube, I was beyond speechless when I saw her say you can never prioritize my child. Rest of your life you will be going back and forth, I do not want my child to have a part time mother. They all were all speechless. No one could say anything because like you said truth hurts.👏

Thank you, Maa for pointing out to the great MaAn, what I have been wanting to say since mid November when I finally woke up from the (Anu is the best )mother coma.😂👏😂.

Originally posted by: Harish111

There is a huge difference between not loving a foster kid as much as ones own and completely neglecting them to the point of it being child abuse. Lol, what undivided attention, she gives her NO attention at all

I don't know what message the show is giving, foster kids can and are loved by families, maybe not on such regressive shows, but its sad that the regressive message of this series is now being parroted as facts by people

Also i completely disagree that someone cannot be attached to a kid in a few months. It doesn't matter if its ones own or foster, losing a kid is incredibly traumatic. Anuj's trauma is being downplayed only because he is a guy. A woman can have trauma even if she loses her baby after being pregnant for 3 months, when the baby does not even have limbs or is fully formed

Lets not trivialize the trauma of losing a kid just because someone is a guy, as if a guy cannot get emotionally attached to a kid. Its again perpetuating sexist stereotypes

True, but his behaviour towards the biological mother was extremely inappropriate. He judged her for her past and seemed to perpetuate stereotypes as well. It was gross.

Moreover, being in denial that she is her biological mother, has rights over her, and is capable of taking care of her is beyond a trauma response. And then threatening to use his power against her. It's not right.

That should not be justified.