Kinjal doesn't deserve this hate - Page 8

Sometimes it happens. But it wasn't in Kinjal's case. If the child felt so neglected, it means Rakhi was really no available for her many times. See no parent can be around their children 24*7. Lekin aise bhi log hai dunia mein who are too busy that they forget they have a family. So, yes, do we need to appreciate Rakhi for working hard? Yes. But she did made mistakes along the way by prioritizing her work over her daughter. That's all i mean. I am not saying that parents are superheroes or something. Time and affection naam ki bhi koi cheez hoti hai sirf paise se insaan khush nahin rehta. People need money and affectionate relationships.

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

So Rakhi hides the truth and Kinjal is to be blamed for the good image she's for her father?

I've actually lots of respect for Rakhi but she f#cked up majorly as a mother. You don't teach your kids dishonesty, and wtf are you on about how she made the money? It's not everything, when it comes to motherhood both Anu and Rakhi are wrong, they're extremes and that's not okay. When you just earn money and neglect your kid, they're gonna be messed up, and it's your fault. Rakhi didn't raise her daughter single handedly, earning and spending money isnt raising a child. Her nannies, her loneliness raised her. Humans are complex social creatures, despite how important money is in a capitalist economy, on a basic level, evolutionary we need company, love, people, community way more.

Rakhi is an incredible woman, faced so much, and came out stronger, maybe a lot harsher from life, but she made some huge mistakes along the way, just like everyone, including Anu, kinjal etc. She should've told Kinjal the truth about her dad. And most deffo not asked Anu to hide infidelity thing, she knows what hiding something like this can do to a family, yet she did this?? She also shouldn't have been unnecessarily a drama queen just to stir shit. That's not a good thing for anyone. Newsflash: If you're gonna be one of those parents who work and think leaving a trust fund will make your kids love you while nannies raise them, nah, ur kids are gonna love the trust fund, not you. Parenting isnt popping out a kid, it's raising them.

Rakhi doesn't deserve kinjal's insults. No mother deserves such insults from her own daughter in front of outsiders.

Kinjal absolutely insults her mother without using her tiny brain.

Kinjal ki mom ne kabhi kabhi usko bahot sahi guide kiya tha, practical reality dikhaya tha life ka but kinjal ko anupama version 2.0 banne ka bhut savar rehta hai. Koi bhi mother nahi chahegi ki uski beti anupama bane.

Rakhi ne bhi galatiya ki hogi but she doesn't deserve insults from her daughter. For me, no mother deserves insulting attitude of child.

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

It is understandable if you are a child but now as a working woman kanjal should understand rakhi.

Now also in kapadiya mention she will expect anupama to do all her work and take care of aarya too.

I don't know how is kapadiya's business running now. anuj can't work because of paralysis, bother is not doing work there anupama is busy.

actually, you are not able to see.

anupama ne saare projects pad liye hai; approve kar diye hai

ab woh run karte karte itni door nikal gaye ki hamara dekh pana bahut mushkil hai😆

same as like restaurant jo bahut accha chal raha hai. woh toh honeymoon manate manate in dono ne complete kar liya tha

on serious note, one day, you will come to know the business is progressing by leap and bounds through Anuj-- kaise kar leti hai meri anu sab kuch ek saath.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Rakhi doesn't deserve kinjal's insults. No mother deserves such insults from her own daughter in front of outsiders.

Kinjal absolutely insults her mother without using her tiny brain.

Kinjal ki mom ne kabhi kabhi usko bahot sahi guide kiya tha, practical reality dikhaya tha life ka but kinjal ko anupama version 2.0 banne ka bhut savar rehta hai. Koi bhi mother nahi chahegi ki uski beti anupama bane.

Rakhi ne bhi galatiya ki hogi but she doesn't deserve insults from her daughter. For me, no mother deserves insulting attitude of child.

So your issue is with Kinjal insulting her mom, and she should not do it JUST bcz she's a mother. Here's the thing, being a mom, dad, or any old person doesnt and should not geet you respect. It's earned. Kinjal rightfully called her mom out on her shit, and that's not insult, that's truth. When Anu used to say I'm not gonna say anything bad to her MIL bcz she's older, everyone used to bash her, rightfully, but somehow Kinjal standing up to her mom is bad?

I honestly would've liked if they didnt make Rakhi too much of drama queen, bcz successful women dont stir shit like that, they're actually busy. But in current form, this is a woman who continuously stirs shit at her daughter's house, not even the bitchiest drama queen dayan would do that. Wo bhi 4 ghar chodkar kuch karti hai.

Originally posted by: Jefen

If Kinjal is complaining that her mother din give her time, it means something, right? She must have felt left out and Rakhi might have been emotionally unavailable for her. She doesn't insult Rakhi but speaks against her when Rakhi insults people around her. Everytime we see Rakhi commenting and insulting people. As a daughter, Kinjal would obviously correct her mother. It is not about being 24/7 available for the children. There are many homemakers who have no job but are not emotionally available for their children. They are always busy with their work here and there.

And this Rakhi has always been disrespectful towards others. I still remember that one instance when she made Baa and babuji pick up beads from the floor when she was sitting on baa's jhula. Which daughter would be happy with a mother who only insults her in-laws. Imagine a scenario where Anupama goes to Pakhi's sasural and always insulta people there. Rakhi has never been a good person also. Just recently he comes off as a woman whose hearts aches for the right reasons.

So according to you successful working mothers who aren't able to make time for their children due to work happen to be bad mother's? And what about fathers who happen to be away due to work? Why is only a mother bad if she is working hard to bring food to the table?

There are so many children raised by working mothers in a dual income family but they don't go and try to change their mothers because they feel left out.

Rakhi doesn't insult just anyone, and her insults make sense most of the time if you look at it from a neutral perspective. From what I have seen she has only been disrespectful towards the Shah family no one else and its pretty understandable why. However that doesn't justify Kinjal being disrespectful towards Rakhi.

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

So your issue is with Kinjal insulting her mom, and she should not do it JUST bcz she's a mother. Here's the thing, being a mom, dad, or any old person doesnt and should not geet you respect. It's earned. Kinjal rightfully called her mom out on her shit, and that's not insult, that's truth. When Anu used to say I'm not gonna say anything bad to her MIL bcz she's older, everyone used to bash her, rightfully, but somehow Kinjal standing up to her mom is bad?

I honestly would've liked if they didnt make Rakhi too much of drama queen, bcz successful women dont stir shit like that, they're actually busy. But in current form, this is a woman who continuously stirs shit at her daughter's house, not even the bitchiest drama queen dayan would do that. Wo bhi 4 ghar chodkar kuch karti hai.

Don't you think the same logic applies to Anupamaa then? Why do you people expect Pakhi and Toshu to respect her? That way Pakhi was also not wrong for calling out Anupamaa for the decisions she has made. If respect is earned. From their perspective Anupamaa hasn't earned their respect if we go by your logic.

Rakhi doesn't need to stir any drama in that house even without her there is drama going on in that house 24x7. But kinjal doesn't seem to have a problem with that? She has no problem with the shit done by Vanraj and had no issue living in the same house as him, she has no issue putting up with shit baa does nor does she ever answer her back so why single out only Rakhi?

And who says daughter can't love her own SaaS. Kunti and draupdi share good bonding

Even after death of Abhimanyu Subhadra and uttara share good bonding

Even Sita and Kaushhlya share good bonding

Koi jarooori nahi bonding has to be among blood relation ship bonding can happen in apart from blood relation ship

We use to love bonding between jogi Thakur and iccha in. Uttaran serial .where jogi Thakur accidentally kill iccha father in childhood.after death iccha mother Damini come to work in jogi Thakur full time maid

Damini did not know that jogi is same Thakur who accidentally killed her husband

One day Damini come to know about that jogi is same person who accidentally killed her husband in car accident .Damini confront jogi jogi feel guilty and send u can send me jail .Damini said what is use of sending jail will ichha get her father back

So jogi Thakur become foster father of icha and ask her to call him papa then jogi Thakur took all responsibility of iccha like sending her school doing her home work. And even punishing her own daughter tapssya when tapaya try to harm icha .

Icha also treat jogi Thakur as her father .even whe icha come to know that jogi accidentally killed her father she still does not hate him still consider her as father

So we love bonding between icha and jogi though they dint have blood relation ship

Us Uttaran serial mein maid Damini aur Malik jogi ki aching bonding dikhayi thi we love that too

There was no affair between maid Damini and Mallik jogi Thakur but whenever problem is with iccha they share grievance and share pain with each other and try to console each other whenever Damini and jogi feel sad because of family trouble

Fact is that rakhi was more businesses woman than mother .

For being mother rakhi has to be spend time with her daughter which she did not .and kinjal want her mother rakhi not businesses woman rakhi

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

So your issue is with Kinjal insulting her mom, and she should not do it JUST bcz she's a mother. Here's the thing, being a mom, dad, or any old person doesnt and should not geet you respect. It's earned. Kinjal rightfully called her mom out on her shit, and that's not insult, that's truth. When Anu used to say I'm not gonna say anything bad to her MIL bcz she's older, everyone used to bash her, rightfully, but somehow Kinjal standing up to her mom is bad?

I honestly would've liked if they didnt make Rakhi too much of drama queen, bcz successful women dont stir shit like that, they're actually busy. But in current form, this is a woman who continuously stirs shit at her daughter's house, not even the bitchiest drama queen dayan would do that. Wo bhi 4 ghar chodkar kuch karti hai.

I have never seen rakhi is not giving support and attention to kinjal. They have never shown any flashback of kinjal's childhood. Kinjal teel ka taad bana rahi ho aisa bhi ho sakta hai.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I have never seen rakhi is not giving support and attention to kinjal. They have never shown any flashback of kinjal's childhood. Kinjal teel ka taad bana rahi ho aisa bhi ho sakta hai.

Yes because supportive women start shit at their own daughter's home like Rakhi. Yep, kinjal is making teel ka taad while even though her mom quietly acknowledged she wasnt much present bcz she's busy during her god bharai.