Kinjal doesn't deserve this hate - Page 7

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

Sorry, she has never acted her age either too mature while justifying Vannu's emotions or behaving like cry baby.

Yes, before marriage she was portrayed as a strong independent lady, who supported Anupama for dance classes, driving, and divorce. The sudden change in her arc is not digestible.

No parent is perfect and they can't give time and facilities both together. for this , kids argue become angry with their parents but not starting hating or insult parents.

Her going to Kapadia mansion. A person can do such thing only she/he has the option. otherwise, nothing is seen except parents.

Sometimes, even parents do not support ....She is lucky that she has supportive mother, strong financial background, is herself independent.

I want to share experience of my first cousin who left the her sasural with 3-year kid after you can say long battle. she is educated ( MBA) but was not doing job. Her mother is not alive, father bed-ridden, died last month. she did not want to be burden on her bhayia- bhabhi. so living with chacha-chachi. now, she wanted to enroll him in good school, not govt. school. For admission and fees, she needs money. somehow, got him enrolled in school. Taking English tuitions. now her ques to me was Didi, how would I mange kid and finance both. shall I leave him in day-boarding, they are expensive.can I get some part-time job but will I be able to earn so much money in part-time job. what should I answer?

One more point-- I am not in favour of toshu and and dont say what he did to Kinju is forgivable. infidelity or emotional cheating by a man or woman has an everlasting impact on victim along with kids, not only results in profound emotional damage but damage self-esteem also ,and It even has ripple effect to other people living in the home, especially children.

but I have not any sympathy for kinju as I am not able to connect with this character.

By the logic that kinju baby gives for her mother, when was she with her husband. Marriage is a bond bw husband -wife first, after that other relatives.

There is only one right path for kinjal now that she lefts shah house and go with rakhi than file for divorce. Toshu will come back to shah house if not today than tomorrow and anupamaa will also forgive him one day.

Rakhi was against marriage with toshu because she saw how he treated his own mother.after vanraaj affair also toshi didn't stand with anupama so she knows his mentality.

There is no mother in world who wants her daughter to live in a household like shah so after marriage she give them a paint house.

Nuclear family is not a big deal.

Toshu is at fault for EMA not kinjal for sure

If you wife ignores you misbehaves with you talks rude you have still no right to do EMA just divorce than do whatever you want

By EMA a husband is not only betraying wife but the woman hes having affair with as 80% men will not say they just want fling not serious relationship

Kinjal behaviour with rakhi is between rakhi and kinjal toshu or anupama cannot punish her for misbehaving with rakhi

Only nandini stood up for her family when Shahs abused that is kavya and was thrown out of home and engagement broken for that fact

All i can say no one else in world can become mother father to anyone daughter in law or son in law etc a father mother can never be replaced n life by an anupama or some other mahaan devis

In few years toshu will be back home or get connected to his family after their anger dies down than all will be playing garba together with toshu including anupam anad anuj kapadia

Kinjal is greatest fool in world cannot believe shes done MBA working and a mother with such low knowledge of life

Once shahs and anupama acacept toshu kinjal will run into rakhi and her dads arms only

Own mother is mother foster mother is name sake mother only no human love others kids over their own although outside they may pretent like anupama for few years or months

Originally posted by: Snowdrrop

Who made kanjal independent.it was rakhi who provides everything to her. Anupama and shah's made loosers like toshu samar and pakhi.

Anupama is independent because she was not left with any choice so she opened dance academy but now that is close and she is working in anuj business. If anuj was not there than ......

Now kinjal will go out for work and left Arya with anupama.So now also anupama will do babysitting for her and become dependent on anuj.

anyways kya guyan ukhad legi anupama office jake

does anupama know how to read legal docs or business terms and sign it or financial statements

she must be blindly signing them as she will not understand abc of client agreements or balance sheets pl statements etc neither she interested to study PUC degree MBA etc or even english classes

Atleast for sake o baby she will be with anuj thank the God for small mercy and be happy anuj kapadia

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Agar kinjal ne padhai nahi ki hoti then how can rakhi made her independent one can give money bit padhna khud padhta hai .to aaj kinjal self independent bani hai kyonki use khud padhai mein interest tha

Agar Anuj nahi aata to ..anupama has already teaching online dance and she already working as s.u.p.w teacher even before Anuj come .Agar Anuj nahi aata to bhi anupama apne online dance class ko expand karti hai

True but she would never get respect from world like being Mrs anuj kapadia

Originally posted by: myviewprem

True but she would never get respect from world like being Mrs anuj kapadia

she will be living a middle class life and listening tanaa of all like earlier.

Originally posted by: Jefen

The point I made with not being available during delivery is that owing to her work schedules Rakhi must have made Kinjal feel neglected as a child that's y she is not emotionally attached. Plus Kinjal leaving Shah house is not for some regular women's post-delivery issue. She is leaving coz she was betrayed and living there is not helping her. She herself needs recovery. In fact, she is trying to be strong for her kid that's y she is seeking help. She isn't going to some stranger. She is gng to Anupama and Anuj. All this time we have seen and we know that Kinjal trusts Anupama a lot. If she trusts her so much, it's normal for her to look for Anupama. She is also going to Anupama so that Anupama doesn't have to come to Shah house again and again. She isn't communicating with Rakhi coz she doesn't trust her as much as she trusts Anupama. Now we can't force someone to trust anyone. Trust is earned and Rakhi already broke her trust again and again and the recent supporting Toshu is way too much.

We all have working mothers too who went to office 9am to 6pm and went on tours few days

Are we angry at our mothers no

Indeed we are grateful because of our mothers hard work we got nice clothes nice food nice trips nice pocket money which we may not get if only dad working not mom

Its ok if our mom not there from 8am to 8pm on weekday only sunday there

Cannot kinjal think like that what great sacrifice her mom did working 28 years of her life after kinjal born

Mazak ki baat toh nahi hai office jana sab employee sambhalna phir ghar ana bacche ke pas 1 ghanta take hare baitna phir sulana

You cannot have cake and eat it too you hv to sacrifice luxury or pparent time in world as child

Gratitude bhi koi cheez hoti hai bachon main

Ek aurat hokar kinjal cannot see rakhi strggle in male indian patriarchal society

Kinjal was attacked by one man in office she shivered imagine how many men may have attacked rakhi at work because aurat PM bhi ho aadmi gandhi nazar dalthe hain duniya main even USA or india

But Rakhi suffered all that for kinjal sake to give her luxury and that lady treats mom like this

Originally posted by: myviewprem

We all have working mothers too who went to office 9am to 6pm and went on tours few days

Are we angry at our mothers no

Indeed we are grateful because of our mothers hard work we got nice clothes nice food nice trips nice pocket money which we may not get if only dad working not mom

Its ok if our mom not there from 8am to 8pm on weekday only sunday there

Cannot kinjal think like that what great sacrifice her mom did working 28 years of her life after kinjal born

Mazak ki baat toh nahi hai office jana sab employee sambhalna phir ghar ana bacche ke pas 1 ghanta take hare baitna phir sulana

You cannot have cake and eat it too you hv to sacrifice luxury or pparent time in world as child

It is understandable if you are a child but now as a working woman kanjal should understand rakhi.

Now also in kapadiya mention she will expect anupama to do all her work and take care of aarya too.

I don't know how is kapadiya's business running now. anuj can't work because of paralysis, bother is not doing work there anupama is busy.

Originally posted by: Jefen

The point is not that Rakhi doesn't love her daughter or cares enough for her delivery. The point is that she wasn't available for Kinjal when she needed her. Delivery ka we can understand coz it can happen anytime. But think ki similar incidents must have happened when Kinjal was a kid too. Usko maa chahiye hogi and she wasn't available.

I had once met accident and my parents took 2 days to come back home once as kid

They came running back but were too far to reach

So what i am not going to say maid only thi mom dad nahi teh siblings bhi nahi the sab bahar the

because i know they care for me even 5000 kms away hue bhi toh kya hua

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Kinjal deserves all the hate and much more for being ghatiya daughter.
Kinjal ke baap ne bhi kinjal ki maa ko cheat kiya . Kinjal ke baap ne bhi ayaashi ki . Kinjal ke baap ne extra marital affair kiya. Kinjal ko yeh tak nahi pata ki uski maa ne apne dil mai kitna dard daba kar usko itna accha life diya hai . Kinjal ke mind mai aj uske father ka jo bhi accha image hai woh isiliye kyunki uski mother ne Kinjal ki nazar se uske baap ko girne nahi diya .

Rakhi Dave ne dekha jaye toh single handledly apni beti ko raise kiya. Rakhi ke father se virasat mai mile business ko Rakhi ne naye mukai tak apne hardwork se pohchaya. Beti ki acchi parwarish ke liye kaam kiya , career banaya .

Kinjal ki soch itni choti hai ki usko toh apni working mother ki struggles bhi kabhi nazar nahi ayi . Hamesha complain karte he dekha hai Kinjal ko . Shame on Kinjal 🤮

Rakhi is way better mother than anupama! Apni beti ko cold coffee and burger bana kar nahi diya but cold coffee and burger ka paisa khud Kama rahi thi . Kinjal ko yeh nahi dikhta ki uski maa ne usko cold coffee nana kar isiliye nahi diya kyunki uski maa coffee kharid ne ka paisa kamane bahar jati thi.

So Rakhi hides the truth and Kinjal is to be blamed for the good image she's for her father?

I've actually lots of respect for Rakhi but she f#cked up majorly as a mother. You don't teach your kids dishonesty, and wtf are you on about how she made the money? It's not everything, when it comes to motherhood both Anu and Rakhi are wrong, they're extremes and that's not okay. When you just earn money and neglect your kid, they're gonna be messed up, and it's your fault. Rakhi didn't raise her daughter single handedly, earning and spending money isnt raising a child. Her nannies, her loneliness raised her. Humans are complex social creatures, despite how important money is in a capitalist economy, on a basic level, evolutionary we need company, love, people, community way more.

Rakhi is an incredible woman, faced so much, and came out stronger, maybe a lot harsher from life, but she made some huge mistakes along the way, just like everyone, including Anu, kinjal etc. She should've told Kinjal the truth about her dad. And most deffo not asked Anu to hide infidelity thing, she knows what hiding something like this can do to a family, yet she did this?? She also shouldn't have been unnecessarily a drama queen just to stir shit. That's not a good thing for anyone. Newsflash: If you're gonna be one of those parents who work and think leaving a trust fund will make your kids love you while nannies raise them, nah, ur kids are gonna love the trust fund, not you. Parenting isnt popping out a kid, it's raising them.

In one of episode when toshu went to rakhi house rakhi tell toshu that we eat dinner by 6 30 pm and then every body go to their own room

After having dinner kinjal go to her room for studies and rakhi go to her own she busy her own work and Pramod is generally out of station and busy in her own work

Means after having dinner every body sitting alone doing their own work .there was no family concept in rakhi .they don't play game together they don't talk to each other they don't eat together

And this is what kinjal was craving ki bus earn Karlo dinner Karloshir sub apne room mein shift ho jaao but family ka concept hai hi nahi and no wonder why kinjal feel alone and become bore of loniness and no wonder why kinjal has complain with rakhi because Rakhi never understand her daughter loneliness that whom she will talk . Kinjal cannot talk to her nanny what happen in school she can only talk to rakhi but rakhi ko kinjal ke baat karne ki kahan fursat thi ?